FabSwingers.com forum: Profile support ?

By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Anything I can do to improve it?

The few veris I have are from meets with people that weren't based on fab and as a single bloke I've had no luck after all this time.

Am I too obvious? Am I ugly? ??

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why don't you tell us your couple name on your profile?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok quick look I'd say ditch all the stuff about your fb maybe a link to couples profile at the bottom. But this is your single profile people who have searched for a single man wont like the FB bait and switch.

Get a few more public pics.

Ditch the complaining status

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

I've switched my profile and my pics various ways over the time I've been on here.

I have had a link to my couple page and also haven't had it on at all. Messaged quite a lot of people but never seem to get any response. I never send just a cock pick and I always try make some conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, well you asked advice was given youre ignoring it.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok I'm going to go out on a limb here and say its probably because you have a fb that no one wants to know...

if I was you I would stick to the couples account and let your fb do the searching on her own profile ...

people are always far more interested in a single woman's profile than they are in a single man's, as lets face it there are 1000's of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile isn't good at all.

firstly you're trying to meet as a couple on it. then you mention you aren't fussy about who you'll meet (huge put off for most women). then you're saying fat women should have underwear on to hide their fat? kinda rude. you've got yourself down as athletic yet your pics don't reflect this.

just a shit profile imo.

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Tweaked it a bit. I'm not ignoring advice though I'm just struggling to decide what's best

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP A lot of people ignore winks. Why not send a message instead?

Sally

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

OP, your pics aren't great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tweaked it a bit. I'm not ignoring advice though I'm just struggling to decide what's best "

try tweaking a bit more...

it really isn't a good profile...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Stick to tweaking nipples and do a massive re-write of your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile , whilst better than some is still not good . And , our chap , before he met the two of us girls and introduced us to Fab , had loads of meets from Fab and he was on her infrequently and is a fussy git !

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Oh my! Is it really that bad?

Any tips? I usually have a fairly creative side but I've really struggled with this.

And what tips for the pics?

All this input is appreciated guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the 'I don't mind' stuff.

It's like your doing curvy women or couples a favour letting you meet them.

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Edited again.

Any better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Edited again.

Any better ? "

not really, you need punctuation to help break up the monologue

also if you don't want men to message you then set your filters...

spur of the moment sounds better than drop of the hat too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Edited again.

Any better ? "

We would not meet a guy who says 'don't mind couples'. We only meet guys who love threesomes. I can't comment from the perspective of a single lady, as I'm not single.

Mrs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Edited again.

Any better ? "

No - you're tweaking. Read the forum threads about profile advice.

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

I'll have a thorough re-write later see if I can improve it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Edited again.

Any better ?

We would not meet a guy who says 'don't mind couples'. We only meet guys who love threesomes. I can't comment from the perspective of a single lady, as I'm not single.

Mrs

Yep exactly this.

The bloke involved with us has to be 100% committed to the threesome experience and is on here to get right involved in one because the idea turns him on. Not just to get his oily mitts on my Mrs and just put up with me being there.

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/_ndyiron84

Well I've gone and started all over again. I've had a look at some of the men's profiles on here and mine now certainly doesn't seem so tragic. That doesn't mean its great. Hopefully you guys can help me if its still piss poor ha ha.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Much better

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Thanks Steve. Much appreciated. I am still trying to figure it all out and I'm determined to stick at it.

Hopefully I'll get to quest again soon and get some veris on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

much better in my opinion as well.

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

thanks guys. Any advice with the pics as a few have said mine aren't great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're ok to me, all i wanna see is what guys look like. i'd personally crop out more of the background in them as an improvement, no idea what other types of pics you should take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in some of them, some are already cropped or you're the focus of the pic.

like mirror pics i do crop put everything except the mirror reflection, but this is personal taste now when we talk about pics.

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By *ndyiron84 OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

My flat isn't the best for taking pics and I'm sure I'd be kicked out of the gym for taking nudes

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