FabSwingers.com forum: Couples advice and successful swinging advice needed!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers,

We are a m/f couple and have had our first meet, it was fantastic, however we have all become quite good friends which is something we were never intending to do.

Because we became such good friends and value the friendship we ended the fab side of things-all agreeing the friendship is more valuable. So the question is guys, is do you think awkward feelings/ jealousy may get in the way between us as a couple of how we met/what we did?? Or is it the case that we are new to swinging we are still ironing out feelings around new experiences and that we should just carry on swinging and be glad we've made such a good friend?? cheers guys any advice would be great x

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Hi Fabbers,

We are a m/f couple and have had our first meet, it was fantastic, however we have all become quite good friends which is something we were never intending to do.

Tbh we have some really good friends in the scene that we don't play with because we genuinely don't want to spoil our friendship

But saying that would like a polyamorous relationship with a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have great friends who we have played with and would again

We have great friends who we wouldn't play with as we're not compatible with that side

We have played with people who we didn't even know each others names and probably won't ever see again.

Each encounter you have will result in a different outcome.

If you're all happy being friends and sharing fun times without any further sexual contact then it's a good idea as you won't complicate the relationship with other feelings .

What ever you do you must always do what you want to and feel happy with each other than what others want and not be happy.

Hopefully you can have lot's of fun along the way and make some great friends too.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

As long as everyone is completely opem, honest and upfront and everyone knows what's being said to who. Then there's no reason to be jealous.

You don't say wether it's a couple or Single you've met. If it's a single you will both need to pay attention and think about the others feelings all the more in our experience.

Honesty and openness is the only way and if that doesn't work then put your relationship first and cut contact.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Welcome to the world of swinging!

It happens to us all! We've become good friends with people we've swung with, and playing with them after the genuine friendship developed just felt odd for some reason.

Getting to know people though is always a good way to ensure future meets with them go with a bang, so to speak

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

welcome to the swinging

As long as everyone is completely open, honest and upfront and you all know you want to carry on meeting new people Then there's no reason to be jealous

we have meet really god friends which we dont play with and great fends which we do play with every so often which make it that bit special when we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all, its good to hear you have all moved past this point successfully I think more experience and building up different fab experiences/friendships would help any worries etc other than just comparing to our limited experience! Working out lines of something i read-emotional friends, physical friends and friends with benefits I think and preventinget any issues that may/maynot arise through that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, we don't believe sex can spoil a friendship, and in all honesty we simply love the privilege of fucking our friends.

Mrs

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP do you mean you are on fab as a couple, or have become friends with a male fb / fwb who you met on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have great friends who we have played with and would again

We have great friends who we wouldn't play with as we're not compatible with that side

We have played with people who we didn't even know each others names and probably won't ever see again.

Each encounter you have will result in a different outcome.

If you're all happy being friends and sharing fun times without any further sexual contact then it's a good idea as you won't complicate the relationship with other feelings .

What ever you do you must always do what you want to and feel happy with each other than what others want and not be happy.

Hopefully you can have lot's of fun along the way and make some great friends too.

xx"

Well said yes - this is true for us too - over the past 2and half years our lives have become richer, out attitudes more tolerant and our relationships much more trusting too, m x

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