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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good morning all,

we hope you all had a lovely Christmas and new year.

2017 for us is going to be all about being extra kinky. We have our first GangBang booked in for Feb and really can not wait. However in an "ideal" world all the guys joining us, 5 so far, would be 100% STI clean and clear of anything Frankie could catch, and i'm sure they are.

Question is, do you think it's wrong of me to ask them to get tested a week or so a head of the event, and show us their STI Clear text message you get from the Clinic, or is this just being me being Neurotic?

We are using condoms and protection, but it's just a nagging question is all.

Thank you very much for any thoughts.

Kind regards,

Truefrosts

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Good morning all,

we hope you all had a lovely Christmas and new year.

We are using condoms and protection, but it's just a nagging question is all.

Thank you very much for any thoughts.

Kind regards,

Truefrosts"

No dont think it bad to ask..tho condoms r best ...

Im in..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning all,

we hope you all had a lovely Christmas and new year.

We are using condoms and protection, but it's just a nagging question is all.

Thank you very much for any thoughts.

Kind regards,

Truefrosts"

a test result wont account for anything picked up between test and result time. so a bit pointleas really.

best to be safe as you can on the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt many would do this for a meet but defo worth an ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you, i agree with what you're all saying, and there is no substitute for condoms. Thanks for the advice guys, really appreciate it.

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Seriously doubt many guys would do this, particularly if married and playing away. You've got to remember that as soon as you start asking people to make some sort of effort, it will all fall apart.

And if you've got 5 definite guys for this, then assume that only 2 will turn up. At best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt if people would go for this. It would certainly increase the inevitable no-shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bear in mind that not all STI clinics provide certificates or even messages. The one at my local hospital operates of the priciple of "no news is good news" and only contact you if a test comes back positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last test I had a couple weeks ago clear BTW, I had to call for the results no text or certificate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair its only going to show you that they were clean a few weeks before as things take time.

And many clinics now do not send proof of all clear and only message if there is a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmmm... Seems like it might be a pipe-dream of an idea then, haha. Thank you all for your input, much appreciated.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Seriously doubt many guys would do this, particularly if married and playing away. You've got to remember that as soon as you start asking people to make some sort of effort, it will all fall apart.

And if you've got 5 definite guys for this, then assume that only 2 will turn up. At best.

And the chances are that one of those two is infact a woman pretending to be a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a bareback GB is such a good idea to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think a bareback GB is such a good idea to be honest

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I didn't think they were asking for that. They said condoms etc would be used x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think a bareback GB is such a good idea to be honest

I didn't think they were asking for that. They said condoms etc would be used x"

Ah yes missed that bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you be providing you're certificate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should always do a follow up STI check up 3 months after the original, as some have an extended incubation period.

I reagurly get tested, every 6 months, followed by a 3 month secondary test. Then another test 6 months later.

I hope your arranged gangbang goes well, great profile by the way and stunning pics.

Makes me wish I still lived in the uk

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

No harm in asking and good for you for thinking of it

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By *veishereWoman
over a year ago

Cotswolds

It's the battle of fantasy vs reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning all,

we hope you all had a lovely Christmas and new year.

We are using condoms and protection, but it's just a nagging question is all.

Thank you very much for any thoughts.

Kind regards,

Truefrosts"

I think you need to educate yourself on how STI tests work.

HIV and similar can take three months to show up on a test. And other infections can take a week or more.

So you would need proof that they'd not had sex with anyone else in that time period.

Not to mention, of course, that the moment they have sex with anyone else (or touch a dirty needle, or do first aid on someone with a cut) they have put themselves at risk of another infection. So they couldn't have sex afterwards either.

It's alot to ask, and I don't know how they'd prove it.

Also - lots of clinics don't send out a message if you get the all clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything a lot of this is trial and error. If this is something you want to ask for, then ask and see. If it works then great, if not, try a different approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My local clinic as others have mentioned operates on a "no news is good news" principle. Used to get a letter regardless but that stopped a few years back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest you not ask them to get tested if you're going to use condoms at this event...Some men will think this is going to be a bareback gang bang if they have to get tested before hand ... or worse they might try to make this a bareback event since everyone is tested and clean.

Also I must warn you the grim reaper tends to work overtime on the date of your event. The amount of dead pets , parents, best friends and other family members is astounding. So try to over invite guys.... good luck

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