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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi need advice on what is wrong with my profile if there is can you please point me in right direction as not really having any luck with my profile as it is at mo!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i am not sure that asking for validation from the interweb is wise hun.

Do you think you are interesting?

Imo your profile does not scream self confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lookin to change wat i've written as soon as i have will ask again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am not sure that asking for validation from the interweb is wise hun.

Do you think you are interesting?

Imo your profile does not scream self confidence."

I agree: you don't sound confident at all.

From a personal note, anyone wanting to come to my house but not accommodate themselves is not someone I'd meet.

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"Hi need advice on what is wrong with my profile if there is can you please point me in right direction as not really having any luck with my profile as it is at mo! "

Dude u need to sort you profile it sounds desperate and not confident at all

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

right here we go..

No you do not sound confident.

Yes you need to sell yourself more.

Yes you need to get yourself out there.

Yes you need to engage more in the forums as it is an ideal way of interacting if shyness an issue.

Staying over with someone is not a great idea if you are so shy.. the other person may feel uncomfortable if you too shy to make conversation.

try baby steps..

Objective:

rewrite profile with some ooomph !!!

research clubs in your area..

Pics.. Imagination.. what's your best feature !! take a pic of it and load on here. If cock, no remotes, anti perspirant cans... JUST COCK and 1 will do, not every angle. In your boxers may be a better look.

Timescale: 3 days.

I will check back..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks for the info will be looking to update in next few hours or so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

changed profile now hope it's a little better will look to sort out new pics soon if i need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"changed profile now hope it's a little better will look to sort out new pics soon if i need to"

still sounds like you have confidence issues which come across in your profile.

when it's in black & white it can look different to how it sounds in your head.

people in general are attracted to confidence as long as it isn't overbearing

and as for being shy - most of us are, some just cover it better !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"changed profile now hope it's a little better will look to sort out new pics soon if i need to"

so rather than saying 'i am told i am a nice guy' be more positive,

for example :

'i am nice guy. i am decent, genuine and fun to be around once you get to know me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles not to bad mate you have had a lot more luck than me well i havent been here long but lack of confidence which is what every1 eles is saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a positive note: I like how you've dealt with the accommodation issue.

On a negative note: your profile wouldn't look out of place on Match.com. There are times when you can "sex up" dossiers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem is many of us single women* are looking for no stringy cheese fun, ans nothing more

but i wish you luck its not the worse profile i have read lately x

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I'd take out not being good at dancing. I've heard it said that a good mover on the dance floor can be a sign of being good in bed - its probably not true but you don't want to lose anyone because of something that doesn't need to be mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

taken what u have said and changed the wording on my profile so hope it does well

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Profiles evolve... don't they... what you end up with is never quite what you start out with. They change over time with how you feel and what your preferences are too...

Make the profile wholly yours... it is you in words after all. It's selling you... make it blossom all the way out to the edges about what you've got to bring to other members on this site and the good things about you. If you've got groundrules, keep em small and way down the bottom where if people are already sold, they'll respect your rules, and won't mind em one bit.

Don't worry about nerves... think the person who says they've never had them is a bit of a fibber myself. Most people start clammed up... then open up like a travelling show after a while.

The best of luck to ya, and above all, have fun and enjoy yourself

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol updated again and still feel i've left loads out haha so will now start thinking thanks for all your help on my profile. will put more on profile when i have ideas!

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"lol updated again and still feel i've left loads out haha so will now start thinking thanks for all your help on my profile. will put more on profile when i have ideas!"

M8 we started off with a 2 liner lol and now weve got a documentary,ull find that ull be adding things and erasing things in it all the time till u get it right and then ull still be potching with it its called they like living things dude they evolve lol but ull get there just wrd it a lil stronger and dont put you self down as the last thing the ladies want is a dude with littleself confidence

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