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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District

Hello you sexy people!

We've been looking for a single woman for some time now to join us for our first threesome. We've just updated our profile to that effect.

We are verified via meets and photo, and pay to support FAB. We've got lots of photos (with our faces blurred for obvious reasons) and have private photos for those who contact us.

We're open to either a 'Unicorn' or something more regular - but we're not here to 'test the waters' or 'see if swinging is for us' (It definitely is for us, we've been doing it for 5 years now!)

We'd obviously like our profile to be female friendly.

Would all you single bi women out there mind looking it over and giving us some feedback please, either on here or via private message? We'd really appreciate it!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I'd say is ditch the holiday snaps and upload some sexy pics of you playing together.

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"The only thing I'd say is ditch the holiday snaps and upload some sexy pics of you playing together. "

Thanks for the advice. We have some of those pics, but we weren't sure a single woman would want to see them.

So many profiles say they don't want to see cock etc. pics, which is why we've avoided it so far.

Might have to change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for example. You have so subtle sexy pics of yourself but none of Mr. Doesn't have to be crude pics but something to show him off as well as you

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"Well for example. You have so subtle sexy pics of yourself but none of Mr. Doesn't have to be crude pics but something to show him off as well as you"

Ah, I might have to work on his confidence. He's got a bit of a stomach, nothing massive, but he's a big guy build wise. He's confident enough in person, but struggles to see photos of himself as sexy

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I don't want to see you playing (some might) thanks all the same.

I don't really get drawn to any explicit profiles men or couples!

Tbh. The number of samey photos and had fact that you blur the face just ... meh

I'd rather see more interesting photos (do don't always have to face the camera) and a better mix of the two of you...

Unless your ffm is just the girls playing and you two playing

The fact that you don't travel would make me more uneasy.

Maybe you'd be better trying clubs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I hear you. Well good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look over it and I personally would lose the bit about you both being romantic and being together as if you are wanting someone to join you.. that might put them off...

Also a few pics of you both together ...

You are both looking after all

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I think also sorry while there's other of information on the narrative it could be condensed or re jigged... ffm is the 3rd paragraph ... a lot will give up before then

And don't slag off other people... even if their photos are old ..it makes your comments negative/some may say bitchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be on as a single bi fem and always went to clubs and played there for my safety more than anything else, as a couple we always state happy for girls to just play and me to watch or play with me if that's what the lady wants.

We'd hate a women to feel she's there as our play thing and always chat a lot first to see what she's like and wants from the meet as that's what I liked x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The fact that your newest verification is three years old might be offputting to some.

Sally

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District

Hi all,

Thanks for all the advice. We'll get some sexy photos of him uploaded (if it kills me!!) and rework the text a bit.

I suppose we've been a bit impatient really. We're really eager for a meet and people have been so busy we've not had many responses to our read messages, yet.

Having no recent verifications is because we've been away for a bit to look after family, but we're now back. Additionally, some people we've met recently are no longer on the site to ask for a verification. (I hope that's not a bad omen!!!)

We are photo verified though (since day 1), so hopefully that'll help show we're serious.

Any further advice would always be gratefully recieved! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs !

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"Clubs !"

We've had less luck in clubs than on here!

We'd also like to be able to enjoy the experience privately, rather than in a club setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for safe first meeting.

Private private for afters !

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District

Ok all,

We've updated our profile a bit and would appreciate any follow up advice.

We're taking some new photos this coming weekend (I've convinced him!) so they will be uploaded then.

xxx

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District

New photos and text on our profile now. Might be getting somewhere with one person, which is a good start.

Anyone got any further thoughts about our profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New photos and text on our profile now. Might be getting somewhere with one person, which is a good start.

Anyone got any further thoughts about our profile?"

A good informative profile with some great pics. Pity about the ones with a red cast. A photo editing program should sort them.

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"New photos and text on our profile now. Might be getting somewhere with one person, which is a good start.

Anyone got any further thoughts about our profile?

A good informative profile with some great pics. Pity about the ones with a red cast. A photo editing program should sort them."

