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Best option for first time

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By *ovemalcontent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

we're pretty new to all this and we wanted to ask for people's opinions. for the first time, would you recommend a meet or a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably easier to meet at a club, quest in leeds is lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a club. Treat it as a good night out. Take tiny steps to see if it's for you. Finding 'good' meets on here is a midfield due to time wasters and fantasists.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we're pretty new to all this and we wanted to ask for people's opinions. for the first time, would you recommend a meet or a club?"

Definitely a club for a first time as there is a lot less pressure in a club

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By *ssex_VixenWoman
over a year ago

Maldon

Everyone is different, mine and my partners first meet was with an experienced couple. So a quick drink, lots of flirting, an straight back home. We are highly sexual people, an found talking about things before our first meet easy. What we would and would do etc. Limits and rules can work in the early stages, when you become more comfortable you can change them to suit. We not play as a couple and as singles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you are looking for. 23 had our first meet at our house so we were comfortable and in control of it. We are still too daunted to go to a club but others say it suited them better, you just need to have a good chat about what you are looking for and which situation you'd be most comfortable in

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

I'd say a club. That way if they're pushy, raving lunatics, or just not for you it's easier to escape.

You might feel more pressure to do something you don't want if it's a private meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a club definitely, take things at your own pace and enjoy the atmosphere just talking to people.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We'd say a good quality dry club. Somewhere like the vanilla alternative. Which we used for our first time and glad we did.

A lot less pressure and you get to talk to a lot more people in the scene.

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By *ternal OptimistMan
over a year ago

London

A meet that is purely a social is what I would recommend

Can have a laugh, bit of banter, no pressure and you can discuss with partner afterwards their thoughts etc before deciding to go further

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