FabSwingers.com forum: How to get Noticed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who told you you're pics are ok?

I mean they're not awful but they're not terribly imaginative. Standing out requires pictures that stand out and a profile text that's a step away from th norm too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run round ASDA naked....that should get you noticed......probably arrested too?

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Not the best way publishing this thread. It reflects that you are not self confident...

Please, take this as a constructive critic.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please "

you may regard yourself as such but others may not, sometimes you find a match straight away other times it takes some patience to find what you're looking for or for them to find you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont worry I know i am not perfect and I wish i had better sexy pics, but advise is what I am after so thanks for the comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who told you you're pics are ok?

I mean they're not awful but they're not terribly imaginative. Standing out requires pictures that stand out and a profile text that's a step away from th norm too. "

Can i ask what you like to see in a picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who told you you're pics are ok?

I mean they're not awful but they're not terribly imaginative. Standing out requires pictures that stand out and a profile text that's a step away from th norm too.

Can i ask what you like to see in a picture?

Yes. You can.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

status stating 'trying to get a shag' is not very endearing to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who told you you're pics are ok?

I mean they're not awful but they're not terribly imaginative. Standing out requires pictures that stand out and a profile text that's a step away from th norm too.

Can i ask what you like to see in a picture?

Yes. You can.

So go on tell me, naked body pics or a happy smiley face ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a certain naughtiness/sexiness in a guys eyes in a pic and yes I agree just holding a camera up your assistance or in front of you isn't very enticing for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*ass not assistance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*ass not assistance lol "

Cheers for that, will show a naughty glint in my eyes then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible."

My immediate advice would be dont mention fussy, we have a near impossible job on here so you mustnt say that, but also mustnt say you are desperate neither, hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"status stating 'trying to get a shag' is not very endearing to be honest

I agree, changed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible."

Despite not having any public pics for enticement....you dnt seem to be doing too badly lol

Probably because you've presented yourself well in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please "

Writing a profile can be difficult. On the one hand, you don't want to sound unconfident. On the other hand, you don't want to sound arrogant.

It is best to avoid the "I look great" approach (you do have pictures so people can make up their own mind).

If you take that away from your profile, there is not much left.

What is missing above all is personality.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Sorry dude, your profile is nothing special, at least you have face pics up and not 250 pics of your cock from different angles, but the rest is pretty much the same as the 1000's of others on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible.

Despite not having any public pics for enticement....you dnt seem to be doing too badly lol

Probably because you've presented yourself well in your profile "

Hey thanks for that, made me feel a lot better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who told you you're pics are ok?

I mean they're not awful but they're not terribly imaginative. Standing out requires pictures that stand out and a profile text that's a step away from th norm too.

Can i ask what you like to see in a picture?

Yes. You can.

So go on tell me, naked body pics or a happy smiley face ?"

Lol. Ok I'll stop now.

A happy smiley face always goes down well..... unless you're Gordon brown, which you're not.

Your pics don't need to be naked. In fact, they are often better if they're not.

Partially clad, even fully clothed can be very enticing. That's the key word; enticing. That's what you're aiming for.

Obviously a six pack or a massive set of arms is all very impressive but most guys haven't got those and many females don't look for them either, so get creative.

Have a look at some of the other guys pics in the hot pics gallery and at the profiles of guys who have lots of verifications.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible.

Despite not having any public pics for enticement....you dnt seem to be doing too badly lol

Probably because you've presented yourself well in your profile

Hey thanks for that, made me feel a lot better x"

loool think she was talking to the person she quoted

sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a prize winning arse (apparently)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible.

Despite not having any public pics for enticement....you dnt seem to be doing too badly lol

Probably because you've presented yourself well in your profile

Hey thanks for that, made me feel a lot better x

loool think she was talking to the person she quoted

sorry

And boom. Slapped back down. Cruel.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please "

You're a smoker.. This will instantly stop a large proportion of people on here from showing any further interest in you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nothing stands out - except your cock and not far either (In a visual appreciation sense, of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great staircase, though!

Personally I'd lose the pics of the semi hard ons, and the pics in pants. Ditto to above, being a smoker will reduce your chances but *don't* lie about it!

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please

You're a smoker.. This will instantly stop a large proportion of people on here from showing any further interest in you. "

The smoking would be the thing that would put me off. Whilst I will tolerate smokers to a degree, there are so many single guys that I can exclude smokers.

Also the part about a social, it seems a bit flippant when I read it. Kind of "I'll do a social if you really want" tone. Perhaps, word it in a friendlier tone, that you're happy to have a social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please

You're a smoker.. This will instantly stop a large proportion of people on here from showing any further interest in you.

The smoking would be the thing that would put me off. Whilst I will tolerate smokers to a degree, there are so many single guys that I can exclude smokers.

Also the part about a social, it seems a bit flippant when I read it. Kind of "I'll do a social if you really want" tone. Perhaps, word it in a friendlier tone, that you're happy to have a social. "

Yeah nice advice, will change it a bit

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and read the 17 million threads that answer all your questions.

And OP, considering yourself good looking means nothing unless someone else does, just like Guess said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP considering your last thread didn't end well was there much point in starting this one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP considering your last thread didn't end well was there much point in starting this one?

No i think it was good advice, that is what i was after, critism yes but at least i have a better idea now

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible."

Hi you could try by starting your own thread instead of hijacking another, or you could read the zillions of other posts asking the same. Looked at your profile but didn't read as no pictures to entice us. We're not looking for single guys btw but those that are require pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible.

Despite not having any public pics for enticement....you dnt seem to be doing too badly lol

Probably because you've presented yourself well in your profile

Hey thanks for that, made me feel a lot better x"

...Sorry that's a response to Jack J's comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some help with mine as well if possible.

Despite not having any public pics for enticement....you dnt seem to be doing too badly lol

Probably because you've presented yourself well in your profile

Hey thanks for that, made me feel a lot better x

...Sorry that's a response to Jack J's comment "

Haha i see, hey some woman had a right go at me for ambushing another thread, i just added my opinion which i believed was the point, blimey some people hey

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please "

A lady.

But seriously read any post like this and single men will tell you this site is not balanced for single men.

Couples even themselves out.

Single men outnumber women.

You'd have more chance of meeting in the real world, where the balance is more in your favour.

Just enjoy life and treat anything on here as a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I regard myself as good looking, fit and humorous, but that doesnt attract any attention, my pics are ok but there is something missing, can anyone advise please

A lady.

But seriously read any post like this and single men will tell you this site is not balanced for single men.

Couples even themselves out.

Single men outnumber women.

You'd have more chance of meeting in the real world, where the balance is more in your favour.

Just enjoy life and treat anything on here as a bonus. "

Totally agree and have a great new year x

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