FabSwingers.com forum: Quid pro quo

By *oveshell74 OP Man
over a year ago

ealing

Hi,

I'm new here and still looking for my first meet and verification. I thought I was making progress when I got someone to chat to me on skype. She wanted to see me on cam which was fine. She also asked to see me naked. I said that was fine if she let me see her face which I thought was more than fair but she refused and I guess we won't be meeting now.

It seems to me verification should be a two way process.

I know a lot of people post nude shots on here. Am I being unnecessarily prudish?

Regards,

Stephen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with, either on Fab or on MSN/Skype or wherever.

Sadly, there are some people on here who pretend to be women, just to see naked men

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By *oveshell74 OP Man
over a year ago

ealing

Thanks for the answer.

It is true there are people who do that though I don't get why. The thing that puzzled me is this person has a verification. I guess some people are too quick to verify others as well.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Well I rarely cam but never ask a guy to. If he offers and its convenient I will have a quick peek to verify if he hasnt any pics and prefers it but I would never ask him to strip. I dont think its very nice to treat other humans like a piece of meat and wouldnt really like to meet anyone who did. Of course everyone is different and there are those that dont mind I guess. Never do anything you are not comfortable with and always trust your gut instinct. If is seems to good to be true it probably is... Good luck.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be yourself and true to yourself.

if something doesnt feel right then it isnt.

dont just meet anyone because you want that tick on your profile.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Hi,

It seems to me verification should be a two way process.

I know a lot of people post nude shots on here. Am I being unnecessarily prudish?

Regards,

Stephen.

She was a he,who wanted a nice wank.Dont worry we have all done it as newbies.Make sure you have some proof they are a fem next time,the chat rooms are a good way to "meet" without exchanging personal contact details too early.

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By *oveshell74 OP Man
over a year ago

ealing

I didn't get caught out fortunately. What confuses me is that s/he is verified. Which gulliable sucker did that if she wasn't real. My own feeling was that it was a woman but she was very arrogant despite labelling herself a sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people, really

That sucks, and not in the good way.

Maybe chatting via phone or going to a club will help you find your feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loving the latin

great to see the language of culture on fab

I hope to see you with a new thread "veni vidi vici " soon - the emphasis on the "veni"

good luck

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I didn't get caught out fortunately. What confuses me is that s/he is verified. Which gulliable sucker did that if she wasn't real. My own feeling was that it was a woman but she was very arrogant despite labelling herself a sub."

Despite admin doing their best it is not unheard of for men to verify each other.

And an arrogant sub...never!

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