FabSwingers.com forum: punishment ideas

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?

Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping an close eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tease the hell out of them and when they want you so bad, put your clothes back on and don't give in? Keep teasing throughout the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tease the hell out of them and when they want you so bad, put your clothes back on and don't give in? Keep teasing throughout the day"

Teasing sounds like a bit of a turn on. Also it's a punishment for them. Denying sex doesn't work because that's punishing myself lol

I still want to be able to use my subs fuckholes.

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Theres a bit difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking though. Is there a particular implement she isn't fond of? The cane for example?

Or perhaps invite someone else to watch, or to spank her whilst you watch.

Maybe have her stood in the corner, hands on head, naked, after.

Write on her body with lipstick.

Make her expose herself publically. E.g drive around with her topless in the passenger seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres a bit difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking though. Is there a particular implement she isn't fond of? The cane for example?

Or perhaps invite someone else to watch, or to spank her whilst you watch.

Maybe have her stood in the corner, hands on head, naked, after.

Write on her body with lipstick.

Make her expose herself publically. E.g drive around with her topless in the passenger seat."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut off a limb. That'll show her...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her..."

Ooer, bit too extreme for me madam :P

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?

Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.

BULLY

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her..."

Then cook it and make her eat it with some fava beans

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her...

Then cook it and make her eat it with some fava beans "

And a nice Chianti ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her...

Ooer, bit too extreme for me madam :P"

Practically, you do need to post a little more information if you want realistic ideas that might suit.

I don't do 'punishment' in my dynamic, but sometimes I do 'stuff he doesn't like because I like it when he doesn't like it'. That might include:

- Birching

- Stinging nettle play (or chilli in winter)

- Extended chastity

- Needleplay chastity

- Extended bondage

- Piss enemas

- Humiliation at clubs

etc

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Theres a bit difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking though. Is there a particular implement she isn't fond of? The cane for example?

Or perhaps invite someone else to watch, or to spank her whilst you watch.

Maybe have her stood in the corner, hands on head, naked, after.

Write on her body with lipstick.

Make her expose herself publically. E.g drive around with her topless in the passenger seat."

Not a good idea driving around with a topless woman in the passenger seat

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her...

Then cook it and make her eat it with some fava beans

And a nice Chianti ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clothes pegs on the nipples and clit. Also I use deep heat on my parnters balls . This could be handy on women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butt plugged shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Burn her like a witch!!!!......too early?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Butt plugged shopping "

Now re-named Black Mamba Friday

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her..."
yeah and if that don't work cut of your own limb.that will teach her.??

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her...yeah and if that don't work cut of your own limb.that will teach her.??"

Then cook both limbs with some fava beans

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Butt plugged shopping "

That sounds very naughty and fun

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By *ankedMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Kneeling on rice

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

We would like some ideas as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blindfolded and candle wax play.

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By *Y1 - SubmissiveMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

The worst way to punish a Sub is to start to play,the Boss really got my engine going and was dripping with precum dying to start pleasuring him then suddenly my cock was grabbed and he wanked me off fast and furiously letting me shoot a huge load ! The Boss then proceeded to tie me spread eagle with rough hemp bondage rope by wrists and then started to punish my arse while mouth and arse available to him also. Once you've just cum the last thing you want is your arse leathered,he tanned fuck out of me using hand,plimsoll,jeans belt and Borstal Strap to finish. Is still to date the most painful punishment I've ever had,never agree to punishment once your balls are empty as it hurts 20 times more than normal !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be tied up and covered in spunk in a forest somewhere and get discovered by a passer by who my partner arranges to get to play a role play part and they both join in to finish me off. Any offers ?

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By *ankedMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

"I would love to be tied up and covered in spunk in a forest somewhere and get discovered by a passer by who my partner arranges to get to play a role play part and they both join in to finish me off. Any offers ?"

Sounds fun

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Teasing sounds like a bit of a turn on. Also it's a punishment for them. Denying sex doesn't work because that's punishing myself lol

I still want to be able to use my subs fuckholes."

Think of orgasm denial rather than deny sex completely

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Make her wear an anal hook

Use Hot wax on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple thing like writing line's. Takes time to do etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U look amazin and good at it lol

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

One interesting one an ex got me to do was go to a large supermarket when it's busy and purchase only a cucumber, some condoms and lube. Then go through a normal checkout, relatively simple but a tremendous mind fuck at the same time! Oh she wanted evidence of the receipt as well!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Posted 7 hours ago. Waking up at 5:30am and pondering ideas; you have some dedication to the cause OP.

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

line writing or essay writing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remote controlled vibrating butt plug. Take her somewhere quiet but busy and turn it on. The looks from others should be humiliating for her especially if she starts squirming

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By *ustdoomnowMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Butt plugs work well, I find. Make her wear one during a meal, or bus, car ride.

I also have a remote controlled egg I make her wear shopping, or to the pub. Turn in on when she's talking to people.

