FabSwingers.com forum: What is it that women want?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all you happy swingers, just to ask what is it you women actually look for, iv been hear for almost a year and met one female, iv chatted, iv invited to go on social meets and im into most things, i get told by a friend on here im good looking but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all look for different things

You won't be everyone's cup of tea and neither will we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're under 6ft, no 6pack,not hung like a donkey then 95% of fab won't be interested

The other 5% however

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

OP, no offence but you shouldn't generalise about women.

Each of them ( like us...)has her own preferences: alpha males, sub males, no males...and so on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No i dont mean to cause offence to anyone if i have i apologies just simply asking the question. I get what you are saying but here for almost a year i have friendly chats with people looking for either what i can offer/Help with or what im into also , but for somereason no meet ?

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

The ratio men/women gives few opportunities. You seem attractive and polite, but also unexperienced.

In my humble opinion, you could consider the following:

-Make a shorter and clearer profile. Little details can be explained in further chats

- Search for outstanding pictures. One clear and suggestive as main pic (no cock...).

- Be creative and different.

-Move in social and clubs circles

-But above all, be patience...

Good luck, my friend

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can tell you what I want but that's no use to you at all. I can't tell you what other women want though.

The truth is that its difficult for young single men on fab to get meets because they vastly outnumber women. Not because they all want the same thing and you just need to find out what that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wont like this comment but for some i think it could be your age. You will be younger than lots of peoples own children

Submissive puppy play is also a rather niche kink

Good luck on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be charmed

Seduce my mind

Honest gentleman

Looks after himself

Then the possibilities are endless

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By *appy2chatmeetMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Think it's best to go on a club or Social meet if you want to get to know other swingers.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

No many people in brierleyhill who would like a guy to act like a puppy .... plenty of dogs there though ..... good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them would prefer to be referred to as 'ladies' rather than 'females'

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By *all and ChainWoman
over a year ago

Truro

To reply to the OP's original question...

The answer is "fried snow".

You now have 2 choices in life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're quite cute looking by too young is probably what puts most people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handbags and shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard BDSM.

But not all women will want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely everybody likes different things other wise the world would be boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all you happy swingers, just to ask what is it you women actually look for, iv been hear for almost a year and met one female, iv chatted, iv invited to go on social meets and im into most things, i get told by a friend on here im good looking but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want."

OP I am pretty sure that what you are looking for is definitely classed as a niche market, it has nothing to do with being more attractive/hung/taller/older than the next person...

have you tried looking on fet sites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look to break men.

I'm talking a sobbing broken heap where a man once stood.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

"If you're under 6ft, no 6pack,not hung like a donkey then 95% of fab won't be interested

The other 5% however

I do like a tall man as I'm tall myself. But I don't want a six pack or a massive cock. I am picky though. Just in other ways. Which is good news for all the geeks out there. I just love a geeky man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look to break men.

I'm talking a sobbing broken heap where a man once stood.

Are you still using the chainsaw and mincer in your foreplay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate. Curlywurlys are popular.

And cake! Never underestimate the power of cake (only trouble is, it isn't only the lady Fabbers that are attracted to it!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look to break men.

I'm talking a sobbing broken heap where a man once stood.

Are you still using the chainsaw and mincer in your foreplay?

I'm way beyond that now

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I like to meet guys in Clubs.

If I'm interested on here I will generally be looking for someone who seems to have a sense of humour, who is between 33-49 years old (allegedly!), 5'8" to 6'1" tall and who is slim'ish. Don't go for beards or beer bellies. Don't go for stupid site names, not overly interested in the size of a guys dick. Will look at veri's and tend to see where they have posted on the forum.

In many ways I use the forum's as a filter. Guys who get in touch without reading our profile and who do the 'how are you' line get binned, as do friends requests without chatting or meeting.

In a Club many of the above rules apply, but amuse me, be interesting and I can ignore my rules any time I want!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Chocolate. Curlywurlys are popular.

And cake! Never underestimate the power of cake (only trouble is, it isn't only the lady Fabbers that are attracted to it!)"

I do love a curly wurly and sex, really really hot steamy sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for your advice i appreciate it, however iv done or tried most of what you say and doesnt work. Also people tell me to be patient , i have been for a year , theres so much i want to try/Explore but no luck. Maybe a sex change would work lol i see loads of women looking for same sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to everyone for your advice i appreciate it, however iv done or tried most of what you say and doesnt work. Also people tell me to be patient , i have been for a year , theres so much i want to try/Explore but no luck. Maybe a sex change would work lol i see loads of women looking for same sex. "

Go to clubs. Meet people in person. Get out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the majority of women on this site prefer men a bit older than yourself, and there isn't much you can do about that. However it's normally quite easy for a goodlooking guy your age to find sex, so I wouldn't worry too much.

Mrs

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

"We all look for different things "

so true

you could end up more confused than ever asking that

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By *limandtrim300Couple
over a year ago

Ely

"OP, no offence but you shouldn't generalise about women.

Each of them ( like us...)has her own preferences: alpha males, sub males, no males...and so on."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree. We all are different, the same as you guys.

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

" but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, ."

it's not all about looks that makes someone attractive

" it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want."
it may look easy but that's quite often an illusion work goes into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handbags and shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Handbags and shoes"

The swing scene is just an excuse to buy nice shoes and handbags!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

You seem to understand perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Handbags and shoes

The swing scene is just an excuse to buy nice shoes and handbags!

Going on Holiday also

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Handbags and shoes"

Wrong snoozefest

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Sounds like you're looking for a magic bullet. That bullet will get you ONE woman and one woman only. The word nuance springs to mind. You could have exactly the same conversation with two different women and get complexly different results. (Yes, I actually did this.)

My advice? Find a woman you like then find out what SHE likes. I hope you don't ask what I think you're going to ask...

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