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By *eachgoose OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Just after some guidance and opinions, just starting our journey, would you recommend a private meet with a couple or attend a club and just go for it, only had one experience with a couple that wasn't planned

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's difficult to advise someone else. We started with a single guy, a club would have been the worst possible thing as far as I'm concerned. What do you feel you'd enjoy most?

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By *eachgoose OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Thinking club and if it's not what we though then leave, would find it awkward leaving a meet I think, I would imagine easier to meet more people at a club to try strike up friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started at a club, so we could go along and see how it was and leg it if we didn't like it.!

Thankfully we were lucky that the club we chose was great, everyone very friendly and respectful and eased us into things.

A year down the line we help out behind the bar and enjoy chatting to newbies and hopefully easing their way into things too xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thinking club and if it's not what we though then leave, would find it awkward leaving a meet I think, I would imagine easier to meet more people at a club to try strike up friendships "

I guess it would be.

We insist on a social only meet first but have left a party because it wasn't for us.

One thing I would say is that there will come a time when you will have to face the awkward situation of saying no face to face even in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out going to clubs and just played with each other to start with so there was no pressure. This happened for quite a while whilst we got comfortable, we only recently progressed to a swap after meeting a couple in a club and we're very happy with the way we did things.

However, it may not be for everyone of course. We just know it worked for us. Miss T

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By *eachgoose OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's been decided, club tomorrow evening it is

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's been decided, club tomorrow evening it is"

If you put a meet up in the meets or clubs section or browse them, you might find more people who are going too.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Another vote for clubs here - there's no pressure to play (perceived or otherwise), it's a relaxed and generally sexy atmosphere.

The only downside of clubs is if you're shy wallflower types (as we are but are getting better at not being) as you need to be willing to approach and talk to others and not just expect they will talk to you first.

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