FabSwingers.com forum: escorts have any couples used them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are considering using an escort,

Has any couples done this?

And if you did was it worth the money or not?.

Any advice would be helpful thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I was married I used several escort couples and they were great fun. We don't use escorts now but we are beginners and are only just starting to meet guys from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are tempted by this too.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Why would u want to pay someone n there's plenty of people on here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes like us but if any couples on here have used the service of an escort we would like to see if they enjoyed the experience?

Or they regretted doing so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a lack of unicorns unfortunately so were thinking of going down this route.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would u want to pay someone n there's plenty of people on here . "

So we don't get let down. We are in control of the situation. We can say when are where to fit around our schedule. And a lack of unicorns lol

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"We are considering using an escort,

Has any couples done this?

And if you did was it worth the money or not?.

Any advice would be helpful thanks."

Yes great fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather meet people that wanted to have sex with me, rather than having sex with people who were only there because they are being paid to have sex.

I don't have anything against it, just think it would maybe be too "cold" for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a past relationship we did to break us in as it were, that said we preferred a real meet, many escorts worth there saly have experience of swingers, some even accompany people to clubs!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I would rather meet people that wanted to have sex with me, rather than having sex with people who were only there because they are being paid to have sex.

I don't have anything against it, just think it would maybe be too "cold" for me."

I wonder of the novelty of playing with a couple would make any difference to a professional who let's be honest probably spends 95% of their time with a single guy.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Could I ask what is an unicorn please ??

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Could I ask what is an unicorn please ??"

Single female that plays with couples. Some say you have more chance of finding Kryptonite..

But its not true, you just have to mine differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could I ask what is an unicorn please ??

Single female that plays with couples. Some say you have more chance of finding Kryptonite..

But its not true, you just have to mine differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could I ask what is an unicorn please ??

Single female that plays with couples. Some say you have more chance of finding Kryptonite..

But its not true, you just have to mine differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could I ask what is an unicorn please ??

Single female that plays with couples. Some say you have more chance of finding Kryptonite..

But its not true, you just have to mine differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes twice, it was great the first time. Second time the escort was high on something and passed out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes twice, it was great the first time. Second time the escort was high on something and passed out."

Did you get a refund?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. She posted pictures of us on her AW profile as well, without permission.

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By *unguy78Man
over a year ago

landudno

"Nope. She posted pictures of us on her AW profile as well, without permission."

She sounds a delight!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine trainwreck. Had a video camera hidden on top of her wardrobe too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuine trainwreck. Had a video camera hidden on top of her wardrobe too."

She sounds like fun... you still have her number?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have been for the best then guys,, ( unless you paid)

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By *unguy78Man
over a year ago

landudno

"Genuine trainwreck. Had a video camera hidden on top of her wardrobe too."
asssume your trip advisor reviews were less than favourable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought of going to a club and playing with a lady while other party's watch?

Having a 4 some were the guys just watch.

Wish people wouldn't use unicorn for single women.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I'd like to point out there's NO shortage of single bi fems here, just a lack of willing single bi fems here to put on a show for a mans benefit or perform a 'service' to a couples requirement. We're on this site for our own pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather meet people that wanted to have sex with me, rather than having sex with people who were only there because they are being paid to have sex.

I don't have anything against it, just think it would maybe be too "cold" for me."

Totally true. Wouldn't ever want to be with someone who saw sex as a commercial transaction, timed the visit and in reality may not have any chemistry with you or even enjoy sex for that matter!

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we not getting the shock horror ,if op wanted a test drive a fast car round silverstone you would have to pay .top meal have to pay .ect .so why frown if they want a roll play female [or male].they could try a club on bi days .but would have to pay to get in and take a chance .escort garantes they get what they want .where they want how they want.good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine the experience would wholly be down to the escort that you picked. You may get lucky and have an incredible time or you may have a disaster. Personally it's not something we would try but each to their own. Suppose the only harm in trying is you would be relieved of a little cash.

