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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv been here a while and never seem to get any messages back. I am not that bad lookimg am i. I think my profile is fine so my guessse apart from all women thinking i look like shrek is that my messages arnt very good.. so has anyone got and help for a 1st message.

Thanks in advance folks

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would say include something in your message that shows you have read their profile.

Also try and use some humour in it if you can.

Miss

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always say "I've read ya profile now gizzashagyabitch"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I can't speak for all women but I personally when meeting I like a first message that shows:

1) He's actually read my profile not just looked at the pics

2) is a brief introduction without being too overly sexual

3) has a bit of humour/personality

(So therefore it isn't a one liner)

4) has a clear face pic attached

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I would say include something in your message that shows you have read their profile.

Also try and use some humour in it if you can.

Miss"

This tends to work for us...we always appreciate it when effort has been made to read our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say include something in your message that shows you have read their profile.

Also try and use some humour in it if you can.

Miss

This tends to work for us...we always appreciate it when effort has been made to read our profile "

I messaged filk once, turns out she dosent like younger lads but she replied and we had a very nice convo

She's one of the good ones

Thinking of you :p

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I would say include something in your message that shows you have read their profile.

Also try and use some humour in it if you can.

Miss

This tends to work for us...we always appreciate it when effort has been made to read our profile

I messaged filk once, turns out she dosent like younger lads but she replied and we had a very nice convo

She's one of the good ones

Thinking of you :p"

Thank you for saying so. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, getting no reply is #standard

I enjoy fab but not as a hook up site tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say "I've read ya profile now gizzashagyabitch" "

This is hilarious, and I can only imagine this works if you look like Hollywood a lister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not pursue you, because you say on your profile that you've never been with a couple. Obviously first time for everyone, but we need guys who understand the dynamics of playing with an MF. I guess if a newbie gave the impression he was a bit more experienced (as has happened before), then all good. But we would not under any circumstances knowingly play with a newbie.

Mrs

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

So you think that one particular message, sent to all women will magically get you shagged then.

It's harder than that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So you think that one particular message, sent to all women will magically get you shagged then.

It's harder than that."

Do you mean me?

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Women and couple are usually so overwhelmed with messages, that you have to be quite creative to cause impression.

I rarely send first messages. Most of my best adventures came from people who knew what they wanted and how to find me.

Adrian xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"So you think that one particular message, sent to all women will magically get you shagged then.

It's harder than that.

Do you mean me?"

Gawd Steve, not you! Sorry, I should have quoted the OP.

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