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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that so many people on here are unreliable I've arranged 7 meets and each on the woman hasn't met up and when I ask them where they were in just get blanked. Why does this keep happening to me

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you


"Why is it that so many people on here are unreliable I've arranged 7 meets and each on the woman hasn't met up and when I ask them where they were in just get blanked. Why does this keep happening to me"

I would hazard a guess that your selection process needs adjusting. A 100% no show rate from 7 meets is astonishing. Maybe try talking to people a bit longer before arranging a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I usually wait for them to arrange it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that so many people on here are unreliable I've arranged 7 meets and each on the woman hasn't met up and when I ask them where they were in just get blanked. Why does this keep happening to me

I would hazard a guess that your selection process needs adjusting. A 100% no show rate from 7 meets is astonishing. Maybe try talking to people a bit longer before arranging a meet? "

This....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps try club meets. There's EurekaCougarsandCubs at Jaydees this Friday. I'm sure a guy like you would fit in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that so many people on here are unreliable I've arranged 7 meets and each on the woman hasn't met up and when I ask them where they were in just get blanked. Why does this keep happening to me"
perhaps they were fakes, try to meet genuine verified in meet people but you are not verified in meet so a catch 22. Yeah go a club and they can verify you will give you a better chance at not being messed around.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Are you certain they were actually women and not just keyboard wankers?

Maybe if your selection process isn't working for you its time to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you speak to any of these women on the phone or webcam before arranging a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree that is more than just bad luck, you are doing something wrong in how you choose who to meet. I've not had a single no show in all the time I've been on here so to have had 7 in a row says to me you need to be more thorough when verifying they are genuine.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

They were men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They were men."

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"They were men. "
have

Yep

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"They were men."

...and seeing your profile and your age now, I can guarantee they were men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just you with the problem or the women who don't show.

I had 2 no shows last week alone. Although they do reply eventually with no excuse but wanting to rearrange. Are they stupid... or more importantly, do they think I'm stupid?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

They were dudes.

Always make sure that they have at the very least one recent meet verification.

Always try if poss to do a cam chat no matter how brief or a phone call.

Maybe try a club or party if you can get an invite or attend local socials.

Report all no shows.

Reverse image search on every pic sent you.

Take everything with a pinch of salt.

If something seems to good to be true then....

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