FabSwingers.com forum: Blank profiles get so much attention??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do women with no pictures and no real profile get so much attention on here?? I find it strange, guys throw themselves at them not even knowing what they look like? I find it really strange.

You see profile headlines with next to nothing on saying I've got 200 messages.

Might as well name this site blind date!! The guys go for anything, doesn't matter what they look like... must be quite horrible as the female..

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

don't believe everything you see or read on this site mate. If you look at half of the profiles they don't make sense so doesn't take a professor to work out tis all bull shite.

yes...most of the men on here will be on the desperate side so will meet anything that breathes if it's available, just the way it goes mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"don't believe everything you see or read on this site mate. If you look at half of the profiles they don't make sense so doesn't take a professor to work out tis all bull shite.

yes...most of the men on here will be on the desperate side so will meet anything that breathes if it's available, just the way it goes mate."

You're probably right mate. It does put me off sometimes though. Just find it a little weird! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno, when i first joined i did get guys asking to meet, and they sent pics, but i had none and my profile was probably rubbish. but not hundreds.

that only happened after i put pics on, and more so once i got verified.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"don't believe everything you see or read on this site mate. If you look at half of the profiles they don't make sense so doesn't take a professor to work out tis all bull shite.

yes...most of the men on here will be on the desperate side so will meet anything that breathes if it's available, just the way it goes mate.

You're probably right mate. It does put me off sometimes though. Just find it a little weird! Haha "

Why does it put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you first join a lot of men think you don't know how the internet works either. as in they want sex chat and think we'd be naive enough to engage in that.

it's like predator central anywhere when you first join a site as a female.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Chancers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women with no pictures and no real profile get so much attention on here?? I find it strange, guys throw themselves at them not even knowing what they look like? I find it really strange.

You see profile headlines with next to nothing on saying I've got 200 messages.

Might as well name this site blind date!! The guys go for anything, doesn't matter what they look like... must be quite horrible as the female.."
Just slim or athletic body type selected is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because most would fuck anything lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when you first join a lot of men think you don't know how the internet works either. as in they want sex chat and think we'd be naive enough to engage in that.

it's like predator central anywhere when you first join a site as a female.

I found it pretty scary at first tbh but soon caught the fab bug.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of those headless, blank profiles are actually women?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Someone who is now UNLOS once told me they set up a blank female profile with "Will fill in later" as the blurb and pretty much nothing else and was inundated with messages pretty much immediately!!

Like you OP I don't get why anyone would even bother contacting a profile like that, can only think desperation, which is pretty sad really.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

When i first joined i had no pics and didn't fill in my profile. Within minutes i had nearly 200 messages.

There are so many guys on here who are desperate to get their cock wet and they do target newbies.

I left the site alone for about a week to let it settle down, then just deleted everything i had received. Only then did i put some pics up and fill in my profile.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

I was told by a single Guy in general conversation AFTER the Sex, that he tries to meet a woman once a week. He said it didnt matter what they looked like, what shape they had and provided he didnt have to travel to far.

I asked him why. He replied the way he saw it, it was better than having a Wank....Charming...We haven't seen him since.

I am still coming to terms with i am just slightly better than a Wank.

"Because most would fuck anything lol."

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"Why do women with no pictures and no real profile get so much attention on here?? I find it strange, guys throw themselves at them not even knowing what they look like? I find it really strange.

You see profile headlines with next to nothing on saying I've got 200 messages.

Might as well name this site blind date!! The guys go for anything, doesn't matter what they look like... must be quite horrible as the female.."

I dont' get 200 messages and I DO have a written profile, but as for why do men message and keep chatting with those of us without knowing what we look like, I can only assume that they appreciate chatting with someone with a personality once in a while.

(not saying those with pics don't have a personality, but I hear from many men that it's unusual to find someone interesting to chat with.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Craigslist and really get into fantasy world lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nrx1 your much much better than a wank in my eyes x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

When I was put on here I didn't want a profile pic and didn't have one for a few weeks.

Still got tons of messages

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

The first day I joined I set filters, filled in a profile and waited until I got my head around the whole thing before even thinking about messaging anyone. So no, I didn't get bombarded. I'd actually be intrigued to see how different it would be as a profileless picless newbie without filters but it's far too much effort to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women with no pictures and no real profile get so much attention on here?? I find it strange, guys throw themselves at them not even knowing what they look like? I find it really strange.

You see profile headlines with next to nothing on saying I've got 200 messages.

Might as well name this site blind date!! The guys go for anything, doesn't matter what they look like... must be quite horrible as the female.."

Because blank profiles don't have a list of demands for the guys to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having seen for my own two eyes the number of messages a single female friend got when she signed up here, over 100 messages in the first 3 hours no picture, only some brief text in her profile... Guys seem incredibly desperate on here, I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't seen it though.

I can see why some genuine single women disappear off the site after not very long!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Simple huge imbalance of female to male ratio I think. If a good profile gets 1000s of replies then a blank one will still not doubt pull in 100s. And of course there are the fakes too.

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