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"I've had a few guys offer to pick me up and take me dogging I always find guys a little wierd who honestly think a woman they have never met before will get in a car with them and let them drive you into the middle of nowhere " Yes, it's their mentality that's the worrying factor. | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience?" ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCT!! Did you tell them what car you were in?? | |||
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"i always say follow your gut instinct. it is the best thing to keep you safe" Same here. | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience?" Perhaps meeting for a drink in a pub would have been a good first option, OP? Much easier to walk away and say "thanks but no thanks" in a pub than in someone's home. Safer too. Sorry you had a scary experience. | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience?" Without knowing the details of the meet - how would they know your route or time along it at any point, or car details. It'd be pretty hard to pick your car out in traffic unless it's distinctive, then catch you up, stop, turn around and catch you up again with the number of cars along the same route? | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience? Without knowing the details of the meet - how would they know your route or time along it at any point, or car details. It'd be pretty hard to pick your car out in traffic unless it's distinctive, then catch you up, stop, turn around and catch you up again with the number of cars along the same route?" I was wondering that too | |||
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"I was chatting to a woman on here when i first joined 6 years ago, she was really hot, anyway we swapped numbers and her texts hot all the spots, we arranged to meet at her place in Bedford. I took the day off work and drove to hers and got there for 11am i text her saying im outside, she messaged back instantly with a pic of her with her legs open and said "come in and upstairs im on the bed waiting for you dripping wet" naturally i went in and instantly realised somethimg wasnt right!!! She was suppossedly a single woman yet the house was very laddish, there was a huge tv screen xbox and games everywhere and old beercans all over a table, all the lights were off, anyway i carried on upstairs and into the first bedroom and SHE was a HE!!! My meet had used someone else pics to lure me in, he jumped up off the bed naked with his cock in his hand wanking and tried to slam the door behind me, it ended badly for him, ive always took safety seriously and have done many martial arts over the years a quick kick to the bollocks and thump to the nose dropped him like a sack of shit. I left and reported him on here and he was removed. Since then before i meet someone i always ask for a strange pic to prove they are genuine, such as a photo of their Knee with a cup balanced on it." Was it a really dark day? | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience? Without knowing the details of the meet - how would they know your route or time along it at any point, or car details. It'd be pretty hard to pick your car out in traffic unless it's distinctive, then catch you up, stop, turn around and catch you up again with the number of cars along the same route? I was wondering that too" ![]() | |||
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"I was chatting to a woman on here when i first joined 6 years ago, she was really hot, anyway we swapped numbers and her texts hot all the spots, we arranged to meet at her place in Bedford. I took the day off work and drove to hers and got there for 11am i text her saying im outside, she messaged back instantly with a pic of her with her legs open and said "come in and upstairs im on the bed waiting for you dripping wet" naturally i went in and instantly realised somethimg wasnt right!!! She was suppossedly a single woman yet the house was very laddish, there was a huge tv screen xbox and games everywhere and old beercans all over a table, all the lights were off, anyway i carried on upstairs and into the first bedroom and SHE was a HE!!! My meet had used someone else pics to lure me in, he jumped up off the bed naked with his cock in his hand wanking and tried to slam the door behind me, it ended badly for him, ive always took safety seriously and have done many martial arts over the years a quick kick to the bollocks and thump to the nose dropped him like a sack of shit. I left and reported him on here and he was removed. Since then before i meet someone i always ask for a strange pic to prove they are genuine, such as a photo of their Knee with a cup balanced on it." Wouldn't a quick phone call be easier to verify someone before a meet? | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience? Without knowing the details of the meet - how would they know your route or time along it at any point, or car details. It'd be pretty hard to pick your car out in traffic unless it's distinctive, then catch you up, stop, turn around and catch you up again with the number of cars along the same route?" If these cars were in on some scam, surly they'd just wait at the agreed meeting place? I've got a gut feeling on this one too. | |||
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"we arranged a meet once and they turned up weird ![]() Quick chat over coffee in a public place first is the way to go. It's often been said here if it seems too good to be true it generally isn't. | |||
