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By *tocking Fan 50 OP   Man
over a year ago

Perthshire/Fife

Looking for update advice on my profile. I don't show pics except to friends, but what else can I do to make my profile more attractive.

putting my pics open would only make it less attractive anyway!!! Lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Self-deprecation should only be used sparingly - at least one pic must be reasonable enough to show publicly...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Looking for update advice on my profile. I don't show pics except to friends, but what else can I do to make my profile more attractive.

putting my pics open would only make it less attractive anyway!!! Lol"

If you really feel that way what will happen when you meet in person?

If you don't want to make at least one picture public that's entirely your choice but I reckon not many people will contact a blind profile.

As far as the text goes its ok but if you're relying on words rather than images to attract people you're going to have to make it much more interesting. Personally I don't like your implication that most other men are arseholes because they aren't and it seems that you're bigging yourself up by insulting others so maybe take that bit out.

Good luck

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By *he_Raggedy_DoctorMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Sussex


"Personally I don't like your implication that most other men are arseholes because they aren't and it seems that you're bigging yourself up by insulting others so maybe take that bit out.

Good luck"

No we're not but most on here think we are

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By *tocking Fan 50 OP   Man
over a year ago

Perthshire/Fife

Thanks guys. I'll take it on board

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I don't like your implication that most other men are arseholes because they aren't and it seems that you're bigging yourself up by insulting others so maybe take that bit out.

Good luck

No we're not but most on here think we are "

I'm not sure most do. Some men don't help themselves but us women aren't daft. Our experience has been that being an arsehole isn't limited to single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't like your implication that most other men are arseholes because they aren't and it seems that you're bigging yourself up by insulting others so maybe take that bit out.

Good luck

No we're not but most on here think we are

I'm not sure most do. Some men don't help themselves but us women aren't daft. Our experience has been that being an arsehole isn't limited to single men "

I'd have to agree with this. Whilst I am not inundated with messages I would say that the majority of men I do receive messages from/chat with are not arseholes.

There are arseholes in all walks of life and all genders

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By *he_Raggedy_DoctorMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Sussex


"Personally I don't like your implication that most other men are arseholes because they aren't and it seems that you're bigging yourself up by insulting others so maybe take that bit out.

Good luck

No we're not but most on here think we are

I'm not sure most do. Some men don't help themselves but us women aren't daft. Our experience has been that being an arsehole isn't limited to single men

I'd have to agree with this. Whilst I am not inundated with messages I would say that the majority of men I do receive messages from/chat with are not arseholes.

There are arseholes in all walks of life and all genders "

And we're not just get a bit fed up being discribe as one !

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By *tocking Fan 50 OP   Man
over a year ago

Perthshire/Fife

I can take a hint folks, lol. I've taken out the offending comment. I HAD put it in as a load of the updates, and a fair few profiles that are on my home page keep mentioning the bad experiences with messages, and how some guys get all manic when ignored/deleted.

No worries though

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Personally I don't like your implication that most other men are arseholes because they aren't and it seems that you're bigging yourself up by insulting others so maybe take that bit out.

Good luck

No we're not but most on here think we are

I'm not sure most do. Some men don't help themselves but us women aren't daft. Our experience has been that being an arsehole isn't limited to single men

I'd have to agree with this. Whilst I am not inundated with messages I would say that the majority of men I do receive messages from/chat with are not arseholes.

There are arseholes in all walks of life and all genders "

Never truer words spoken!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can take a hint folks, lol. I've taken out the offending comment. I HAD put it in as a load of the updates, and a fair few profiles that are on my home page keep mentioning the bad experiences with messages, and how some guys get all manic when ignored/deleted.

No worries though "

the problem is that people will often comment on a bad experience when they wouldn't on a good one.

I don't think any of the discussion was aimed at you though it was more a broadening out of the points made.

Sorry if I hijacked

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By *tocking Fan 50 OP   Man
over a year ago

Perthshire/Fife


"I can take a hint folks, lol. I've taken out the offending comment. I HAD put it in as a load of the updates, and a fair few profiles that are on my home page keep mentioning the bad experiences with messages, and how some guys get all manic when ignored/deleted.

No worries though

the problem is that people will often comment on a bad experience when they wouldn't on a good one.

I don't think any of the discussion was aimed at you though it was more a broadening out of the points made.

Sorry if I hijacked "

No, no, you're good. I posted originally for critique, so take it all on the chin

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