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First meet is to be a cuck cpl!

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

I am close to arranging my first fab meet with a cuck cpl and to be honest.....am very nervous yet excited at the same time! Any advice would be gratefully received??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am close to arranging my first fab meet with a cuck cpl and to be honest.....am very nervous yet excited at the same time! Any advice would be gratefully received??"

Make sure you talk to them ahead of time about their expectations. It's about how you can enhance their experience.

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Thanks mate,will do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above . Every Cuck couple can be very different . For example me and the Mr play in a Hotwife scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previous poster was spot on. Talk.

While the definition of a Cuckold is a husband with an unfaithful wife... And this couple may be as simple as that... There are lots of other kinks that can be added by couples.

I have played with 3 cuck couples with a variety of kinks.

You could find this couple like: Dom/Sub games; sissification; chastity; creampies; humiliation; forced by.... Just as a start.

So in summary fully talk about what the Cuckoldry means to them.

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By *avid and juneCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Before meeting the couple you should, all three of you, agree on the ground rules. Different couples have different opinions about what cuckolding actually entails.

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

You have received sound advice. I always work on the principle you want them to repeat the experience with you & for you to become their regular fb. So talk & most importantly listen! If you don't it will go all wrong. Pleasure them & you will be pleasured at the same time. Good luck

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Thanks everyone! I have a sound starting point!

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Absolutely stick to the advice above..

Every cuckold couple and scenario is so different and want different things, lots of talking and setting boundaries etc

Above all remember it's for everyone's enjoyment and participation not just your own, whatever that dynamic maybe ensure all are included.

Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you new to the whole fab scene op?

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

I am new,and nervous too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace your nerves, it's all part of the excitement. Try to remember that no matter how well they may like you as a person, you're essentially a sex toy to enhance their feelings for each other (in most cases I've experienced).

Just be yourself, try not to worry, and follow their lead once you arrive.

Good luck

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

You guys are great! Just hope I can remember all this sound advice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace your nerves, it's all part of the excitement. Try to remember that no matter how well they may like you as a person, you're essentially a sex toy to enhance their feelings for each other (in most cases I've experienced).

Just be yourself, try not to worry, and follow their lead once you arrive.

Good luck "

Not all people want to go into massive details on what to expect.. The surprise is nice. Ask if there is anything they BOTH are specifically looking for and anything they really don't like. Then go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new,and nervous too!! "

You have jumped in at the deep end that's for sure. Hope you have fun

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

They were the first to get in touch and we have chatted a bit so let's see where it leads....if anywhere!!

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Don't hold your breath either. Don't be surprised if they back out or it's just the hubby fantasising. I always try to chat to the wife to ensure she exists & is happy with what's going on. Usually it goes all quiet at this moment & you never here from them again or occasionally it all works out. When it does it's fantastic. Good luck again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As _ita7 points out there us a possibility of a no show. Many times the husband has the fantasy and the wife us not on board. I've talked with several husbands that want my advice on how to get their wife into it. I can't do that. It is something they choose as a couple.

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By *otnew16 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Have phone number now,so they appear genuine!!

See where the conversation leads?

Thanks for all the advice.

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

How is it going? Making Progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The couple will know you are nervous so will they be but as soon as you get into the good stuff the nervous vanish. A met of any kind will always involve nerves but they dont last forever

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I am new,and nervous too!! "

Will you be announcing all your prospective meets in the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new,and nervous too!!

Will you be announcing all your prospective meets in the forum? "

It took a little while but we have the first smart comment of the thread. OP just ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new,and nervous too!!

Will you be announcing all your prospective meets in the forum? "

He's not announcing it he was asking for help .

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"I am close to arranging my first fab meet with a cuck cpl and to be honest.....am very nervous yet excited at the same time! Any advice would be gratefully received??"

There is no need to be nervous It's just sex after all.

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