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"I was chatting to a woman on here when i first joined 6 years ago, she was really hot, anyway we swapped numbers and her texts hot all the spots, we arranged to meet at her place in Bedford. I took the day off work and drove to hers and got there for 11am i text her saying im outside, she messaged back instantly with a pic of her with her legs open and said "come in and upstairs im on the bed waiting for you dripping wet" naturally i went in and instantly realised somethimg wasnt right!!! She was suppossedly a single woman yet the house was very laddish, there was a huge tv screen xbox and games everywhere and old beercans all over a table, all the lights were off, anyway i carried on upstairs and into the first bedroom and SHE was a HE!!! My meet had used someone else pics to lure me in, he jumped up off the bed naked with his cock in his hand wanking and tried to slam the door behind me, it ended badly for him, ive always took safety seriously and have done many martial arts over the years a quick kick to the bollocks and thump to the nose dropped him like a sack of shit. I left and reported him on here and he was removed. Since then before i meet someone i always ask for a strange pic to prove they are genuine, such as a photo of their Knee with a cup balanced on it. Was it a really dark day? " All the curtains upstairs were drawn and his blinds downstairs were two thirds closed making it just light enough to see. | |||
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"I was chatting to a woman on here when i first joined 6 years ago, she was really hot, anyway we swapped numbers and her texts hot all the spots, we arranged to meet at her place in Bedford. I took the day off work and drove to hers and got there for 11am i text her saying im outside, she messaged back instantly with a pic of her with her legs open and said "come in and upstairs im on the bed waiting for you dripping wet" naturally i went in and instantly realised somethimg wasnt right!!! She was suppossedly a single woman yet the house was very laddish, there was a huge tv screen xbox and games everywhere and old beercans all over a table, all the lights were off, anyway i carried on upstairs and into the first bedroom and SHE was a HE!!! My meet had used someone else pics to lure me in, he jumped up off the bed naked with his cock in his hand wanking and tried to slam the door behind me, it ended badly for him, ive always took safety seriously and have done many martial arts over the years a quick kick to the bollocks and thump to the nose dropped him like a sack of shit. I left and reported him on here and he was removed. Since then before i meet someone i always ask for a strange pic to prove they are genuine, such as a photo of their Knee with a cup balanced on it. Wouldn't a quick phone call be easier to verify someone before a meet? " I also phone them. ![]() | |||
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"I was chatting to a woman on here when i first joined 6 years ago, she was really hot, anyway we swapped numbers and her texts hot all the spots, we arranged to meet at her place in Bedford. I took the day off work and drove to hers and got there for 11am i text her saying im outside, she messaged back instantly with a pic of her with her legs open and said "come in and upstairs im on the bed waiting for you dripping wet" naturally i went in and instantly realised somethimg wasnt right!!! She was suppossedly a single woman yet the house was very laddish, there was a huge tv screen xbox and games everywhere and old beercans all over a table, all the lights were off, anyway i carried on upstairs and into the first bedroom and SHE was a HE!!! My meet had used someone else pics to lure me in, he jumped up off the bed naked with his cock in his hand wanking and tried to slam the door behind me, it ended badly for him, ive always took safety seriously and have done many martial arts over the years a quick kick to the bollocks and thump to the nose dropped him like a sack of shit. I left and reported him on here and he was removed. Since then before i meet someone i always ask for a strange pic to prove they are genuine, such as a photo of their Knee with a cup balanced on it. Was it a really dark day? All the curtains upstairs were drawn and his blinds downstairs were two thirds closed making it just light enough to see." ![]() | |||
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" Was you meet let down or did they already know you weren't coming OP? ![]() I asked that too, but he's not been back to answer anything. | |||
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" Was you meet let down or did they already know you weren't coming OP? ![]() Ahh ![]() | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience?" Yes and occasionally 'it' still tries to terrorise! | |||
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"Just because the OP is a man doesn't mean that his response to something he thought 'off' is rubbish. If a woman had posted the same experience would you all question it? His gut instinct may have been wrong but what if it wasn't? If I felt uncomfortable about any meet I would cancel, and men have exactly the same rights to do so." 100% correct - cancel. But cancelling and no-showing can be very different. The meet was planned at a location he knew about beforehand. We don't know if he cancelled or no-showed. | |||
