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Verification Dos and Don'ts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell me...am I the only guy who thinks that you sound like a complete moron if, when you verify a woman, you say that she 'looked/sucked/fucked like a porn star'?

I notice that it's mostly 20 and 30 year old guys who say that, or variations thereof...is my generation so devoid of finesse or class?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To say someone sounds like a complete moron when they say such things in a veri is a bit harsh . They wouldn't have written it if they didn't think it was their opinion , and the recipient wouldn't show it if they thought everyone would see the writer of it as a complete moron .

Not everyone is blessed with the ability to write in such a way that someone somewhere won't want to have a dig .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're so excited to have had a shag plus their brain isn't working properly due to lack of blood flow to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My point is, pornstars only look/suck/fuck like that in the movies...they're performing for the audience and following a script.

So if you say of a woman 'she fucked like a pornstar,' you're basically saying, 'she was a great actress, but there wasn't a real connection.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is, pornstars only look/suck/fuck like that in the movies...they're performing for the audience and following a script.

So if you say of a woman 'she fucked like a pornstar,' you're basically saying, 'she was a great actress, but there wasn't a real connection.'"

That may be true , but if it's just a great session the analogy is fine . Plenty of people would love a meet like that , us included . Perhaps it is all a game , and the sex is a performance ?

Nothing wrong with that , and veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us "

That may be true, but in my experience, it's not an analogy to which most women take kindly...

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us

That may be true, but in my experience, it's not an analogy to which most women take kindly..."

Then surely they wouldn't display it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us

That may be true, but in my experience, it's not an analogy to which most women take kindly..."

It depends how big their ego is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us

That may be true, but in my experience, it's not an analogy to which most women take kindly...

It depends how big their ego is "

And possibly how low their self-esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point, porn stars and their fake orgasms...

However, I think we all know what the people who write comments like this actually mean by it and how they intend for it to be interpreted. So, I don't expect that most of us take the wording as literally as your interpretation.

Have a nice Sunday!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit harsh. OP. It's just a figure of speech. Sometimes the "porn experience" is fun. That is why we are here, for fun...... isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us

That may be true, but in my experience, it's not an analogy to which most women take kindly...

It depends how big their ego is

And possibly how low their self-esteem"

That too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gushing like.Niagara is another cheesy term

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Personally I wouldn't write veris like that but for some fab and swinging are a chance to let go of inhibitions and for some role playing the part of the slut/pornstar/having their sexual prowess biggest up is part of that.

Besides as noted above its up to the individual to choose whether or not to display a veri or keep it hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"veris written as you described would be a positive for some of us

That may be true, but in my experience, it's not an analogy to which most women take kindly...

Then surely they wouldn't display it ?"

This. I don't tend to display the graphic ones.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've never had a veri that states I 'looked/sucked/fucked like a porn star', because I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/12/16 09:38:49]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sucks like a dyson" (other vacuum cleaners are available)

Just makes me think....here's a guy who shoves his cock up Hoover pipes! Otherwise how could he compare?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good point, porn stars and their fake orgasms...

However, I think we all know what the people who write comments like this actually mean by it and how they intend for it to be interpreted. So, I don't expect that most of us take the wording as literally as your interpretation.

Have a nice Sunday!

Ruby"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She took my big cock well.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe I'm a bit unusual but I like to use verifications as a way to talk about what kind of atmosphere/dynamic we enjoyed, and how other potential playmates could get on their good side, rather than We Did A Real Good Sex On Her

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"She took my big cock well.

"

LOL, if there's one thing worse than an over-explicit verification, it's one where the verifier is in fact verifying his own sexual prowess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The over-the-top emphatic ones always remind me of eBay feedback:

"OUTSTANDING EBAYER, EXCELLENT, A PLEASURE TO DEAL WITH A++++ WOULD DEAL WITH AGAIN"

Alright mate calm down, all I did was buy a t-shirt off you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The over-the-top emphatic ones always remind me of eBay feedback:

"OUTSTANDING EBAYER, EXCELLENT, A PLEASURE TO DEAL WITH A++++ WOULD DEAL WITH AGAIN"

Alright mate calm down, all I did was buy a t-shirt off you..."

That really made me smile.

I don't like when people leave explicitly detailed veris... yes i might have done that with you, but I don't necessarily want all of fab knowing about it.

I like to leave the kind of veris that i'd also like to receive - confirmation that we met, if i'd meet them again etc. That's all i look for in a veri - proof that they're genuine. After all, what pushes one person's buttons might be a complete turn off for another, so intimate detail really isn't necessary.

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