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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The one and only party we went to has nowhere to go if you didn't want to play with any of the other guests. So my tip would be ensure there's a neutral space.

Hope it goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips? "

Don't talk politics for gods' sake

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips?

Don't talk politics for gods' sake "

Well I've invited everyone from the politics forum, so we'll be packed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips? "

Invite me

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips?

Invite me "

Guaranteed to improve the party huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll try. Enthusiastic and polite. Could buff butler for you for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my last holiday to Greece was lucky enough to be invited to a house party, the hosts used two areas one to chat and one to play, most like me where strangers so was nice to relax with no pressure and get to know people, was a great day one i will always remember. Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look after the guests don't drink too much and if the mix of guest's is right they will do the rest.

Also keep your eye on any nervous people and stop them using too much liquid courage.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Plan more than a day in advance!

Don't have bowls of nibbles...

I imagine it'll be difficult to relax while being a good host, so maybe plan to alternate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

treat it like a normal party but with a lot more naughtiness!

The best thing is the extra touches, like condoms and lube in the play areas as well as plenty of fresh towels and buzz wipes and some extra but discrete bins to put used items in afterwards. Your guests will really appreciate it.

It works for us, have fun!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips?

Don't talk politics for gods' sake

Well I've invited everyone from the politics forum, so we'll be packed! "

If that's the case, my only tip is CS gas and water-cannon at the ready...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes be prepared for last minute cancellations because dog died or granny died! Or just go quiet last minute.

Don't let people sit around chatting all night and being too embarrassed or awkward to get party started.

Provide drinks inc water or soft drink.

Bin handy for rubbish

Porn on tv or music in background

Maybe a game to get things started?

Tell everybody start time.

Spare towels. Have playing area ready? Is it bedrooms? Bedding on floor? Make sure clean and tidy and inviting. Make sure warm otherwise no one will want to get undressed.

Sure I'll think of more in a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our formula, which we are constantly trying to improve.

Guest list is the most important factor. You want people who will get on socially and will find other guest attractives. You need to invite people who come with the intention of playing, and who don't have too many rules. Invite a few people who are good at getting play started.

Start it like a normal party with drinks and nibbles.

Have play areas (e.g. Bedrooms) and social areas (e.g. Kitchen and possibly lounge).

Have strategically placed bins with bin bags in and tell people to use them - nothing worse than picking up used condoms afterwards

Plastic sheets under main bed sheet is a must and towels by beds

Music, candles etc for atmosphere

We also send invites and regular reminders, and updated guest lists - encourages people to turn up.

Show people around on arrival and state any house rules (e.g. Rooms put of bounds

Give people directions and explain where to park

Request people arrive at a particular time - you need people to get to know each before play starts, and you don't want to be answering the door once play has started

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hide valuables, do a bit of food as people have a drink and make sure people are aware of the no go areas in the house

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

After my last party I vowed never to do another one again

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips?

Don't talk politics for gods' sake

Well I've invited everyone from the politics forum, so we'll be packed! "

How did it go, then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did your house get trashed?

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

In the end only one couple turned up! Still had fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit late on this post, but as said if people are too d*unk, make sure wipes and spare condoms are available.

The parties I run we put covers on the beds and the. Sheets to protect the mattresses as well as hide breakables. If your holding it at your own place make sure you know the people coming as you will not be worried all night. Best way I've found is chat to everyone and make sure people are verified and no pressure. But it's worth having someone start the party as people then to wait until someone starts.

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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago

Shannon and Costa Blanca


"We are hosting our first party tomorrow night, has anyone got any tips? "

How did it go

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Thanks for posting this, we are looking to host a party at our place later in the year and are trying to get started. We don't want ppl to feel awkward and shy but also not get pissed and stumble about being sloppy. That's not sexy. Will probably post something when we have firm plans. Miss C. Xx

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