FabSwingers.com forum: Grandad Advice please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."

Only to share Werthers originals

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If its going to come between you and your son then no.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DAUGHTER in law

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I imagine it would cause friction between you and your son. Why do you say grandad? Are there children?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas."

Ah. Probably a wise decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly dont see any reason why not.. ignore all those who say no. As long as you are discreet about it I guess.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."

I don't think so, but your decision. How would it affect your son and any grandchildren?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO. Just asking for problems. There are plenty of unattached people out there that may have less baggage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DAUGHTER in law

NO"

Ex...

No longer...

If you both want it then do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas."

maybe not a good idea to misconstrue her concern for anything else?

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

No wtf !

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I don't see an issue as long as you are both discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already mentioned it's the relationship with your son and if any children their wellbeing that would be compromised. Not sure how they would feel knowing their grandad is sleeping with their mother. Me personally I definitely wouldn't but it's your choice I guess.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas."

Christmas is a very lonley time for lots of people .... you know that this wouldnt work. ... it would cause all kinds of problems .... go find your a nice lady ....

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Aaaa it's either max bygraves syndrome or he really does want to kick his own son squarely in the balls and say fuck our relationship.

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."

That is a total no no

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

He wrote this 6 hours ago:

"Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.

My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.

Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.

Thank you all for your comments

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.

My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.

Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.

Thank you all for your comments"

On the face of it there seems to be nothing standing in your way and you imply that her daughters aren't your grandchildren. But families have their own dynamic that will come in to play here and nobody but you can predict your son's reaction if he did find out or any other family member.

It's a risk, up to you if you take it. I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely definitely not no no no .

50,000 plus members on fab keep searching on here and forget the whole idea of bonking you ex daughter in law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it Grandpa. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all well and good saying you'll be discrete, but you need to be prepared for the possibility of being found out.....do you really think your son would be OK with it? If yes, then you have nothing to lose. If no, then it's down to your conscience.

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading

"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."

Yes but can I make one request, let us know when you'll be on Jeremy Kyle please xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on a lot of things really, but if you're both attracted to each other, and both available, then make it happen. But if it's going to cause friction, decide what you value more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, you only live once xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This is amazing, if a bloke posts about shagging his mother in law everyone thinks it's great but god forbid a woman would want to shag her ex father in law!

You are both adults , she is his ex,

Go for it

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

If u gel and she wants you and u want her.???

Yr both grown ups..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it..... you are helping her with her fantasy of having a father and son...

Ask her if your son can join next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My ex daughter in law and I are now having a sexual relationship and enjoying it immensely.

Thanks for everyone who took the trouble to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex daughter in law and I are now having a sexual relationship and enjoying it immensely.

Thanks for everyone who took the trouble to reply."

Please post some pics

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

fantastic .but dont marry her as his ex wife would be his stepmum.wow thats wild changed our mine will be your best man just for the speach ha ha .good luck

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By *ackwithabang2000Couple
over a year ago

Stoke

Wrong in every way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wrong in every way"

Hey we are swingers, we are not supposed to judge

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wrong in every way

Hey we are swingers, we are not supposed to judge

you read the forums...right?

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By *ackwithabang2000Couple
over a year ago

Stoke

"Wrong in every way

Hey we are swingers, we are not supposed to judge

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wen a opinion is asked then you have to expect wotever comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little will fuck you grandchildren up more (I'm assuming there are kids by the heading) than the fall out when their dad discovers that their grandad is fucking the it mother.

Unbelievably selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would your Grandchildren then Call you Grand-StepDad? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.

My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.

Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.

Thank you all for your comments

It's a risk, up to you if you take it. I wouldn't."

Nothing like Stirring your sons Rice pudding.

I can see a Jezza Kyle episode coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex daughter in law and I are now having a sexual relationship and enjoying it immensely.

Thanks for everyone who took the trouble to reply."

Does she know that your a member of a swinging website? What do you think her view would be given she divorced your son for cheating?

Maybe you should do something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is the holidays will never be the same for this family....

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Ever considered a move to the west country?

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Guess it depends on whether you like your son at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex daughter in law and I are now having a sexual relationship and enjoying it immensely.

Thanks for everyone who took the trouble to reply."

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas."

Get her fucked you big melt, stop messing about, smash her back doors in !

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=myhnAZFR1po

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.

