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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Ok so I enjoy seeing wife getting fucked by her FB and are possibly looking at lining up someone else up, but is this cuckolding ??

I get my enjoyment from watching / taking part / 3 sum, even if I'm at work and he has come around for a play I hear all about later while the two of us are playing together. It's hard to describe but my enjoyment is see/hearing her enjoy it almost like a out of body experience but I get to watch as well.

Recently got talking to a nice guy that said he was a cuckold expert but didn't real get where I was coming from,he kept asking if on our meets if she would flirt with him and be kissing him in front of me among other things. I'm just not sure if this falls within the cuckolding as I love watching/taking part or is this just a standard 3 sum ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

He was a cuckhold "expert"?.....really

You do want you want and call it what you will.

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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"He was a cuckhold "expert"?.....really

You do want you want and call it what you will. "

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

say more hotwifing than cuckold but you enjoy it as others have said its a great feeling

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more like hotwifing to me.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin

More hotwife I'd say. Does he and or your wife lead or what involvement do you have.

When you say you join in, is that by invitation or whenever you feel like it?

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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Bloody hell never even heard of hotwifing before . But they are both more than happy and willing for me to join in at any point as am I, especially after I have taken all the pictures I wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cucks are a bit more into the humiliation angle from what I understand (although I am ready to be corrected on that)... just sounds like some regular common or garden hotwifing (which is our thing too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with cuckold and hotwife couples. As some others have said there is generally a humiliation component to the cuckold relationship. Hotwife on the other hand is similar to what the op describes. However, like all relationships each is unique.

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By *obinsoloMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

Technically and traditionally "cuckold" is simply the term for the husband of a wife who has an affair with someone else.

However it seems for many swingers there are a wide range of variations but that for some (many?) it involves an element of humiliating the husband/man. The humiliation being self-inflicted, inflicted by the wife or inflicted by the bull (the other man).

However humiliation is not part of the original meaning.

Personally I think it is whatever the people make it and as long as everyone understands the "play" then its fine.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Don't mind what other people say if this is what u enjoy u can call it what u dam like . It's great fun enjoy urself do u need to call it a name. I would not care what u call it so long as I enjoyed it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know we've debated this for ages, just wondering what category we was in. I love watching Mrs have the time of her life, I make all the decisions though and she performs and enjoys knowing how much it makes me want her. And like you said, you can get far better pics/vids when you take a step back and watch I love showing her off more than anything

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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"You know we've debated this for ages, just wondering what category we was in. I love watching Mrs have the time of her life, I make all the decisions though and she performs and enjoys knowing how much it makes me want her. And like you said, you can get far better pics/vids when you take a step back and watch I love showing her off more than anything"

To true I love seeing her getting turned on and being made to orgasm by her FB seeing her having a good time gives me a good time. knowing I can pop in and out at any point in between pics and videos or when she is desperate for a second cock to hold or play with while we take it in turns fucking her.

Thank you for all your replies guys but we think it's definitely " hotwifing " category we fall in to but like most of you said who cares what it's called we're just enjoying ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know we've debated this for ages, just wondering what category we was in. I love watching Mrs have the time of her life, I make all the decisions though and she performs and enjoys knowing how much it makes me want her. And like you said, you can get far better pics/vids when you take a step back and watch I love showing her off more than anything"

Exactly where we are at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was a cuckhold "expert"?.....really

You do want you want and call it what you will. "

Agree with this. Do what you enjoy and don't worry about labels.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

your bed

As others have said if you, your wife and her fb, know what you like there is no issue.

If you are looking for someone else to join in then labels are useful to filter out those looking for something slightly different to what you enjoy.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I think the true actual name for you is "Lucky basta'd"

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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Fab forum is great for things like this and all you guys are so much more help and better informed than google or the urban dictionary

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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"I think the true actual name for you is "Lucky basta'd" "

Thank you I sure am.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Jeez all this terminology! I'm so naive never heard of most of it

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By *ustthe2ofusXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Jeez all this terminology! I'm so naive never heard of most of it "

MOST of it No matter what it's called like everyone said don't matter as long as your having fun

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Jeez all this terminology! I'm so naive never heard of most of it

MOST of it No matter what it's called like everyone said don't matter as long as your having fun "

Never a truer words spoken

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

It's what you want it to be,as much as some people would like it to be,life is not a Porn film.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Definitely hotwife.

Not cuck.

I've got a hotwife, we definitely don't do humiliation, it's definitely not cuckolding.

But totally agree with the sentiment - It's like porn that you are living in

It's ace.

Flames

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

You don't need to label anything you do, if you feel the need label it fun, if you and all involved enjoy thennits defiantly fun!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Traditionally a cuckold husband would be denied any sexual contact, so hotwifing is the correct term for the pleasure you are enjoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I'd go along with the "Do what thou wilt" sentiment on here, as long as no one is getting hurt.... unless they want to be...

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