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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single lady I have no trouble but as a couple. No luck at all!!!

Help...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't think you are allowed to verify your own couples profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah ok but we verified each other before we became a couple.

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By *4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

N 42.709787, W -84.556222

No pictures of male half made public. Its usually a big issue for couples when one half is only shown.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Ah ok but we verified each other before we became a couple.

"

It's allowed on your own single one's just not your couple one as it would be seen as a false verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I know that but it's states that ferret69 has his own profile. I've just checked and foe some reason there is no pics when there used to be so I will get that rectified.

But anyone could ask for pics we are happy to oblige ..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The same basic principles apply to all genders and demographics on here, after all we're all trying to inform and attract others.

Who are you.

What do you offer

What are you looking for

Your unique selling point, I.e. why meet you over another.

At this moment your profile us lacking . Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks give me some pointers then please..

I have gone back to just my own profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same basic principles apply to all genders and demographics on here, after all we're all trying to inform and attract others.

Who are you.

What do you offer

What are you looking for

Your unique selling point, I.e. why meet you over another.

At this moment your profile us lacking . Have fun. "

have you got this on C&P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have this same problem.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

The only photo is of a lady, looking rather grumpy. Not smiling or very welcoming. The only verifications are one half of the couple....you cannot use yourself to verify yourself !

You say what you are looking for, but not really why people would choose to meet you.

You need to get people interested in you as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

C & P is???

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"We have this same problem. "

At least your profile has some good photos ( nice hair ) and a clear description of what you are looking for. Getting a single lady to join a couple, there are limited numbers on the site.

If you go on cam, which it states you do, I am surprised you do not have any verifications. That would at least show a lady that you are a genuine couple...a lady and a gent and you are the people shown in the photos on here. Good luck.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"C & P is???"

Copy and Paste. The person suggests the same advise to people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I'm certainly not grumpy. I just dislike having pics taken. And that grumpy looking pic has got a lot of good response.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford


"We have this same problem. "

Your profiles are similar in some ways: neither of you state what you bring to the party or are particularly explicit about your desires (apart from the obvious!). There's no magic formula to success here - it's bloody hard at times which is why we tend to meet at clubs - writing a profile which reflects you best will out those unsuitable whilst inviting those you message you take a closer look. Don't wait for Fab to come to you - go get it. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is bloody hard. We have chatted to couples for days and made arrangements to travel a long way to have it cancelled by the other couple!

We tried Chams but got turned away because I use a walking stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have this same problem.

At least your profile has some good photos ( nice hair ) and a clear description of what you are looking for. Getting a single lady to join a couple, there are limited numbers on the site.

If you go on cam, which it states you do, I am surprised you do not have any verifications. That would at least show a lady that you are a genuine couple...a lady and a gent and you are the people shown in the photos on here. Good luck. "

We are rubbish with cam stuff. We prefer meeting and seeing people in person. We get numbers or people telling us they will meet us then they bottle it. This Saturday a lady has been chatting to jessica and asked for her number and not even looked at the kik message. We have no idea what's happening Saturday night now..just time wasters and forceful people. We are thinking of trying this club f.. hopefully meet some nice girls people. Thanks for your advice. And Jessica says thanks gor the compliment on her hair. I actually do it all for her. Not bad for a plasterer hey. Not long finished dying it actually lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have this same problem.

Your profiles are similar in some ways: neither of you state what you bring to the party or are particularly explicit about your desires (apart from the obvious!). There's no magic formula to success here - it's bloody hard at times which is why we tend to meet

at clubs - writing a profile which reflects you best will out those unsuitable whilst inviting those you message you take a closer look. Don't wait for Fab to come to you - go get it. Good luck. "

Thank you for your advice also. We just private that's all. We actually not long opened our pictures coz people thought we weren't who we said we were

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford


"It is bloody hard. We have chatted to couples for days and made arrangements to travel a long way to have it cancelled by the other couple!

We tried Chams but got turned away because I use a walking stick. "

I'm not going to comment on you being turned away from Chams as that has already been discussed ad infinitum here - all I will say is take a step back, have a think about what you both want and what you both have to offer. Does your profile truly reflect that? If so then great If not then try amending. This is a great marketplace with so much on offer.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"The same basic principles apply to all genders and demographics on here, after all we're all trying to inform and attract others.

Who are you.

What do you offer

What are you looking for

Your unique selling point, I.e. why meet you over another.

At this moment your profile us lacking . Have fun.

have you got this on C&P "

You know single guys only ever use c&p on fab not only for messages for forum posts as well ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady I have no trouble but as a couple. No luck at all!!!

Help..."

Why are you referring to yourselves as 'I'? You are a couple right? Maybe change it all the 'we'

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Lol I'm certainly not grumpy. I just dislike having pics taken. And that grumpy looking pic has got a lot of good response. "

That reads as quite defensive. You did ask for opinions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady I have no trouble but as a couple. No luck at all!!!

Help...

Why are you referring to yourselves as 'I'? You are a couple right? Maybe change it all the 'we'"

this.

and all the references to ferret69 are a bit weird as well. makes me think it's a fake couple profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On my profile I have pics of both of us. So Ferret69 isn't a fake profile.

Thanks people for the advice.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We cant see your pics because they are friend only.

Sally

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I can't view it you have filters on sorry I can't help.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Course you will have had tons more attention on a single lady profile.

I'd get to some socials and get some veris and chatting to folk xx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Plus I'm blocked or something. How strange.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

It appears that the OPs profile has been suspended by Admin...

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