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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there, I was wondering how some out there brought up the subject of swinging with partners and how it was received. My wife and I have spoke about it in the past and both like the thought of watching and being watched but haven't spoke about if for a while and I would love to take it further before any kids appear on the radar lol

Thoughts and advice welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile. That should do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, I was wondering how some out there brought up the subject of swinging with partners and how it was received. My wife and I have spoke about it in the past and both like the thought of watching and being watched but haven't spoke about if for a while and I would love to take it further before any kids appear on the radar lol

Thoughts and advice welcome "

Just talk to her!

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

Talking is the only way to go forwards. let her know what your desires are and find out hers then go from there. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, I was wondering how some out there brought up the subject of swinging with partners and how it was received. My wife and I have spoke about it in the past and both like the thought of watching and being watched but haven't spoke about if for a while and I would love to take it further before any kids appear on the radar lol

Thoughts and advice welcome "

You've already take about it why not just suggest going to a club which would give the opportunity to watch and be watched

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We always fantasied about her taking another guy and she really got turned on by the thought of it so I decided to set it up without her knowing. I had been chatting to a guy and he knew that if she didn't want to play then that would be OK. We met him on the pretence of him having some pc stuff for me. We had a few drinks in his local pub then he invited us back to his. After more wine and small talk I asked him if he had any movies for us to watch and he put a blue movie on. She didn't object and I could see she was getting horny, we were on his bed in his apartment I started stroking her leg then run my hand up to her pussy, she was really wet. She opened her legs which was a sign she wanted more. I nodded to the guy to join us, he started stroking her other leg then her pussy, to my surprise she undone his zip and took his cock out then after a couple of minutes she put it in her mouth. We undressed her and he went down on her, she was loving it. We both fucked her. The next day I asked her how she felt she said she loved it and that's how we started.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Hi there, I was wondering how some out there brought up the subject of swinging with partners and how it was received. My wife and I have spoke about it in the past and both like the thought of watching and being watched but haven't spoke about if for a while and I would love to take it further before any kids appear on the radar lol

Thoughts and advice welcome

You've already take about it why not just suggest going to a club which would give the opportunity to watch and be watched "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about fantasies that's what I did with my wife.

Everyone has fantasies turned out she was curious about another woman and we just went from there.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Its funny how we never see a lady posting on here about how to introduce there boyfriend /husband to swinging . We found it by talking and exploring together . Makes the fun much more of a shared experience .And do wonder how some guys would react if they found there better half on the site while looking lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi there, I was wondering how some out there brought up the subject of swinging with partners and how it was received. My wife and I have spoke about it in the past and both like the thought of watching and being watched but haven't spoke about if for a while and I would love to take it further before any kids appear on the radar lol

Thoughts and advice welcome "

If she doesn't know about your profile delete it, I imagine she'd be deeply hurt if she found it. Then pick a quiet time, tell her how much you love her and that you have certain fantasies you'd love to share with her.

If she does know about your profile you already have a starting point.

Be prepared for her to tell you that its just fantasy for her or to say no outright. Have in mind how you're going to deal with her queries as to why she isn't enough for you and really listen to her concerns answering them genuinely.

Hope that whatever the outcome its the best one for both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Hey love, ever fancied f...in strangers?'

How do you word it to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband advertised on Craig's List for a man to flirt with his wife in front of him and have above waist only fun. He then told me what he had done, showed me some of the responses, and I couldn't resist. That was three and a half years ago, and I now love the attention of 2 or 3 men - above waist only rule didn't last very long, and my husband knew it wouldn't

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