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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I need a little help with something?

My fella has been recognised from his pics even though face isn't showing and they have told everyone they know it looks like and it's got back to our family, I'm not embarrassed about this but feel a little annoyed,

should I tell admin? Or is this a breach of the agreements of the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not good, this is one of my concerns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think people have got better things to do than cause problems but was he recognised by a regular user of the site or a site visitor?

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

In the meantime I would hide your profile.

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By *ackwithabang2000Couple
over a year ago

Stoke

That's why we keep our pics private unless friends shocking that someone is low enough to tell your family

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By *eliciouslyDifferentWoman
over a year ago

Dursley

I once had a guy shout hello TittyFuck in Tescos (old account) was with my then 11 year old son, was mortified!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There isn't really much you can do about it. Once you upload your pics onto any website they are out there in the public domain and you can't control what happens with them or who sees them.

The way I see it there are a couple of ways to handle it.

You could remove any pics that can identify you and deny everything. Or you could just brazen it out. Tell people what you do in your private life is nobody else's business.

If this person has recognized you the only way they would know you are on here is if they are too. If you wanted to you could out them to their nearest and dearest too.

I wouldn't choose to do that though, i wouldn't lower myself to their level.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you people some other horror stories there,

We've told everyone now anyways and told them if they don't like it it's tough,

No point hiding it anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't really much you can do about it. Once you upload your pics onto any website they are out there in the public domain and you can't control what happens with them or who sees them.

The way I see it there are a couple of ways to handle it.

You could remove any pics that can identify you and deny everything. Or you could just brazen it out. Tell people what you do in your private life is nobody else's business.

If this person has recognized you the only way they would know you are on here is if they are too. If you wanted to you could out them to their nearest and dearest too.

I wouldn't choose to do that though, i wouldn't lower myself to their level.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's horrible I would of been devastated

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By *andorasSecretCouple
over a year ago

Nr Birmingham

Whilst I'm certainly not placing any blame on you but the gym photograph clearly shows your hubby as do the tattoo pics. It doesn't make it right but you have to be so careful with what you post. Trust me I've learnt the hard way. Ali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's difficult cause he's covered in very recognisable tattoos so to stop any recognition I'd have to put no pics of him up at all lol

I just thought people on this site would have more discretion but love and learn haha

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I once had a guy shout hello TittyFuck in Tescos (old account) was with my then 11 year old son, was mortified! "

What a absolute twat to do that to you...grrrrr x

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Its the gamble most take here, Russian roulette, hope you sort it x

I had my sisters husbands nephew contact me...omg ahhhhhh

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Not sure admin would do anything as it's a social media site and all pics are not private is the way I understand it ,,

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

Legally there may be nothing you can do and the site might not act either but from an etiquette point of view it's really not the done thing, I'd be very surprised if they were serious swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is, the person that outed you was obviously on fab to swing or was just perving. Some people have no fucking regard for privacy

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