FabSwingers.com forum: Married hush

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I am married as some of you know, I am chubby as my pics show and I do play on the other side too

I'm on the lookout for a slim younger playmate that's into guy like me why is it so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sooner you accept that you stand on the bottom rung of the fab ladder the easier it is to accept.

Then work your arse off and you might get lucky.

Also - never whinge about being married and not meeting. It's like pulling a pin on a grenade and then throwing the pin instead of the explosive bit.

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By *layalongCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Because most women would think your a dick for cheating. We are abit funny like that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Look for those accepting your marital status, your body type and team position and all is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sooner you accept that you stand on the bottom rung of the fab ladder the easier it is to accept.

Then work your arse off and you might get lucky.

Also - never whinge about being married and not meeting. It's like pulling a pin on a grenade and then throwing the pin instead of the explosive bit."
this is a perfect way of looking at it for all men

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you say 'hush?' You just blurted it out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine."

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because most women would think your a dick for cheating. We are abit funny like that. "

What she ( above) said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just takes time and patience OP. Good luck

Kinky

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because most women would think your a dick for cheating. We are abit funny like that. "

Exactly as above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I am married as some of you know, I am chubby as my pics show and I do play on the other side too

I'm on the lookout for a slim younger playmate that's into guy like me why is it so hard

You are not playing your best cards, are you?

In general (and without being too general), those slim ladies go for slim men and those single ladies go for single men. That might be why it is tricky for you to get what you are looking for. You may or may not have considered this.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How can you say 'hush?' You just blurted it out?

Rumbled!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look for those accepting your marital status, your body type and team position and all is good. "

That's the hardest part there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine."

Unfortunately for me that was from my old profile. So nothing new apart my own piccys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I am married as some of you know, I am chubby as my pics show and I do play on the other side too

I'm on the lookout for a slim younger playmate that's into guy like me why is it so hard

You are not playing your best cards, are you?

True.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some will meet married and others like us wouldnt,as long as you are upfront about it people have a choice though.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I am married as some of you know, I am chubby as my pics show and I do play on the other side too

I'm on the lookout for a slim younger playmate that's into guy like me why is it so hard

You are not playing your best cards, are you?

True and I've got a beard too so that's another thing I know some like and some don't...

But I love fab and regardless of my marital status I was still as "round" as I am now lol. I loved the meets and the chats with you guys..

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

Double

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Look for married women cheating or otherwise, logic says you'd be past the first hurdle anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women tend not to trade down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

Double

Nah def not the Mrs in piccys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look for married women cheating or otherwise, logic says you'd be past the first hurdle anyway.

Which I'm sure there quite a few here but it's just hard at times..

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

Double

Nah def not the Mrs in piccys

Jeeze... it's tough trying not judging the people playing away without the partners knowledge but at least do them the courtesy of covering up.

*puts self off sex forever*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my cynical head on today and this is what it's telling me to say.

Have you considered not slim women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have had no meets who are all those women on your profile pics playing hide the sausage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow...

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"If you have had no meets who are all those women on your profile pics playing hide the sausage?

"
he says pics are from old profile.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

we all have things that some will like or be ok with and some wont.

this aint going to help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it so hard

Zinc ?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"why is it so hard

Zinc ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read up on Gerald Ratner's "crap" speech and then think about re-branding yourself.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Because most women would think your a dick for cheating. We are abit funny like that. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have had no meets who are all those women on your profile pics playing hide the sausage?

Lol hid the sausage

As I mentioned in my earlier comment. Those pics are from my previous profile meets. Hence why I've got no veris from anyone as I've not met anyone on this profile yet..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have my cynical head on today and this is what it's telling me to say.

Have you considered not slim women? "

Oh that is my personal preference

BUT saying that I sometimes get the urge to play with a slim woman.

And just to confirm my wifey is not slim but a woman with proper curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have had no meets who are all those women on your profile pics playing hide the sausage?

Lol hid the sausage

As I mentioned in my earlier comment. Those pics are from my previous profile meets. Hence why I've got no veris from anyone as I've not met anyone on this profile yet.."

Just checking - she's given you permission to use them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have had no meets who are all those women on your profile pics playing hide the sausage?

Lol hid the sausage

As I mentioned in my earlier comment. Those pics are from my previous profile meets. Hence why I've got no veris from anyone as I've not met anyone on this profile yet..

Just checking - she's given you permission to use them?"

Yes as long as no face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to confirm my wifey is not slim but a woman with proper curves

oh dear.

this is exactly why i have i will not meet with anyone into bbw on my profile now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And just to confirm my wifey is not slim but a woman with proper curves

oh dear.

this is exactly why i have i will not meet with anyone into bbw on my profile now.

Ok..

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Most women don't like to see pics of a couple having sex on a single's profile.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most women don't like to see pics of a couple having sex on a single's profile.

Sally"

Really I didn't know that. I appreciate the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggesting there are improper curves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suggesting there are improper curves

No lol fine how shall I rephrase proper curves hmm sexy curves then or just curves

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

"women tend not to trade down."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest opinion ~ your profile pics are totally off putting to me, not the fact that you're married or not slim.

