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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please without stating the bleeding obvious can you please tell me where i am going wrong

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Please without stating the bleeding obvious can you please tell me where i am going wrong"

Decent photos, profile is txtspk free so not half bad. However, I don't quite understand the first paragraph, about the flowers and meeting the parents. Probably just me reading it wrong lol.

It's not just about the profile though. Your first message might not be hitting the right spot and getting veris through club meets iwill unlick meets on here too.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

Saying respect is earned and inviting people to tell you their dislikes is a nono for me personally...people will be on their high horse more time and wouldnt waste their time.

A bit more about you could be said less advertising of the Kik also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask everyone in your area for a coffee social.... you might get more action

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey thanks for that, will reword it a bit

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

The first meets the hardest. One you've got a couple of verifications it gets much easier. But you're still going to have to be polite, charming, and accept that you're not going to be everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying respect is earned and inviting people to tell you their dislikes is a nono for me personally...people will be on their high horse more time and wouldnt waste their time.

A bit more about you could be said less advertising of the Kik also

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I'd say this man said it all but if honest us m n can never do it right to many guys ruin it for the true honest ones just my rant lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He is right so i have edited it a bit already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah great advice , cheers

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Being bi and a smoker will probably not find favour with some, but we all have things which go against us.

Face pics are a plus, I imagine - braver than me!

It's probably just the sheer number of blokes on the site that's the problem.

That said, I think the stuff about having the courtesy to reply will put women off. It's simply not realistic on here - lots of women get loads of messages; way more than they can possibly reply to.

The fact you then go on to say you'll prove them wrong screams someone who will whinge and say "why not" if they did get a reply. Another reason women don't reply is they then get asked this question and often then get told "your loss, you fat cow".

I'm not saying for a second you are actually a whinger, or would act like that, but I suspect women may be not willing to take the risk.

Good luck.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Would be nice to know what you think of me so I can maybe prove you wrong or do something about it"

Ladies don't have time or inclination to say why they don't want to meet as they often get abuse. They also don't want proving wrong, no means no

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Being bi and a smoker will probably not find favour with some, but we all have things which go against us.

Face pics are a plus, I imagine - braver than me!

It's probably just the sheer number of blokes on the site that's the problem.

That said, I think the stuff about having the courtesy to reply will put women off. It's simply not realistic on here - lots of women get loads of messages; way more than they can possibly reply to.

The fact you then go on to say you'll prove them wrong screams someone who will whinge and say "why not" if they did get a reply. Another reason women don't reply is they then get asked this question and often then get told "your loss, you fat cow".

I'm not saying for a second you are actually a whinger, or would act like that, but I suspect women may be not willing to take the risk.

Good luck."

Wow well evaluated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes a change to see a profile populated with face pics...

but maybe just one or two?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All great advice,

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire


"Being bi and a smoker will probably not find favour with some, but we all have things which go against us.

Face pics are a plus, I imagine - braver than me!

It's probably just the sheer number of blokes on the site that's the problem.

You've hit the nail on the head, a polite no thank you often gets you abuse so often easier to delete

That said, I think the stuff about having the courtesy to reply will put women off. It's simply not realistic on here - lots of women get loads of messages; way more than they can possibly reply to.

The fact you then go on to say you'll prove them wrong screams someone who will whinge and say "why not" if they did get a reply. Another reason women don't reply is they then get asked this question and often then get told "your loss, you fat cow".

I'm not saying for a second you are actually a whinger, or would act like that, but I suspect women may be not willing to take the risk.

Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick at it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had a quick look, only thing I'd say is there are plenty of face pic but most look grumpy

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Any chance of a smile?

Sally

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP What is your 10th December picture of ?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loving the advice, first time i have ever been on the forum

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Loving the advice, first time i have ever been on the forum"

Well howdy there! Stick around, put your feet up and grab a brew, it's fun round here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loving the advice, first time i have ever been on the forum

Well howdy there! Stick around, put your feet up and grab a brew, it's fun round here "

Yes it certainly is good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP What is your 10th December picture of ?

Sally"

Its my bum and balls, take it down ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please without stating the bleeding obvious can you please tell me where i am going wrong"

how about you send me a message like the ones you send out and I can tell you whether its up to scratch or not?

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"OP What is your 10th December picture of ?

Sally

Its my bum and balls, take it down ?"

I saw the bum but not the balls till you pointed them out.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please without stating the bleeding obvious can you please tell me where i am going wrong

how about you send me a message like the ones you send out and I can tell you whether its up to scratch or not? "

I would but im outside your age range and it is blocking me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP What is your 10th December picture of ?

Sally

Its my bum and balls, take it down ?

I saw the bum but not the balls till you pointed them out.

Sally"

I have big balls too lol

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Being bi and a smoker will probably not find favour with some, but we all have things which go against us.

Face pics are a plus, I imagine - braver than me!

It's probably just the sheer number of blokes on the site that's the problem.

That said, I think the stuff about having the courtesy to reply will put women off. It's simply not realistic on here - lots of women get loads of messages; way more than they can possibly reply to.

The fact you then go on to say you'll prove them wrong screams someone who will whinge and say "why not" if they did get a reply. Another reason women don't reply is they then get asked this question and often then get told "your loss, you fat cow".

I'm not saying for a second you are actually a whinger, or would act like that, but I suspect women may be not willing to take the risk.

Good luck.

Wow well evaluated "

Cheers

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