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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Hey all iv been trying for so long to try and make my profile exciting but I don't seem to be getting anywhere on here I know my age may not help but could I get some help on how I can make it better please constructive/respectful criticism please thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right, your age will be an issue for some but you can't do anything about that (well you could lie but you'll get rumbled)

For me the pics are all a bit same-y, and I like to see a bit of skin - that doesn't necessarily mean cock though! One good face and full length pic would be better than loads of lesser quality ones.

Plus your text is too bland, it sounds like you're trying to appeal to everyone which usually makes you unappealing. What do you actually enjoy, what are you looking for, what can you offer? Don't just say licking pussy. You'll never be to everyone's taste so why not be upfront and save everyone time by making it clearer what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all iv been trying for so long to try and make my profile exciting but I don't seem to be getting anywhere on here I know my age may not help but could I get some help on how I can make it better please constructive/respectful criticism please thanks in advance "

You do know that the "I don't bite" line has been done to death?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mix up the pics man! The car ones can be consolidated down to one.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I agree your age is against you for this particular site. Us as a couple we wouldn't even know where to begin if we were to pursue you (that is if we were to ignore your age). You say you are looking for couples, so does that mean you are interested in threesomes? You can't accommodate, so where were you proposing to play? Your profile is too vague, and when I see vagueness in a single man's profile, I tend to think they are using this site because they think it's the key to easy sex. What is it you feel you can get from this site that you can't get elsewhere?

Mrs

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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"You're right, your age will be an issue for some but you can't do anything about that (well you could lie but you'll get rumbled)

For me the pics are all a bit same-y, and I like to see a bit of skin - that doesn't necessarily mean cock though! One good face and full length pic would be better than loads of lesser quality ones.

Plus your text is too bland, it sounds like you're trying to appeal to everyone which usually makes you unappealing. What do you actually enjoy, what are you looking for, what can you offer? Don't just say licking pussy. You'll never be to everyone's taste so why not be upfront and save everyone time by making it clearer what you want."

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Status is a major turn off. 'Open to all offers = desparate'

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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Yep I agree your age is against you for this particular site. Us as a couple we wouldn't even know where to begin if we were to pursue you (that is if we were to ignore your age). You say you are looking for couples, so does that mean you are interested in threesomes? You can't accommodate, so where were you proposing to play? Your profile is too vague, and when I see vagueness in a single man's profile, I tend to think they are using this site because they think it's the key to easy sex. What is it you feel you can get from this site that you can't get elsewhere?

Mrs"

Yes in my interests it does say that I'm interested in threesomes and if there was a connection then a place to play would be discussed then and I defiantly don't think it's the key to easy sex it's a lot harder than that and there is nowhere else with this kind of swinging community it's different on here

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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Thankyou all by the way and is my profile getting any better yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you've culled the pics a bit, but don't be negative and say you're not photogenic. Find time to get a couple that show off your best features, bum,thighs, bulging bicep, whatever.

Also still a bit vague, appreciate you're open to suggestions but still sounds a bit much like you'll take whatever you can get. What is top of your fantasy lists? I barely take any notice of the list of interests as lots of people just leave the entire list there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smiling or teasing picture could do wonders

But your age is a big no no

I know I know you want experience how do you get it if you can't get any

Patience

and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I agree your age is against you for this particular site. Us as a couple we wouldn't even know where to begin if we were to pursue you (that is if we were to ignore your age). You say you are looking for couples, so does that mean you are interested in threesomes? You can't accommodate, so where were you proposing to play? Your profile is too vague, and when I see vagueness in a single man's profile, I tend to think they are using this site because they think it's the key to easy sex. What is it you feel you can get from this site that you can't get elsewhere?

Mrs

Yes in my interests it does say that I'm interested in threesomes and if there was a connection then a place to play would be discussed then and I defiantly don't think it's the key to easy sex it's a lot harder than that and there is nowhere else with this kind of swinging community it's different on here "

One of the things we look for are men who are genuinely interested in threesomes. In our experience there are so many guys who tick the 'threesome' box on their profile, but in reality just want to have sex with a woman and will tolerate the husband being there if that's what it takes to get sex. So the husband gets marginalised. As a result we specifically look for men who show in their profile that it's the threesome they like, that they understand the dynamics of playing with an MF couple. Sometimes this is reflected in verifications. I would advise you to acknowledge on your profile that you would be happy to split hotel costs or meet in clubs. It shows you to be proactive, and not just another opportunistic man. As you have quite rightly discovered that it's very hard for single guys to get any success on the swing scene. But as you are persevering, you should make it reflect in your profile that you are here for the right reasons. Couples get very suspicious of single male profiles, simply because so many are chancing it to try and get sex. Try not to come across as if those guys.

Mrs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Try smiling and getting a variety of photos. Try being more specific about what you like and don't like and can offer. Like was said above, it reads like you're trying to appeal to everyone. If you do that, you'll appeal to no one.

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London


"Hey all iv been trying for so long to try and make my profile exciting but I don't seem to be getting anywhere on here I know my age may not help but could I get some help on how I can make it better please constructive/respectful criticism please thanks in advance "

Try to go to socials if and when you can. Meet real people, make contacts and just have a good time !

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

What is an "old school guy" ?

Sally

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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

A traditional gentleman not all this modern world of guys who have little respect for women is what I'd call an old school gent ahah

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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Thankyou all again all help is greatly appriciated I'll keep fine tuning

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks for the explanation.

Sally

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By *ysteryGent7 OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

That's alright your welcome and I think my profiles starting to come together abit now

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