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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys ,

We are a new couple to the scene and we are struggle to get a meet or to chat to genuine couples. I understand we havent been on long but just wondering if anyone has any tips for our profile that could help us out.

Thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

What are you doing to initiate conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are messaging people and complimenting them on their profilesand pics and just generally trying to make conversation

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Looking at your profile, it reads ok. For us you're a bit young, but that wouldn't matter if you're messaging people of a similar age.

We personally, prefer to see pictures which show you BOTH full body so we can see if we'd find you physically attractive. Face pics are also a bonus when you message as it helps add a persona to the text.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We will try the full body pics thanks

As for face pics we arw more than happy to trade them with verified people

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe try messaging couples rather than winking. We ignore winks and I think a lot pf people do. Good luck.

Sally

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We will try the full body pics thanks

As for face pics we arw more than happy to trade them with verified people "

Also, have you tried visiting clubs or attending social events? They give you a real oportunity to make some friends in the scene and get some "meet verifications" from people you've chatted with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We message as well as winking

We are a bit far away from the nearest club but its definitely on our list

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We message as well as winking

We are a bit far away from the nearest club but its definitely on our list "

Well, good luck to you. I'm sure you'll soon find people to chat to, and you'll posting your first verification in no time.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your help

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Don't just message couples who you like the look of.

Put up a date when you are free in the meetings and events part of the site. Also browse that tool to see if others are available around the same time.

We receive the 'hi nice profile messages' and we always tend to make a non comital response. The reason for this is we may love the idea of meeting them, but we may have no idea when we are next free to meet.

It could be a week could be 6 months as we have no regular access to trusted child care.

When we know we have a free night, we will add a meeting as soon as we know. Which means people contacting us have more information than just, they look nice.

We tend not to message people unless we have a night in mind and so it is clear from the start that yes we like you but also meeting is time limited.

A meeting for us requires

1. Attractiveness

2. Similar tastes & preferences

3. Matching availability

4. Chemistry

(sometimes you can only cross this last one off when you meet in person)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't just message couples who you like the look of.

Put up a date when you are free in the meetings and events part of the site. Also browse that tool to see if others are available around the same time.

We receive the 'hi nice profile messages' and we always tend to make a non comital response. The reason for this is we may love the idea of meeting them, but we may have no idea when we are next free to meet.

It could be a week could be 6 months as we have no regular access to trusted child care.

When we know we have a free night, we will add a meeting as soon as we know. Which means people contacting us have more information than just, they look nice.

We tend not to message people unless we have a night in mind and so it is clear from the start that yes we like you but also meeting is time limited.

A meeting for us requires

1. Attractiveness

2. Similar tastes & preferences

3. Matching availability

4. Chemistry

(sometimes you can only cross this last one off when you meet in person) "

Wow really good advice thank you x

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