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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering, been on here a while now, sent a few messages out but struggling to get a reply.

What do you ladies like to see in a first message to catch your attention and which makes you want to reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, been on here a while now, sent a few messages out but struggling to get a reply.

What do you ladies like to see in a first message to catch your attention and which makes you want to reply?

"

Like many, I look at the profile before deciding whether to respond. Nothing of interest, no reply.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just wondering, been on here a while now, sent a few messages out but struggling to get a reply.

What do you ladies like to see in a first message to catch your attention and which makes you want to reply?

"

All women are different so they all want different things. Does that surprise you?

Most don't open a message but go straight to your profile so make sure that sells you. It's always a good idea to include a face pic with your first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, been on here a while now, sent a few messages out but struggling to get a reply.

What do you ladies like to see in a first message to catch your attention and which makes you want to reply?

Like many, I look at the profile before deciding whether to respond. Nothing of interest, no reply."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All women are different so they all want different things. Does that surprise you?

Most don't open a message but go straight to your profile so make sure that sells you. It's always a good idea to include a face pic with your first message."

Hahah fair point there, all women are different. I always include a face pic but still struggle. Don't know wether my profile is any good to be honest

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always check out the profile before I read the message.

If they don't have any pics or only have cock pics its an instant delete without reading the message.

If there is something in the profile text that catches my attention then I will read the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always check out the profile before I read the message.

If they don't have any pics or only have cock pics its an instant delete without reading the message.

If there is something in the profile text that catches my attention then I will read the message.

"

Fair point there. Any tips on my profile then? Would be much appreciated

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By *k15Couple
over a year ago

crawley

Seen worse profiles. It still a little lacking. Think about building a picture for others.

Why are you on here? Or what draws you to swinging?

What do you do for fun? What would your best friend say if I asked them about you?

Think about the answers, type the whole lot in word so it checks your spelling and grammar then copy paste into profile. (This isn't for grammar nazis this is so people don't think you typed your profile one handed while signing up horny one night)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always check out the profile before I read the message.

If they don't have any pics or only have cock pics its an instant delete without reading the message.

If there is something in the profile text that catches my attention then I will read the message.

Fair point there. Any tips on my profile then? Would be much appreciated"

It always seems difficult for young fellows to express themselves.

We know you want sex. It is unlikely that you would be here otherwise.

What we want to know is why there might be an attraction. We are interested in you. Your personality. What you bring to the game. Not a plea for sex and two pictures of a penis.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect alot of messages you send to be ignored/ deleted..but in good time the right woman will reply and then maybe a meet will come mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha....ignore me...im not a lady. My bad

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I always check out the profile before I read the message.

If they don't have any pics or only have cock pics its an instant delete without reading the message.

If there is something in the profile text that catches my attention then I will read the message.

Fair point there. Any tips on my profile then? Would be much appreciated

It always seems difficult for young fellows to express themselves.

We know you want sex. It is unlikely that you would be here otherwise.

What we want to know is why there might be an attraction. We are interested in you. Your personality. What you bring to the game. Not a plea for sex and two pictures of a penis."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha....ignore me...im not a lady. My bad "

Hahha all advice is much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines simple, let me see it’s clear you have read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watches with interest

Never had a message

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

Someone who it is clear from their message that they have read our profile and sends an interesting message will always get a reply from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Detailed profile , a lack of cockshots, preferences that match my own, how near they are, can they accommodate and verifications by people I would find attractive.Sometimes it's a small issue that means no reply.

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

Exactly, you put my thoughts into words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always check out the profile before I read the message.

If they don't have any pics or only have cock pics its an instant delete without reading the message.

If there is something in the profile text that catches my attention then I will read the message.

Fair point there. Any tips on my profile then? Would be much appreciated

It always seems difficult for young fellows to express themselves.

We know you want sex. It is unlikely that you would be here otherwise.

What we want to know is why there might be an attraction. We are interested in you. Your personality. What you bring to the game. Not a plea for sex and two pictures of a penis."

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Just wondering, been on here a while now, sent a few messages out but struggling to get a reply.

What do you ladies like to see in a first message to catch your attention and which makes you want to reply?

"

If you find the answer to that get ready to sell it on and make a fortune

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