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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been talking to a couple they've been members for 7 months but have no verifications. They have pics and a gold membership would you trust it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't trust anyone with none or one verification.

That doesn't mean I won't talk to them and meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not trust them? Just suggest a phone call. That's usually a good qualifier. Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't trust it... people with no verifications after 1 month are definitely time wasters....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we would probably trust them if they are site supporters as I can't imagine fakes paying for the site! However, still take precautions like viewing them on cam or a phone call before meeting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've challenged people who've been here ages with no veris

My god they get shirty

'I've met a few but I don't like veris'

Hmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just haven't found someone they like and now you've come along and they're talking to you and this is how your going to reward them by asking this question to a group of strangers .Me if I was them I'd be dissapointed and tell you to do one if I came across this in the forums,you say you have chatted for months has anything made you feel that they're stringing you along

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By *exy penWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I don't give my phone number out to anyone now, iv had a couple of bad experences so I just chat here and even people iv met a few times still don't have my number.

Only you can decide if you think they are real or time wasters. Ask to meet and find out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they just haven't found someone they like and now you've come along and they're talking to you and this is how your going to reward them by asking this question to a group of strangers .Me if I was them I'd be dissapointed and tell you to do one if I came across this in the forums,you say you have chatted for months has anything made you feel that they're stringing you along "

I only started talking to them today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they just haven't found someone they like and now you've come along and they're talking to you and this is how your going to reward them by asking this question to a group of strangers .Me if I was them I'd be dissapointed and tell you to do one if I came across this in the forums,you say you have chatted for months has anything made you feel that they're stringing you along

I only started talking to them today

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in that case I apologise but still think it is a bit off to ask this quest without at least trying to get to know them better and finding out why they have no veris the upset might be they've had meets and those meets haven't left a verification or have left the site and so their verification has gone as well never jump to a conclusion it will make you look bad

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

We were here a few months with no veri's, we're just taking things at our own pace, so I think it's quite reasonable that they don't have any yet, I wouldn't meet anyone without at least talking to them both on the phone, and then it would have to be a public place.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

You can buy the gold membership for a fiver.

You can get pictures of anything of the Internet.

But this doesn't mean the couple are fake. If they are local, suggest a social meet, then you can verify if their profile is accurate. If further away, Skype or phone call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't trust it... people with no verifications after 1 month are definitely time wasters...."

Horseshit. It took me over two year to get my first verification, are you calling me a timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't trust it... people with no verifications after 1 month are definitely time wasters....

Horseshit. It took me over two year to get my first verification, are you calling me a timewaster?"

Sarcasm....

I'm not verified either

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well we would probably trust them if they are site supporters as I can't imagine fakes paying for the site! However, still take precautions like viewing them on cam or a phone call before meeting xx"

There are hundreds of obvious fakes on Fab who are gold members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't trust it... people with no verifications after 1 month are definitely time wasters...."

Would you count yourself in that group...as you have none after two months? Foot, shot in, self....?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Lol being a gold member means nothing more than they have Fiver to spare.

Verifications can mean nothing some people pick them up very easily. Start off with a social and judge how you feel then.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Don't trust it... people with no verifications after 1 month are definitely time wasters....

Would you count yourself in that group...as you have none after two months? Foot, shot in, self....?"

There's a thread about profiles being deleted if they've not met within a month

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Don't trust it... people with no verifications after 1 month are definitely time wasters....

Would you count yourself in that group...as you have none after two months? Foot, shot in, self....?"

See his post above

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Ask them to go on cam with you then they can get cam verified by you at least OP

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Well we would probably trust them if they are site supporters as I can't imagine fakes paying for the site! However, still take precautions like viewing them on cam or a phone call before meeting xx"

Fakes do have money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't give my phone number out to anyone now, iv had a couple of bad experences so I just chat here and even people iv met a few times still don't have my number.

Only you can decide if you think they are real or time wasters. Ask to meet and find out!"

I,'ve just got a second phone for chatting to people. I too have had problems in past with giving out phone numbers. X

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