FabSwingers.com forum: Do's and don't to increase response rate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm new and don't have any meet verifications but I have met with a few couples in the past (not through this site). So I followed the obvious guidlines, have a few pics, photo verification etc. Can't show my face in pics as I'm a working professional. However I barely get any responses. Is it my age or what? From a female/couples point of view, what catches your eye?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A decent profile and close up torso pics.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You say above you have a few pics but only one is public. Would be nice to see a few more. Lots of people on here are "working professionals ". I don't see why you need to mention it. Sounds like you are showing off about it. Wishing you lots of success on here. You sound like a nice, genuine person.

Sally

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

From my point of view the fact you are looking to "attend events" would put me off as it suggests you're not really into one on one meets but will take it if it's going. Also can't accommodate will put some people off. Other than that a few more pics as suggested by others - good luck

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I think what will put most off is your age and that your accom. Your profile doesn't really say anything to me and you only have one pic public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The username is a bit off putting to us.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"The username is a bit off putting to us."

^this

I didn't bother reading the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be gods gift and you would still struggle, it's the way of fab. It isn't an instant hook up site even for those who do meet and those who meet seem to be in the minority. Just try to enjoy the ride and occasionally you might catch someone's eye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From my point of view the fact you are looking to "attend events" would put me off as it suggests you're not really into one on one meets but will take it if it's going. Also can't accommodate will put some people off. Other than that a few more pics as suggested by others - good luck

I can understand that. The reason I'm looking to go to events is to more show I'm serious to be honest. Not a time waster. And to socialise with likeminded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is fine. A couple more pictures wouldn't hurt

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It may put some people off that you have put you are straight and yet you are looking to meet mm couples.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I can understand that. The reason I'm looking to go to events is to more show I'm serious to be honest. Not a time waster. And to socialise with likeminded people. "

Then go. You don't need anyone's permission or hep to do so and socials are a great way of meeting people.

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