I think the advice above about visiting a club is good advice. Pick a club on a busy night and go and see how you get on. Worse way even if you don't find a single lady you will still get to experience something unique. For us the thrill of being in a busy club with lots going on is hugely sexual. I bet afterwards even if u don't have success you will have great sex the two of you back at your home/hotel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guy's,

Like most thing's we choose in life there are pros and cons,but we've had some really positive feedback from couples who have used an escort,

We live in a small village about 40 miles from the nearest club so if we stayed in a hotel etc the cost would probably be about the same,

We've not decided yet but if we do you can read about it on here.thanks everyone for the advice some has been really helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met an escort with an old buddy on more than one occasion and always had great fun. Yes it's very much down to the girl you choose but he always used an agency and I think that ensures a certain degree of professionalism (not secretly videoing or turning up high etc)

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice guy's,

Like most thing's we choose in life there are pros and cons,but we've had some really positive feedback from couples who have used an escort,

We live in a small village about 40 miles from the nearest club so if we stayed in a hotel etc the cost would probably be about the same,

We've not decided yet but if we do you can read about it on here.thanks everyone for the advice some has been really helpful."

I think you will have great fun. There are sites you can use such as adult

Work

Dot

Com

Which list lots with reviews etc. I almost always enjoyed meeting escorts but we meet on here now.

Except maybe my wife is sending me out for something kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to point out there's NO shortage of single bi fems here, just a lack of willing single bi fems here to put on a show for a mans benefit or perform a 'service' to a couples requirement. We're on this site for our own pleasure

I am certainly not on here to putnon any show.for a.man's benefit or service a couple...no chance. Like you I'm on here for my own pleasure and a bit of escapism

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone has a different reason why they joined fab,

I've read enough couples profiles where they've stated how much they love watching their partners fucking someone else ie putting on a show,

So is there a difference because it's girl on girl other than couple swapping in the same room? Either way its still being watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive played with couples when the hubby likes to watch. It can tend to feel like being an escort, turning up at a set time performing. Not allowed to kiss her, all so very cold. But they get it for free, infact it costs me in terms of fule a bottle of what ever condoms ect. So what is the difference, if you want to pay them pay. Your not hurting anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *hropscouple27Couple
over a year ago

Sth Staffs

"Thought of going to a club and playing with a lady while other party's watch?

Having a 4 some were the guys just watch.

Wish people wouldn't use unicorn for single women.

I agree, never liked that term either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. She posted pictures of us on her AW profile as well, without permission."

Well that is out of order

Most escorts are like robots

Only know one that treats every meet like its for real

Most are robots

The girl we know was from your area and amazing

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I was asked in a one line message by a genuine well verified coupe to go to their hotel for some fun in the middle of the night last night. Seriously I wish more couples would consider the use of escorts and not make us single women here feel like bloody service providers. I know it's not Thursday yet but grrr

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Nope. She posted pictures of us on her AW profile as well, without permission.

Well that is out of order

Most escorts are like robots

Only know one that treats every meet like its for real

Most are robots

The girl we know was from your area and amazing "
I wouldn't say that. I know a few and they're really bright, funny and down to earth.

It's been a sort of fantasy of mine, so would be interested to know how it works out

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

we have used an escort to make up a mff

great time was had

but i think think the younger escorts who say they are bi are in it for the money

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I was asked in a one line message by a genuine well verified coupe to go to their hotel for some fun in the middle of the night last night. Seriously I wish more couples would consider the use of escorts and not make us single women here feel like bloody service providers. I know it's not Thursday yet but grrr

Sadly a lot of couples see it as an "entitlement" (to single women). As one posted on the forum some months back "Couples and Single women, that's what swinging is about, none of this single man rubbish". Funny thing was it was the male that posted, so I responded with best wishes he and his missus didn't split up, or he'd end up that which he so hated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are so 100% correct.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I'd say it ruins it for decent couples, but the ability to construct a sentence must surely make decent couples stand out? One liners rarely get a reply from us whoever they're from.

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By *ighorn2006Man
over a year ago

Ceredigion / N France

Well despite the hundreds of blokes on here, there's a shortage ?

Well I'm a unicorn, non pushy, no fees and would do my utmost to fit around the couples needs & availability. Also willing to travel reasonable distances.

Yes I could count the number of couples I've met on this site with a fingerless hand ! Nil, zero, none.

Hence no longer a paying member.

The Forums amuse me though

Merry Christmas

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I'd say it ruins it for decent couples, but the ability to construct a sentence must surely make decent couples stand out? One liners rarely get a reply from us whoever they're from.

