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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Hey all,

So we've been on this site a long time now. We have mixed socially with swingers on a few occasions. But between bad luck and expectations. It's never just happened for us.

We went to a swingers club and place wasn't great and this killed our confidence. We're just looking for a club now to just have a few drinks. And if we want to do something then we will, if not we happy to drink and socialiZe.

Are we asking too much? We're very new, so trying to find a bi female to teach Mrs IC is so rare.

Any advice appreciated.

Luv

IC.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We are fairly new to the scene too, we found the clubs to be a far better option to finding people to meet than her. Which clubs have you tried?

Also please remember you are seeking the much fabled single bi female or Unicorn as they are sometimes known.

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

We just attended a club in Ireland. Nothing special. We now however live in UK. Where there seems to be more options.

Yea we are now aware how rare these woman are. But.. alas we will keep trying

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

As newbies we recommend Chameleons (Chams) as a club to go to. Great atmosphere, amazing staff and really friendly people.

Good luck in your search...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

So we've been on this site a long time now. We have mixed socially with swingers on a few occasions. But between bad luck and expectations. It's never just happened for us.

We went to a swingers club and place wasn't great and this killed our confidence. We're just looking for a club now to just have a few drinks. And if we want to do something then we will, if not we happy to drink and socialiZe.

Are we asking too much? We're very new, so trying to find a bi female to teach Mrs IC is so rare.

Any advice appreciated.

Luv

IC."

Hi, we've been to Angel's a few times and always had a great time there.

Really nice friendly place.

I don't think it's the closest club to you but we recommend it.

If you'd like to pick our brains feel free to get in touch.

M

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Chams looks fun alright.

Might have to look into it.

We'd like to go to a place without feeling people are out of our league. confidence as I said is low. But we will have fun

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Well if you do want to go and want to meet someone there just drop us a line. We love meeting new people and can certainly enjoy a drink together if nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it would appeal but there's a fairly local social that goes on the ones in 13th Jan a lot of the people who go to pop to Kestrels on a Sunday and use other clubs.

The profile that organises it is Heathrow Social

Maybe a good way of chatting to people and getting reviews etc. usually a friendly bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chams looks fun alright.

Might have to look into it.

We'd like to go to a place without feeling people are out of our league. confidence as I said is low. But we will have fun "

You'd do alright at Chams and it an easy drive from our area they do rooms to if you wanted to stay over night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We kinda had the same problem at first. But most clubs were more than welcoming.

We especially liked xstasia in Birmingham (outskirts) as for us personally it'S a great club. And the owners are really friendly and welcoming.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kestrel's at Heathrow is a nice place to go in the daytimes. Hope you find what you're seeking

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Kestrel's at Heathrow is a nice place to go in the daytimes. Hope you find what you're seeking "

Or abfab Saturday night might suit you too.

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By *rishCouple2k OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Yea I've heard a lot about abfabs.

Seems good fun and a lot of beginners seen to go there too.

Wonder would it be easier to just find a gay female instead of a hi female. Just for Mrs IC to have her fun. Hmmm

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

+1 for AbFabs for newbies. It's where we broke our swingers club virginity and we've met some really great people there since we started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to chams and find it far easier to meet people there than off this site. It's relaxed and friendly, I'm a fuller figured lady but never felt anything but accepted and welcomed.xx

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