Also, find which spanking she prefers, thuddy or stingy. My toy doesn't like the belt. But loves being flogged or paddled. Good punishment, a flogging, bad punishment the belt.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Being made to sit down on a spiked chair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your sub really. What about particular types of flogging or spanking, using their least favoured as punishment? Or orgasm denial, or keeping hands restrained so they can't touch - drives me crazy!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Now the weather is getting cold, when there is frost or snow have them stand outside barefoot for a minute...or five...depending on their personal limits.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?

Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.

Make them watch birmingham play

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

made to wet them selves and then go shopping

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

Orgasm spoiling seems to go down really badly so makes a great punishment..... especially if she thinks she is going to orgasm

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ironing. No woman I've ever met has enjoyed that shit!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

its obvious then ...not flogging and spanking ..

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

Ffs just kill her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs just kill her

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then hang her head on a pole outside her house.

Now that's embarrassment

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Ffs just kill her

then hang her head on a pole outside her house.

Now that's embarrassment

With a carrot in her mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs just kill her

then hang her head on a pole outside her house.

Now that's embarrassment

With a carrot in her mouth! "
now if she was a pig I would use an apple

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Ffs just kill her

then hang her head on a pole outside her house.

Now that's embarrassment

With a carrot in her mouth! now if she was a pig I would use an apple

Use both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her take the rubbish out, followed by mowing the garden. Then force her to binge watch the entire series of El Dorado whilst ironing. Pure evil mwahaha!!!

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Make her take the rubbish out, followed by mowing the garden. Then force her to binge watch the entire series of El Dorado whilst ironing. Pure evil mwahaha!!!"

I say kill the bitch

Get it over and done with

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

order her to make herself cum every hour on the hour for 24 hours- and she has to phone you as she does it, if you are asleep make her do it on your voicemail.

if you consider she fakes any of them, add another on

she will be knackered and sore by the end of the 24 hours.

less drastic than removing limbs and much less messy !

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By *ob nice but domMan
over a year ago

PAISLEY

A nice bit of Bonjela on her "bits" before she heads to work is a particular non fave of slut sara.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Orgasm and speech control to extend and control her dress style .

All 3 is a punishment for any woman being a sub or not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a butt plug then take them shopping, see how long they can last in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her santa isn't coming

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Perverts all of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?

Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.

"
nettles! I made a guy put them in his boxer... ha ..... I made him chew a used condom after he had smelt it licked it then he had to bite the the end of it.. and was made to drink the Cum of another man ...

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Chastity x

Anal insertions

Punishment enema

I'd say it's less about pain and more about humiliation x

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

or u could try electro stimulation ..i love it myself, but not everyone does and they do use it as a torture .. just makes me cum really hard .. maybe its perfect for this

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Tell her santa isn't coming"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie them up & tickle arm pits feet other sensitive zones till they can't take no more.....Tickle torture

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By *bandjam91Couple
over a year ago

London

"Simple thing like writing line's. Takes time to do etc

We have found this works well!

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By *bandjam91Couple
over a year ago

London

"One interesting one an ex got me to do was go to a large supermarket when it's busy and purchase only a cucumber, some condoms and lube. Then go through a normal checkout, relatively simple but a tremendous mind fuck at the same time! Oh she wanted evidence of the receipt as well! "

Good idea

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her..."

Hehe

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

As a submissive, the worst punishment a dom could bestow upon me is ignoring me. I've had that done a few times were I've had contact withdrawn for a specific amount of time. I find that agonising. Especially if I know he's disappointed with me.

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By *ankedMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

"Simple thing like writing line's. Takes time to do etc

We have found this works well!"

I use this as punishment quite a bit.

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

a clothes peg on the clit for an extended time when removed is very painful especially when just pulled of

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I'm surprised no one has mentioned figging yet.

Ginger burns like hell when it's shoved up your ass or put on your clit.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Naughty corner/step for at least an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that an olympic sport now, just add a little milk and put in a bowl , they ll lap it up

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford

"Cut off a limb. That'll show her..."

Hahaha

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Public humiliation.

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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

This is a great idea .We used to play with a sub who was tied and blindfolded so she could hear us play but we didn't touch her. She found this so frustrating that it was a genuine punishment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her watch endless episodes of Coronation Street without wearing a blindfold.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Make her watch endless episodes of Coronation Street without wearing a blindfold. "

Oh god, the horror!

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By *ction man1Man
over a year ago

leicester

Punishment for what ??.....I spank cane whip flog my slave because I want to....if she did anything wrong we'd sort it out.

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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

"Punishment for what ??.....I spank cane whip flog my slave because I want to....if she did anything wrong we'd sort it out."

Don't forget the electrical stuff, needles, pegs,clamps and burning stuff....I'm such a good girl there would be a lot of inactivity if this stuff was only done as 'punishment'

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By *-elleWoman
over a year ago

Romford

Punishment should fit the scenario you have created. Otherwise it's out of context and can appear odd, unrealistic or contrived.

You have to give us a focus/theme then we can advise specifically?

Control is all about consistancy.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Spanking and caning is fun, sure, in the right context. But when it is in the context of having disappointed someone, it is horrendous. I can't speak for all subs, but that's how it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make her watch endless episodes of Coronation Street without wearing a blindfold. "

And have the theme tune piped into their bedroom so there's no escape

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