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Profile picture advice - can't show face on public profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Fabsters!

I'm looking for some advice on profile photos.

I have a particular job which means I can't show my face publicly on my profile. I can show my face when I send messages because not everybody will be messaging or receiving messages.

As I can't put a face picture as my profile photo, which generally reduces your chances of people messaging back; what advice would give me for a profile photo? Also, what could I do for more profile photos which also can't show my face?

Should I be doing crazy, fun, imaginative things to attract people to my profile?

Thanks

MrAA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Fabsters!

I'm looking for some advice on profile photos.

I have a particular job which means I can't show my face publicly on my profile. I can show my face when I send messages because not everybody will be messaging or receiving messages.

As I can't put a face picture as my profile photo, which generally reduces your chances of people messaging back; what advice would give me for a profile photo? Also, what could I do for more profile photos which also can't show my face?

Should I be doing crazy, fun, imaginative things to attract people to my profile?

Thanks

MrAA "

We are curious.

What is it you do that means you cannot show your face?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The text is as, if not more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think not having a face pic as an avatar or in public pics reduces your chances of a reply, generally as long as one is available when you start chatting people understand. Does make me laugh that you say you have to be discreet because of work but have a job title in your user name

Have a selection of pics that show your best bits off, clothed, unclothed, explicit or not, whatever you think best. Suit shots are good , bums, torsos, legs, just not too many cock shots is the received wisdom. Not sure what I make of your second shot, a bit...Avatar is great though.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I've seen very few profiles where s face pic is the profile pic so I really wouldn't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet "

We agree totally.

We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics are not required in public by anyone. I don't know why this is often said. Also, I find it irksome when someone thinks they need to be more discreet than others (or me!), but that's an aside. You can put a variety of pics in public. I would suggest they aren't taken from your FB profile. If your job role matches your user name I would think you can apply a little imagination to a suitable profile pic. Most ladies don't like a dick pic to talk to though! My order for my own pics is discreet for public, showing a little more for friends and others in private. Each person has their own preference for this, so that's just guidance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet

We agree totally.

We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse."

To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

As long as you are able to supply face pics in messages ,thats fine.People tend to understand why you wouldnt have public face pics.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone has face pics on public show OP. I wouldn't worry about it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet

We agree totally.

We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.

To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab. "

That's fair enough, but no need to make a song and dance about it. Simply put in your profile that you have a face picture in private that you're happy to send if asked, drop the bit about it 'because of my job'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet

We agree totally.

We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.

To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab.

That's fair enough, but no need to make a song and dance about it. Simply put in your profile that you have a face picture in private that you're happy to send if asked, drop the bit about it 'because of my job'. "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet

We agree totally.

We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.

To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab. "

Without wishing to belabour a point OP, honestly as someone who completely understands, would you think about your profile name? I think I'm right in saying people are trying to say you don't need to proffer an excuse whatsoever, it's a preference.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.

A torso pic is ok. Or feet

We agree totally.

We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.

To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab.

Without wishing to belabour a point OP, honestly as someone who completely understands, would you think about your profile name? I think I'm right in saying people are trying to say you don't need to proffer an excuse whatsoever, it's a preference. "

Yes, I understand completely. I very much appreciate your input and advice.

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