FabSwingers.com forum: Meltdown

By *Johm OP Couple
over a year ago

near Bilingshurst

Hi everyone! Just thinking,maybe bit worrying either! We hava active sex life,we do a lot of sports, plus working like horses! Lol. All of the sudden I have like meltdown on sex, not like I can't perform, but don't have passion about it! Feels boring! Although Mrs is in top of everything! Is it my stupid head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much stress at work?

Too much porn and you've become desensitised a bit?

Too rushed?

So many things can affect your sex drive. Talk it through with your wife and see if there's a trigger that's causing your dip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes probably in your head.

Lots of things can affect your libido

Bad diet

Lack of exercise

Drinking too much

Stress

Too much porn

Mid life crisis

Drugs

Age

All of the above can give you lack of desire sexually.

Age is a big thing too as alot of people naturally slow down in thdir desire for sex and frequency etc.

Your testosterone levels slowly decrease over time which affdcts your libido.

Same things can affect somen too.

If its an age thing then just accept it as partbof growing old as the more you worry the more it will effect your performance.

We all get old mate unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes probably in your head.

Lots of things can affect your libido

Bad diet

Lack of exercise

Drinking too much

Stress

Too much porn

Mid life crisis

Drugs

Age

All of the above can give you lack of desire sexually.

Age is a big thing too as alot of people naturally slow down in thdir desire for sex and frequency etc.

Your testosterone levels slowly decrease over time which affdcts your libido.

Same things can affect somen too.

If its an age thing then just accept it as partbof growing old as the more you worry the more it will effect your performance.

We all get old mate unfortunately

Dear Lord, he's only 33!!!!!

Age aside any or a mix of the above could be causing a dip in your libido OP, take some time out and above all don't over analyse it, chances are you will be back on form in next to no time.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I like to take a time out from time to time. We're not machines - things do change. You can take a little break to evaluate priorities. Don't let it stress you - its normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes probably in your head.

Lots of things can affect your libido

Bad diet

Lack of exercise

Drinking too much

Stress

Too much porn

Mid life crisis

Drugs

Age

All of the above can give you lack of desire sexually.

Age is a big thing too as alot of people naturally slow down in thdir desire for sex and frequency etc.

Your testosterone levels slowly decrease over time which affdcts your libido.

Same things can affect somen too.

If its an age thing then just accept it as partbof growing old as the more you worry the more it will effect your performance.

We all get old mate unfortunately

Dear Lord, he's only 33!!!!!

Age aside any or a mix of the above could be causing a dip in your libido OP, take some time out and above all don't over analyse it, chances are you will be back on form in next to no time.

Didnt see his age only looked at his photo and thought he was in his late 40's .

Sorry .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its an age thing then just accept it as partbof growing old as the more you worry the more it will effect your performance.

We all get old mate unfortunately

Dear Lord, he's only 33!!!!!

Age aside any or a mix of the above could be causing a dip in your libido OP, take some time out and above all don't over analyse it, chances are you will be back on form in next to no time.

Didnt see his age only looked at his photo and thought he was in his late 40's .

Sorry .

It wasn't a criticism, it made me laugh.

And at 57 I would still argue that late 40s isn't old age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to take a time out from time to time. We're not machines - things do change. You can take a little break to evaluate priorities. Don't let it stress you - its normal."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its an age thing then just accept it as partbof growing old as the more you worry the more it will effect your performance.

We all get old mate unfortunately

Dear Lord, he's only 33!!!!!

Age aside any or a mix of the above could be causing a dip in your libido OP, take some time out and above all don't over analyse it, chances are you will be back on form in next to no time.

Didnt see his age only looked at his photo and thought he was in his late 40's .

Sorry .

It wasn't a criticism, it made me laugh.

And at 57 I would still argue that late 40s isn't old age

Lol I was just trying to point out that its ok not to have the same sexual urges as a teenager as you get older

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Meltdowns happen. Take a break from it all. Im on a long break myself

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By *Johm OP Couple
over a year ago

near Bilingshurst

Really! Here we go another stress over my head! Late 40's they say!?

LOL

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