Your profile so display the photos you like it's just my opinion that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggesting there are improper curves

No lol fine how shall I rephrase proper curves hmm sexy curves then or just curves "

Or: you like women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggesting there are improper curves

I don't really think there's a need to jump on that ole bandwagon, the shovel is large enough already.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggesting there are improper curves

although there wsa hint of that, and it was disrespectful to the women he is claiming to want to meet, i'm sick of guys who will say anything so as to get a fuck.

introduce the idea of meeting bbw coz he can't get slim and he automatically compliments them to the detriment of what he said he actually wanted.

seen it so much now, love it when it's blatant though.

think you answered your OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suggesting there are improper curves

I don't really think there's a need to jump on that ole bandwagon, the shovel is large enough already......."

Seems I'm gonna get hit with that shovel lol

BTW great piccys

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"Suggesting there are improper curves

I don't really think there's a need to jump on that ole bandwagon, the shovel is large enough already.......

Seems I'm gonna get hit with that shovel lol

It's your own shovel. In your own hands.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Suggesting there are improper curves

I've got them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggesting there are improper curves

I've got them

I've got a bit that is improper... But it doesn't curve much

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lol always fun when people start a post, trip themselves up all the way through....

Popcorn anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the explosive bit."

Very technical term hahaha

Great way of explaining it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I am married as some of you know, I am chubby as my pics show and I do play on the other side too

I'm on the lookout for a slim younger playmate that's into guy like me why is it so hard

It's hard because you're fantasising about a slim young playmate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I am married as some of you know, I am chubby as my pics show and I do play on the other side too

I'm on the lookout for a slim younger playmate that's into guy like me why is it so hard

It's hard because you're fantasising about a slim young playmate

Indeed at least you understand where I'm coming from

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol always fun when people start a post, trip themselves up all the way through....

Popcorn anyone? "

And a drink lol and yes it was expected to be bit of a train wreck posting

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over a year ago

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Because most women would think your a dick for cheating. We are abit funny like that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool."

But with no verifications I can see why people are suspecting this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool."

And illegal under the new revenge porn laws.

Lets hope that it's not his wife, otherwise the OP might find himself on the sex offenders register.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

And illegal under the new revenge porn laws.

Lets hope that it's not his wife, otherwise the OP might find himself on the sex offenders register."

Let's hope it is not anyone else who is unaware either.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

"
if so that is not cool at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

And illegal under the new revenge porn laws.

Lets hope that it's not his wife, otherwise the OP might find himself on the sex offenders register."

Does that work if you're not out for revenge? Is it just that you haven't given your permission for anyone to use your images without your consent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

And illegal under the new revenge porn laws.

Lets hope that it's not his wife, otherwise the OP might find himself on the sex offenders register.

Does that work if you're not out for revenge? Is it just that you haven't given your permission for anyone to use your images without your consent?"

Yes. If someone does not have explicit consent to post private images online then you now have a way to do something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

And illegal under the new revenge porn laws.

Lets hope that it's not his wife, otherwise the OP might find himself on the sex offenders register.

Does that work if you're not out for revenge? Is it just that you haven't given your permission for anyone to use your images without your consent?"

We are pretty sure use of images gained privately and used without consent is against the law.

Funny thing is they have all been taken down now.

Why is that if permission was already given to post them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your pictures suggest you're doing just fine.

Unless it's the unsuspecting wife in the pics

That would be gross and incredibly uncool.

And illegal under the new revenge porn laws.

Lets hope that it's not his wife, otherwise the OP might find himself on the sex offenders register.

Does that work if you're not out for revenge? Is it just that you haven't given your permission for anyone to use your images without your consent?

Yes. If someone does not have explicit consent to post private images online then you now have a way to do something about it."

Technically it must be done with the intention to cause embarrassment and distress. However there has been no test cases yet in this kind of environment, such as a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make me laugh with women on here and their double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make me laugh with women on here and their double standards."

Perhaps it would be better if you quote the individual that you're referring to here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make me laugh with women on here and their double standards."

A confusing statement.

What double standards are they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually removed them as part of advice from a woman saying a lot of women don't like seeing a guy play with another on their profile nothing to do with what you lot hve been on about..

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Make me laugh with women on here and their double standards.

Perhaps it would be better if you quote the individual that you're referring to here?"

Yup I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make me laugh with women on here and their double standards.

Perhaps it would be better if you quote the individual that you're referring to here?

Yup I'm interested "

Interested in who or what

me or the post lol

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"women tend not to trade down.

This."
gezz.guys just don't stand a chance on here.the guy is basically told he is too ugly to find slim woman as "woman don't trade down"but if the guy was sporting a six pack and a huge cock he will be told he must stimulate the mind and personallity comes first bullshit haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"women tend not to trade down.

This.gezz.guys just don't stand a chance on here.the guy is basically told he is too ugly to find slim woman as "woman don't trade down"but if the guy was sporting a six pack and a huge cock he will be told he must stimulate the mind and personallity comes first bullshit haha."

it's not really his looks tbh. that's what i was on about if you continue reading.

nobody likes to feel like 2nd best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look for those accepting your marital status, your body type and team position and all is good.

That's the hardest part there lol"

I think you haven't got your approach quite right

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