It's not a red cast, it's intentional. Studio lights with a red filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for example. You have so subtle sexy pics of yourself but none of Mr. Doesn't have to be crude pics but something to show him off as well as you"

I agree

If i was meeting a couple id want to see both of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New photos and text on our profile now. Might be getting somewhere with one person, which is a good start.

Anyone got any further thoughts about our profile?

A good informative profile with some great pics. Pity about the ones with a red cast. A photo editing program should sort them.

It's not a red cast, it's intentional. Studio lights with a red filter."

Sorry about that lol

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"Well for example. You have so subtle sexy pics of yourself but none of Mr. Doesn't have to be crude pics but something to show him off as well as you

I agree

If i was meeting a couple id want to see both of them x"

We are both on there

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"New photos and text on our profile now. Might be getting somewhere with one person, which is a good start.

Anyone got any further thoughts about our profile?

A good informative profile with some great pics. Pity about the ones with a red cast. A photo editing program should sort them.

It's not a red cast, it's intentional. Studio lights with a red filter.

Sorry about that lol "

Niet problemski

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Hello you sexy people!

We've been looking for a single woman for some time now to join us for our first threesome. We've just updated our profile to that effect.

We are verified via meets and photo, and pay to support FAB. We've got lots of photos (with our faces blurred for obvious reasons) and have private photos for those who contact us.

We're open to either a 'Unicorn' or something more regular - but we're not here to 'test the waters' or 'see if swinging is for us' (It definitely is for us, we've been doing it for 5 years now!)

We'd obviously like our profile to be female friendly.

Would all you single bi women out there mind looking it over and giving us some feedback please, either on here or via private message? We'd really appreciate it!

xxx"
although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx"

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later x"
believe me they are not, the rules sometimes take months to read, with the ever changing small print xx hope this helps xxx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later x"
as an extra make sure you confirm that equal way dynamics is the same for your single bi woman..may seem obvious, but its not..that 'sharing' is allowed/ not allowed x

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later xbelieve me they are not, the rules sometimes take months to read, with the ever changing small print xx hope this helps xxx"

Ah, we both don't see the point in not being able to fully play in a threesome. Seems like a waste of a bloody good opportunity to us!

Very helpful, thank you x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later xbelieve me they are not, the rules sometimes take months to read, with the ever changing small print xx hope this helps xxx

Ah, we both don't see the point in not being able to fully play in a threesome. Seems like a waste of a bloody good opportunity to us!

Very helpful, thank you x"
you are welcome xx

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later xbelieve me they are not, the rules sometimes take months to read, with the ever changing small print xx hope this helps xxx

Ah, we both don't see the point in not being able to fully play in a threesome. Seems like a waste of a bloody good opportunity to us!

Very helpful, thank you xyou are welcome xx"

Now if only you didn't live 210+ miles away, and our profile was good enough

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Yours is one of the best profiles I have read. Just a couple of things:

More photographs of him too

A little more detail about how and how far you see this progressing with the single woman; but don't tie yourself down or paint yourself into a corner; leave it a bit flexible

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"although your profile says what you want you havent mentioned 'equal way dynamics', soft or full swap that kind of thing..its what im looking for when looking at couples profiles..make it easy for a woman to see what you want/allow etc..she might not bother asking on here xx

Ah, never occurred to us as all the people we've seen on here and have met are all after the same thing, which is a full swap with a woman. We'll update it a little later xbelieve me they are not, the rules sometimes take months to read, with the ever changing small print xx hope this helps xxx

Ah, we both don't see the point in not being able to fully play in a threesome. Seems like a waste of a bloody good opportunity to us!

