FabSwingers.com forum: Help me get more replies! :D

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay so I'm use to the normal, dating world. And a friend introduced me to this. I'm obviously doing something wrong so please help.

tear my profile a new one and together we can rebuild

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If you say you think you won't be successful on here on your profile, people will think you want to be proved right. I'd remove that. Also, typing out 'haha' is a bit infra dig.

Nice pics though. Maybe smile a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile kinda reads as a profile for a dating site.. what are you hoping to get out of fab and what can you offer potential meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, thank you for the points I'll sort that now ^_^

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

We've just had a look at your profile and can make a few points:

1 - Get yourself photo verified. It's easy to do and helps show you're not just someone who has nicked his mates photos for a bit of a laugh.

2 - We've blocked single men from messaging us because we got a ridiculous amount of messages everyday, most of which were along the lines of "Wanna see my cock? Here it is!" We also got a lot of one line messages from single guys. As long as you're not doing either of those things, you're off to a good start! People get a hell of a lot of messages from single guys - make yours stand out as brightly as a penis that's just had sex with 20 different people! (How's that for a metaphor?!)

3 - Your profile is actually pretty good. No cock pics (kudos on that btw

) You could do with a few more pics on there.

We can't think of anything else, but I'm sure others will.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to put your age and height into the profile text as it says your stats just above.

More pictures would be good some nice body,bum and smiling face!

All I get from your text is that you don't really know why you are here. As single men have the hardest time on this site you kind of need to sell yourself a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know my profile has been verified, I've also added a few more photos

And yeh... not really a fan of showing my junk off or just jumping into bed at a single message haha. (Yes I am a male, just with some self respect for myself and the people I sleep with

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Any more advice would be great. But will see where I go from here ^_^

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Join in more on the forum, in the chat rooms and the meets and clubs section and go to a social and send well crafted messages and meet ladies in the real world in bars and cafes and such like. And 'and' is such a naff connective but hey ho.

Profile wise: more and varied photos and try smiling, add some personality to your text - what sort of person are you? What do you like? What don't you like? What do you look for in a woman sexually?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I know my profile has been verified, I've also added a few more photos

And yeh... not really a fan of showing my junk off or just jumping into bed at a single message haha. (Yes I am a male, just with some self respect for myself and the people I sleep with

)

Any more advice would be great. But will see where I go from here ^_^ "

And don't assume that those who do jump into bed at the first message don't respect themselves or other people. Try to be open minded.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Have a sex change.

Sorted.

Next!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Have a sex change.

Sorted.

Next!"

That might be a bit extreme, even for this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know my profile has been verified, I've also added a few more photos

And yeh... not really a fan of showing my junk off or just jumping into bed at a single message haha. (Yes I am a male, just with some self respect for myself and the people I sleep with

)

Any more advice would be great. But will see where I go from here ^_^

And don't assume that those who do jump into bed at the first message don't respect themselves or other people. Try to be open minded. "

The most important bit of advice I say. Adjust your mindset and your profile accordingly.

When you say "interested in being introduced to new things... if you want to know anymore, feel free to shoot me a message" -- please say what you're after, what your desires or fantasies are, be as specific as you can be at this point. Believe me not many women will take the time to write to ask for more info starting from nothing. Just tell us already

If it is too personal to share with the world, take your face pics to friends/private to allow for some anonymity.

You sound nice, good luck.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You don't need to put your age and height into the profile text as it says your stats just above.

This and are you slim/average build or athletic?

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