FabSwingers.com forum: grrrrrrrrr!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people insist on leading you on?

I've been talking to a lady for a week or so now, we send very dirty messages and get each other riled up, she asks for my number, and doesn't call. So i think ok, perhaps she's fallen asleep, no biggy.

Then today, asks for it agin, after the 5 th time of not talking, and asking to arrange stuff with me to meet in the future, then not responding all of a sudden EVERY single time at the same point, it's so f$%@±ng annoying! Does any one else have this problem?

MY problem is also, I cannot resist this lady, she is SO attractive and we get on so well, and if i ask her about it she doesn't respond!

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Ever thought it's probably some guy getting his rocks off by pretending? Sad but it happens a lot, it gives the saddo a sense of power when you take the bait

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ever thought it's probably some guy getting his rocks off by pretending? Sad but it happens a lot, it gives the saddo a sense of power when you take the bait

Block and move on "

She's got a lot of verifications and have texted briefly.

You are right however, I should probably stop whining and get on with it.

Cheers pal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only way to be sure you're talking to who you think you are is cam to cam and even then, when it's a 'couple' you only ever seam to get the M half wanting to share pics. Bloody minefield in my opinion. Onwards and Upwards...there are some genuine people out there (2 in 10)lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone.....sounds very silly I know, but I hate speaking on the phone even to family & friends.

Maybe she likes to take things slow and is still sussing you out....

Could be lots of different reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone.....sounds very silly I know, but I hate speaking on the phone even to family & friends.

Maybe she likes to take things slow and is still sussing you out....

Could be lots of different reasons..."

oh me too can't explain why as i don't know why myself but i hate chatting on phones i put it off all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever thought it's probably some guy getting his rocks off by pretending? Sad but it happens a lot, it gives the saddo a sense of power when you take the bait

Block and move on "

Absolutely!

If it was me, alarm bells would be ringing loudly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone.....sounds very silly I know, but I hate speaking on the phone even to family & friends.

Maybe she likes to take things slow and is still sussing you out....

Could be lots of different reasons...

oh me too can't explain why as i don't know why myself but i hate chatting on phones i put it off all the time "

I can get shy too

....and I am not kidding either lol.

Seriously OP, this could be the case but trust your instincts. One thing that could help you decide if she is for real or not is checking to see if she is photo-verified. A bloke is going to struggle to pose as a woman and get past admin.

....and I am NOT saying she is fake if she isn't photo-verified, all I'm saying it really could help you make your mind up.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone.....sounds very silly I know, but I hate speaking on the phone even to family & friends.

Maybe she likes to take things slow and is still sussing you out....

Could be lots of different reasons...

oh me too can't explain why as i don't know why myself but i hate chatting on phones i put it off all the time

I can get shy too

....and I am not kidding either lol.

....and I am NOT saying she is fake if she isn't photo-verified, all I'm saying it really could help you make your mind up."

So glad it's not just me and others are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So glad it's not just me and others are the same

I'll ring you later

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Are you having fun the way things are?

i did not hear my Masters voice untill the first time we met,the months before that were full of incredible sexual experiences.If you get on,be happy,enjoy what you have,if you move onto something else,then even better.

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

It's a bloke, happens so often. Just a saddo. Shame because it takes effort to write to people , so much so that's why messages of interest to others get shorter as you realise you might be wasting time. Need to them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought was fake. If she isn't then she's a timewaster - convinced she wants a meet when turned on then bottling it when she comes down.

I don't do cyber anymore because of them. Confirm you're who you say you are on cam and arrange a meet or g'bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought was fake too. There's being shy, we are all nervous talking to people but if she's got verifications to say she's indulged in swinging sex, and quite a few verifications you say, then she can dial a few bloody numbers and say hi.

If she's texting then you'll have her number won't you, tell her you'll ring her to ease her shyness

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