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"I was chatting to a woman on here when i first joined 6 years ago, she was really hot, anyway we swapped numbers and her texts hot all the spots, we arranged to meet at her place in Bedford. I took the day off work and drove to hers and got there for 11am i text her saying im outside, she messaged back instantly with a pic of her with her legs open and said "come in and upstairs im on the bed waiting for you dripping wet" naturally i went in and instantly realised somethimg wasnt right!!! She was suppossedly a single woman yet the house was very laddish, there was a huge tv screen xbox and games everywhere and old beercans all over a table, all the lights were off, anyway i carried on upstairs and into the first bedroom and SHE was a HE!!! My meet had used someone else pics to lure me in, he jumped up off the bed naked with his cock in his hand wanking and tried to slam the door behind me, it ended badly for him, ive always took safety seriously and have done many martial arts over the years a quick kick to the bollocks and thump to the nose dropped him like a sack of shit. I left and reported him on here and he was removed. Since then before i meet someone i always ask for a strange pic to prove they are genuine, such as a photo of their Knee with a cup balanced on it." Similar thing happened to a male friend of ours.. Don't understand why guys do this as there is another site called fabguys for gay and bi men to meet each other. Why pretend to be a woman?? ![]() | |||
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"I met a guy i knew and trusted got locked in for sixteen hrs of utter lunacy i knew enough to keep calm but it was enough to put me off any 121 meets for play unless im at a party or club for safety ![]() That's horrible, I realise it would be a bit embarrassing reporing it to the authorities but people like that need help or locking up before they harm someone. | |||
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"I met a guy i knew and trusted got locked in for sixteen hrs of utter lunacy i knew enough to keep calm but it was enough to put me off any 121 meets for play unless im at a party or club for safety ![]() So sorry to hear that, hope you're ok now x | |||
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"I've had a few guys offer to pick me up and take me dogging I always find guys a little wierd who honestly think a woman they have never met before will get in a car with them and let them drive you into the middle of nowhere " We always say no to these as well, way to dangerous for men AND women | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience?" You did right. I only meet publicly, in a busy(ish), local area and even that's only after listening to my instincts, dissecting then analysing, listening again then following them | |||
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"To the people who replied thank you.it turned out he was schizophrenic and it only surfaced when he was stressed which is why i never suspected anything. ![]() Did you report him to the police? | |||
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"I've had a few guys offer to pick me up and take me dogging I always find guys a little wierd who honestly think a woman they have never met before will get in a car with them and let them drive you into the middle of nowhere Yes, it's their mentality that's the worrying factor." Yeah I don't understand how they don't get how creepy that can be. They're random strangers, and they have no obligation to keep you safe. Why would anyone risk that with nutters running around all the time. | |||
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"I had a guy wanting me to meet him in the street in the middle of the night. I obviously refused and we stopped texting. About 2 weeks later he phoned me threatening me for telling his wife about what he was doing lol. (I had done no such thing) He was a copper and threatened to investigate me. It turned out his wife's best friend was on here and he messaged her with a face pic ![]() If that was a few years ago and local ish I think he is back on here! | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() My driving ain't THAT scary!!! ![]() | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() ![]() I said. "Epic" ! | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() ![]() I was referring to you arriving before you left! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I already know. I have inside info ![]() | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Wow I thought SB had only told one person! ![]() | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hey. It's who you know ![]() | |||
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"There was this time.... Some stunning chick with brightly coloured hair picked me and my friend up in her car... We arrived just before we left. It was epic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I should let them all arrange it then!! ![]() | |||
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"I had a guy wanting me to meet him in the street in the middle of the night. I obviously refused and we stopped texting. About 2 weeks later he phoned me threatening me for telling his wife about what he was doing lol. (I had done no such thing) He was a copper and threatened to investigate me. It turned out his wife's best friend was on here and he messaged her with a face pic ![]() It was in the summer. And he was VERY local to me | |||
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"I was on way to meet someone last night and it felt so dodgy I bottled it - the destination was in the middle of nowhere and I noticed two cars following me all the route, stopping and turning around...it felt seriously dodgy, just wondered if anyone had had similar experience?" But how they knew where you where based? And what car were you driving ?Could be a mere coincidence! | |||
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"Just because the OP is a man doesn't mean that his response to something he thought 'off' is rubbish. If a woman had posted the same experience would you all question it? His gut instinct may have been wrong but what if it wasn't? If I felt uncomfortable about any meet I would cancel, and men have exactly the same rights to do so." ![]() | |||
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