Thank you all for your comments"

Is this some sort of a revenge / payback thing on her behalf

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.

My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.

Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.

Thank you all for your comments"

I see nothing wrong here. Your son may not like it so discretion would be sensible unless you have a healthy communicative relationship with him, in which case you may talk to him about it. A lot of girls do like older men so you might have more choices here on Fab

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Fill your boots, we're a long time dead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We both know this is only a temporary thing. She knows I am on here and I do pursue my own interests.

She is quite interested in joining here with her own profile to meet mature men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what will make you both happy, as for you're son well he did not want her anyways so he has no right to really say anything.

If you do what everyone else says is the right thing then you're on you're own for no other reason than to plaese whether be else

Life is too short so enjoy what there is and let everyone else go do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what will make you both happy, as for you're son well he did not want her anyways so he has no right to really say anything.

If you do what everyone else says is the right thing then you're on you're own for no other reason than to plaese whether be else

Life is too short so enjoy what there is and let everyone else go do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sticky wicket, still what takes place between consenting adults etc, etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas.

Only to share Werthers originals

Beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both know this is only a temporary thing. She knows I am on here and I do pursue my own interests.

She is quite interested in joining here with her own profile to meet mature men."

Sounds like you both discussed it sensibly, no children involved which makes it easier.

No worse than what a lot people do, your consenting adults.

I think you've made your mind up.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I would look into the future. What would happen if you fell desperately in love and had to hide your life?

Would you be able to bring a hidden life into the family spotlight and not do damage to others or yourselves?

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

What's her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get out more OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are any of the pix on your profile ? Is it the hot blonde. No wonder you couldn't resist

You horny old goat you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To Naughty Staffs couple

Yes it is her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't think anyone would blame you there then. Like everyone else says be incredibly discreet and protect her honour is probably the best advice.

As long as no one comes to any harm then it's fine. I think many a 74 year old would love the chance you've got.

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

"To Naughty Staffs couple

Yes it is her"

Somebody else there taking the pics ??

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

"To Naughty Staffs couple

Yes it is her

Somebody else there taking the pics ??"

It's amazing, the pictures were taken and posted 3 months before the relationship started!!!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"To Naughty Staffs couple

Yes it is her

Somebody else there taking the pics ??

It's amazing, the pictures were taken and posted 3 months before the relationship started!!!!

Lmao!!!!!!! Maybe the ops a time lord .... ok maybe not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok. It's been going on for a year now.

I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.

I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.

So you lied then and again later saying you had just got together anyway . Lying is never a good trait .

Also what do peoples opinions matter when you are already doing it ? Pointless as you already made your decision just get on a do it .

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.

I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.

The revenge thing could be going on but equally you're both grown ups and kno the risks.

Just think about the grief her kids will go through, plus the whole family if this comes out. You've quite a lot of information on the thread, pictures of jewellery and body shots.

Some liaisons are simply too much trouble to be worth it. By all means have your fun, however you want it. Just stop, pause and think how this looks to the world outside fab. As people allude this is perfect crash TV and my opinion would be the same if the genders were reversed.

Whatever you two decide to do, be uber careful.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Definitely not what is wrong with you

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

We only regret the things in life we didn't do.

Good luck to you matey! I hope you have found happiness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.

I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.

The cynic in me can't help but think you are making this up as you go along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.

I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.

The cynic in me can't help but think you are making this up as you go along"

There are a great many threads that have me thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh we think that we smell bull excrement! Not a chance is this for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh we think that we smell bull excrement! Not a chance is this for real"

I agree... full of inconsistencies and far too fucked up to be true... dubious photos too. At the least I hope it isn't true!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Try posting in fantasies and stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"NO. Just asking for problems. There are plenty of unattached people out there that may have less baggage. "
agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lines that shouldn't be crossed and this is one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fantastic .but dont marry her as his ex wife would be his stepmum.wow thats wild changed our mine will be your best man just for the speach ha ha .good luck"

marrying her would be illegal I think.

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Hilarious. ..but def a no no

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By *ichpickingsMan
over a year ago

London and Essex

"fantastic .but dont marry her as his ex wife would be his stepmum.wow thats wild changed our mine will be your best man just for the speach ha ha .good luck

marrying her would be illegal I think."

Reminds me of that old song "He's his own Grandpa". All together now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can remember a song about catching mummy kissing Santa under the Christmas tree but not one about Granddad.

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