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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand people may get frustrated with this but yeah, I haven't had a hit in over a year now. And I'm not sure where I'm going wrong? Any help would be appreciated as I'm getting very sex deprived

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your profile is too bland and your age is against you. You can improve the profile.....fab is a site where young men are at a disadvantage compared to older ones. Nothing you can do about that except join in, go to socials and be positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any idea how I could bulk it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people may get frustrated with this but yeah, I haven't had a hit in over a year now. And I'm not sure where I'm going wrong? Any help would be appreciated as I'm getting very sex deprived "

Your profile is very poor to say the least, and your photos aren't much better.

We see a lot of this. Young guys coming on here and putting very little effort into their profiles.

Frankly it is up to you to change it. If you are looking for advice, a little effort put into searching the Forums will give you all the advice you need.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Any idea how I could bulk it up?

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Oh yes! But if I told you then it would be my profile and not yours. Think about what you can offer, what you like and dislike and try to be specific and more discerning. If you try to attract everyone, you'll attract no one. Spend a good length of time reading the forums about what people like to see on a profile. It's got to be unique to you. You know you best.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says you will be uploading more photos soon. Your most recent is 2 May. When are the new pics coming?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uninspiring photos, uninspiring text. Try some organised socials to get known locally; perhaps you will put yourself across better in a real life socialising scenario than you do in the virtual sense. Effort needs to be put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The emoji on the first pic sums up what I thought about the profile. The photos are uninspiring and the profile doesn't tell anyone who reads it what you are really looking for.

There are so many single guys on here, who is going to waste time having to pull info from you to figure out if you area after the same thing when the next guy they look at has provided plenty of detail? I'd suggest not many.

If you're serious have a look for a local social or get to a club and start meeting people, from there it gets easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we look for single guys we like a profile that actually says what the person has to offer and usually there personality shines through. Your profile is very bland it does not stand out amongst the hundreds of others out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any idea how I could bulk it up?

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You don't "bulk it up."

You write a fun, witty and informative attractive profile and add tasteful pictures.

Alternatively, go to clubs and socials if you lack the ability to communicate via text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of context, but I love your bathroom floor tiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jimmy . Your profile is bad, honestly but not nastily said .

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By *uniorendowedMan
over a year ago

London Derbyshire


"Out of context, but I love your bathroom floor tiles "

Hahaha I was thinking the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people may get frustrated with this but yeah, I haven't had a hit in over a year now. And I'm not sure where I'm going wrong? Any help would be appreciated as I'm getting very sex deprived "

Over a year? But your profile is only 9 months old.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If the OP comes back I may add my little bit

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Any idea how I could bulk it up?

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It's not about bulking up :/

A good profile can be short as long as it's interesting,says what you are offering , not all about what you want and gets your ideas across.

Your photos... I'm not impressed with the state of the bathroom and they are just bland...

Have look at some others and see if you can find inspiration

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