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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the done thing? Exchange chats for a while or push for a meet ASAP?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Be cool......patience and style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally prefer to chat for a while before any kind of meet.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Chat every time, anyone who pushes a meet with me ain't getting one.

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

Push for a meet will get you nowhere, you'll come over as pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them outright are we fucking or not

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat a bit, set a date, meet.....simple

The longer the chat goes on without setting a date the less likely it will ever happen, lots of talkers! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat a bit, set a date, meet.....simple

The longer the chat goes on without setting a date the less likely it will ever happen, lots of talkers! X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting for a while but I think it may put people off thinking that I'm not genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I'm nervous so like to chat first to break the ice before the initial face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a couple of weeks to get to know someone, exchange numbers for a phone chat and then meet...

any longer and it starts to stretch out..and invariably not happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a meet is made, is it fairly certain sex is on the cards? I know some people ask for socials first but usually at the pub or something?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If a meet is made, is it fairly certain sex is on the cards? I know some people ask for socials first but usually at the pub or something?"

No, because meeting is person usually either confirms you like each or don't, everyone can say no thanks at any time, and I have done often

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If a meet is made, is it fairly certain sex is on the cards? I know some people ask for socials first but usually at the pub or something?"

Pub or costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet is made, is it fairly certain sex is on the cards? I know some people ask for socials first but usually at the pub or something?"

Definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet is made, is it fairly certain sex is on the cards? I know some people ask for socials first but usually at the pub or something?"

Absolutely not. The whole point of a social first is to see if there is any attraction. Either can say they don't want to take it any further at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest as well, if I get the faintest whiff that someone is expecting any kind of play on the first meet, I will call it off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info guys, just want to please. A big part of sex for me is seeing that I am pleasing the woman. That's more of a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take it any way you want .. whatever feels good . there is no set etiquette . just be you and what you want . don't be shy . you will work out what you like x

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By *ternal OptimistMan
over a year ago

London

Never assume anything is the golden rule, you are a person as well, the social gives you a chance to not go further as well

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