Very helpful, thank you xyou are welcome xx

Now if only you didn't live 210+ miles away, and our profile was good enough "
im always travelling about but meet at clubs socially with couples a long way away, so, if we dont click, its not an issue..i also dont play always on first meeting..i might for example be with a partner at club and arrange to meet people, at a later date x coming up to northwest in june, but am always going to clubs in the midlands x

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"im always travelling about but meet at clubs socially with couples a long way away, so, if we dont click, its not an issue..i also dont play always on first meeting..i might for example be with a partner at club and arrange to meet people, at a later date x coming up to northwest in june, but am always going to clubs in the midlands x"

Argh! I'm only working part time at the moment and a student, so finances mean we can't afford clubs, plus the £30 taxi home at 3am from our nearest club (Atlantis btw) Swinging is getting expensive!

Still, when we do have the money to go to a club we will be doing, and we'll be sure to check if you're in the area! x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"im always travelling about but meet at clubs socially with couples a long way away, so, if we dont click, its not an issue..i also dont play always on first meeting..i might for example be with a partner at club and arrange to meet people, at a later date x coming up to northwest in june, but am always going to clubs in the midlands x

Argh! I'm only working part time at the moment and a student, so finances mean we can't afford clubs, plus the £30 taxi home at 3am from our nearest club (Atlantis btw) Swinging is getting expensive!

Still, when we do have the money to go to a club we will be doing, and we'll be sure to check if you're in the area! x"
its always on my status where i am going to be, always welcome to come say hi..ill keep my eyes on where you are headed too xx

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"Yours is one of the best profiles I have read. Just a couple of things:

More photographs of him too

A little more detail about how and how far you see this progressing with the single woman; but don't tie yourself down or paint yourself into a corner; leave it a bit flexible"

Aww, thank you. That's so sweet! (Still don't seem to be getting anywhere, but there are a fair few timewasters in our area...)

It's very difficult to get photos of him, as he's not very confident about his body. Well, at least not photos of it, he's actually fine when we're playing with people!

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"its always on my status where i am going to be, always welcome to come say hi..ill keep my eyes on where you are headed too xx"

We'll have to keep an eye on that then! We might be going to Atlantis in March, finances depending. Too busy and poor at the moment! Other than that, we don't get out much at the moment Still, we always put a meet up when we're free, wherever that may be! x

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District

Ok, so I've finally convinced him to get some more photos of him up!

We've taken some today and I think they're good (though I'm not much of a photographer...)

Would people mind taking a looking and give me your opinion on them (and our updated profile) please? I'd really like to make sure we can attract a sexy woman to us!

Thanks xxx

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District

*bump*

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

We were looking for the same for a long time but sadly never happened and pretty much given up lol x hope you find that very illusive female xx

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By *heaspieswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Peak District


"We were looking for the same for a long time but sadly never happened and pretty much given up lol x hope you find that very illusive female xx"

We've been looking for a while, but before our profile was a bit too generic for it. Now we're only looking for it and have tailored our profile to it.

We hope we do too! Hope it happens for you guys too! x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you think the headless picture of hubby in an anorak, reflected in a broken mirror, will attract an illusive single woman?

Sally

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"The only thing I'd say is ditch the holiday snaps and upload some sexy pics of you playing together.

Thanks for the advice. We have some of those pics, but we weren't sure a single woman would want to see

So many profiles say they don't want to see cock etc. pics, which is why we've avoided it so far.

Might have to change that "

There a difference between sexy photos . omg put it all away and boring repetitive ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've looked for a few years,we've met 2 for a social, over dinner and everything seems to go well, one saying we will meet so plans made for a hotel meet and days before after chatting via texts she disappeared off the site (not this site) then a text to say sorry things have changed. And the second was going well the she said her husband said she had to stop swinging (he know what she did but it wasn't for him) so that one didn't happen. We now won't meet any attached people male or female and have pretty much given up on the idea of meeting a single female, we do go to clubs which if it happens it does has you do get single females in there so you never know it might happen.

That might be a option for yourselves. Xx me.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

All the single females we have met as a couple except for ones we have met at parties or clubs have approached us from our profile . Not sure if it is female friendly but our photos have a mixture of us both and we have fun photos sex photos and normal photos. Regards the profile text honestly doubt that it matters what you have written we hardly ever read a profile first , we will always look at the photos to get our first impressions

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