The ability to construct a decent message makes anyone stand out, including couples and single guys. I judge everyone's message the same whoever it's from. Sadly that's lacking in 9 out of 10 I receive and I have high filters so hate to think the crap those with lesser filters get!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. She posted pictures of us on her AW profile as well, without permission.

Well that is out of order

Most escorts are like robots

Only know one that treats every meet like its for real

Most are robots

The girl we know was from your area and amazing I wouldn't say that. I know a few and they're really bright, funny and down to earth.

It's been a sort of fantasy of mine, so would be interested to know how it works out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks if we do decide to go down this route we will let you know how it goes,

Hope you all have a great Xmas and a happy new year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did and was very nice experience will do it again? Yes but same escort probably

Won't choose someone without a fair amount of feedbacks and a decent profile too and double checking about 'extra charges' (then is a no no )

Apparently been lucky as everyone enjoyed

The rest of story should be posted on stories forum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have considered getting an escort too. Purely because we would like to meet an attractive female to satisfy my bi fantasy...

I did call up an agency one night after a few glasses of wine haha we haven't looked into it since... I guess so feel weird about it.

Although apart from the exchange of money, is it really any different to meeting a woman on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have considered getting an escort too. Purely because we would like to meet an attractive female to satisfy my bi fantasy...

I did call up an agency one night after a few glasses of wine haha we haven't looked into it since... I guess so feel weird about it.

Although apart from the exchange of money, is it really any different to meeting a woman on here?? "

Same as us. We haven't used an escort yet but will consider it seriously if we can't find the right person for a particular scene we have in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bi woman; a guide:

Single bi woman are everywhere. They have jobs, and friends, some even like to socialise too. Single bi woman can vote and some even learn to drive, clever little things. Next time you think you have seen one, be sure to pat them on the head and pay small compliments. When talking to one, remember to retain eye contact, and nod when they are talking, this will show you are listening and valuing their opinions.

If you find one broken down on the side of the road, pull over and offer to help. You may find it useful to keep some sandwiches and a flask of soup within easy reach as they may have been waiting for a few hours.

Should a single bi woman show some interest, try not to immediately ask for her "to put on a show, to get things going". Some find this a triffle off putting". Also try to avoid the second question being "do you do anal", this can be considered somewhat forward. Instead gently lead the question towards likely common interests such as knitting, flower arranging, or pastry dishes.

Most of all be kind, considerate, and remember, touching without asking could be misconstrued as being a bit rapey, and noone likes a sex offender, except other inmates on Q wing.

Good luck.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

i do escort work and also used escorts. xxx

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"i do escort work and also used escorts. xxx

Nice to see an opinion from a worker to be fair. Easy on the eye too

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By *ortunesCouple
over a year ago

kendal

We are looking to use an escorts, as above for a particular Cuckqueen scenario, it seems an easy way to be able to have a single lady come to us exactly when we want and fit in with our requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a lack of unicorns unfortunately so were thinking of going down this route."

How derogatory!

Surely you mean bi fems? And there is no lack of them, I would say more a lack of appropriate couples

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford

"We are considering using an escort,

Has any couples done this?

And if you did was it worth the money or not?.

Any advice would be helpful thanks."

I used ( still do) a focus. Is automatic but brilliant. And is quite economic too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are considering using an escort,

Has any couples done this?

And if you did was it worth the money or not?.

Any advice would be helpful thanks.

I used ( still do) a focus. Is automatic but brilliant. And is quite economic too.

I was waiting for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I would say more a lack of appropriate couples

The inconvenient truth behind these posts, is that there are lots of single females, single guys, & couples enjoying themselves in all manner of scenarios. Those that cannot find what they are seeking rarely look at themselves as ask what it is they could do differently, especially in terms of what do they need to give to others to help fulfill their own fantasies and desires.

Very often people suggest going to socials, clubs, and events. This requires planning, dressing to impress, socialising, discovering other people's needs, and interacting in a reciprocal manner. And then is possible to maybe and it is only maybe be involved in something approaching what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I would say more a lack of appropriate couples

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

Many moons ago I ( mr ) visited a male escort to pop my bi cherry, was a very very good experience! And much more discreet than a random guy from a gay dating site.

The Mrs and I have discussed hiring a female escort to pop her bi cherry. Nothing wrong with it and I think the easy option for first time experience

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