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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very new to this website recommended by a friend. Is there something im not doing or does it take time to meet people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could come back when you lose the chirpy "boxing" stance?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Very new to this website recommended by a friend. Is there something im not doing or does it take time to meet people ?"
Yes op, you've not made a profile or uploaded decent pictures

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By *en1975Man
over a year ago

Tamworth

Travel or accom would help, as it appears you do neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe the ladies aren't enamoured by your 2-word profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two weeks in dude........ It takes time..... But you're young and fit, it shouldn't be too difficult......!

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

You need to put more effort into your profile, a two word sentence is not going to encourage anyone to want to meet you, take a look at other profiles and see what makes them interesting, there are lots of single makes out there with excellent profiles who still struggle to get meets. 3 weeks is to soon to expect to get a meet but i wish you luck.

k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you seriously think your profile will attract ladies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys all taken on board making changes soon as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh when this question is asked. Surely OP you've read other profiles so at least get some idea of what a profile requires. Look at the ones that have verifications of actual meets.

ps. Your profile pic is almost as bad as a generic cock pic.

MrsJ x

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Two weeks is not long, being a smelly smoker will limit the number of people interested in you.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Two weeks is not long, being a smelly smoker will limit the number of people interested in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very new to this website recommended by a friend. Is there something im not doing or does it take time to meet people ?"

You joined 2 weeks ago . You're 25 . You can't accommodate . You only wish to meet single women . You'll do far better trying to pull in Tescos than here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Two weeks is not long, being a smelly smoker will limit the number of people interested in you. "

Plus us older women are not hear to teach things. We're here for our own reasons.

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By *XMandMXxCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Sounds like you may have more joy on Plenty of Fish

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"Very new to this website recommended by a friend. Is there something im not doing or does it take time to meet people ?

You joined 2 weeks ago . You're 25 . You can't accommodate . You only wish to meet single women . You'll do far better trying to pull in Tescos than here "

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell


"You could come back when you lose the chirpy "boxing" stance?"

That's the best photo !

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well you must have updated the profile based on the advice, so well done.

Try to get meet verified from a social or going to a club, that will help lots.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that the new profile?

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Is that the new profile? "

Yes, the first one had two words on it! It does read better now but needs more work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two weeks is not long, being a smelly smoker will limit the number of people interested in you. "

Strange how he's now listed as a non smoker. Your words obviously inspired him to quit immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What were your expectations OP and how did your friend describe it. Generally interested to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could come back when you lose the chirpy "boxing" stance?"

Ha ha ha ha

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Two weeks is not long, being a smelly smoker will limit the number of people interested in you.

Strange how he's now listed as a non smoker. Your words obviously inspired him to quit immediately "

No point lying about it either as non smokers are always really sensitive to the odour and can spot it a mile away regardless of how many mints you use etc the smells embedded in finger tips, you can still taste it on the tongue and it makes cum taste bitter, if the smokers regularly smoke inside their home you can smell it in the walls/furniture and even on clean washed clothes, the odour carries and gets everywhere.

I'm not averse to meeting smokers as long as they're respectful of the fact I don't whilst in my company but I can always tell. Even know if they're people that vape the odours and different taste is still mildly present even in 0% nicotine fluids.

It's weird to explain as the only people that can usually relate are other non smokers/vapers or people that have quit both for a good length of time. My mam and dad were heavy smokers when younger shut quit before they had me and now say they can't believe how disgusting they used to smell even when "clean"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could come back when you lose the chirpy "boxing" stance?"

yep that would help him a lot .its a swingers site not fight club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that the new profile?

Yes, the first one had two words on it! It does read better now but needs more work.

"

We would have hated to see the first one!

Do these young guys think it is so easy on here that a couple of words and photos will get them a fuck?

You are right though, it still needs lots of work.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The smoking / non smoking situation was a bit iffy. Potential sex meets will read all this forum and know.

If you're on a swinging site then your boxing stance needs not to show a defensive stance but a wild left hook swing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If thats a genuine comment thank you appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not a full time smoker i have occassional cigarette socially if im out. Listed myself as a smoker for that reason but when i was told it could be an issue changed it as im not actually a smoker on day to day basis. Im not here to fool anyone just finding myself. Apolgies if thats how it seems

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I'd add a photo of what's on offer too, not everyone's want a dick pic admittedly but lets face it it's what we are here for so i think there should be one included in people's profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send loads of random cock pictures out then get all shitty when the recipient doesn't reply.

Obviously must work well for some fellas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

apparently guaranteed failure isnt it lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" apparently guaranteed failure isnt it lol ? "

So got to ask you this OP.

What do you think of the quality of your own profile?

You think it is informative? Think it shows intelligence and lots of effort?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As ive said im new to this im not the most prolific writer when it comes to talkin about myself. Just want to meet some new people and of anything comes of it so be it. Was strongly recommended to try this site but maybe its not for me ? Who knows. But Thank you all for advice etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a club, Xtasia would be ideal if you're in Brum. Saturday night you'd have a fairly good chance of pulling.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


" apparently guaranteed failure isnt it lol ? "

Use 'reply+quote' or we can't tell what you are replying to !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" apparently guaranteed failure isnt it lol ?

Use 'reply+quote' or we can't tell what you are replying to !"

Told you im new lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try a club, Xtasia would be ideal if you're in Brum. Saturday night you'd have a fairly good chance of pulling."

Ill check it out one night thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a club, Xtasia would be ideal if you're in Brum. Saturday night you'd have a fairly good chance of pulling."

Are you sure single guys are allowed in on Saturday nights?

Best to check first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very new to this website recommended by a friend. Is there something im not doing or does it take time to meet people ?

You joined 2 weeks ago . You're 25 . You can't accommodate . You only wish to meet single women . You'll do far better trying to pull in Tescos than here "

HAHAHAHA OH MY WORD GOLDEN!!

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