FabSwingers.com forum: Would you or wouldn't you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Afternoon all.

I've bin on good old fab for a few months now and chatted to a few nice lady's but it never seems to go anywhere. So my question is would you or wouldn't you..... ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all.

I've bin on good old fab for a few months now and chatted to a few nice lady's but it never seems to go anywhere. So my question is would you or wouldn't you..... ????

Sorry, no I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok but why ??

Don't get me wrong I no I'm not the prettiest fish in the see and half the time I need a shave but if you never chat how can you deside from a picture ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok but why ??

Don't get me wrong I no I'm not the prettiest fish in the see and half the time I need a shave but if you never chat how can you deside from a picture ? "

We can't give profile advice unless you ask for it.

Thems the rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok how can I improve my profile ??

Open to all suggestions but say just delete profile is just rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too far away

Too young

Too short

Too hairy

And you share your name with the only person on this planet that I hate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To young ??? All the other I get as it's not for everyone and I was think the profile names not the best

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I wouldn't ...

Ultimatly swinging is about the sex and Wether you have a social first or play on a first meet to even get messages going in the first place there has to be something you find attractive from the initial pictures or profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To young ??? All the other I get as it's not for everyone and I was think the profile names not the best "

I like older men. Preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see thanks for the input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't. Physically you're not my type so I wouldn't be interested in chatting...it would be a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok how can I improve my profile ??

Open to all suggestions but say just delete profile is just rude "

The reason that I would not engage in contact with you is because I know nothing about you. There are plenty of informative profiles for me to engage with.

Yours? You just say it is a waste of time filling it in.

You do know that people will look at your profile before deciding whether to engage with you?

On a personal note - and please do not take offence as none is intended - I don't like beards. If I did I think I might still perceive your look as a bit scruffy. Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't, I'm not attracted (sorry) too short and too hairy plus definitely too far away

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

It's a no from me. Sorry just not my type x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No offence taken.

Well for the profile it was a lot better but was still in the same situation so I got ride of it maybe I should put something a bit better then what I've got on there.

And I hate my bread as well but being a lumber jake a working out side all the time it keep my face a little warmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok but why ??

Don't get me wrong I no I'm not the prettiest fish in the see and half the time I need a shave but if you never chat how can you deside from a picture ? "

You see, this is one of the reasons why a lot of women / couples don't send a 'no thanks' reply to messages.

What difference does it make?

If someone's not interested, they're not interested. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not looking for single men so it is a no from us. But if we were then we would check out a profile first but yours does not really say anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sorry. First thing I read is negative so I checked out rapidly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't got killer looks or a killer body so you need a killer profile.

Simple.

Welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't be my type, sorry OP. But fab women/couples have a variety of preferences. I'm certain you will be perfect for some on here. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry op there's plenty that like short guys on fab. Search wisely and you're find them

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By *edylogosMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"To young ??? All the other I get as it's not for everyone and I was think the profile names not the best

I like older men. Preference "

How much older?

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By *icked_tongueMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"To young ??? All the other I get as it's not for everyone and I was think the profile names not the best

I like older men. Preference "

But unfortunately you only meet in clubs which is your choice I know,but such a shame because I don't do clubs but genuinely interested in meeting though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the suggestion think i will have to add a little something to the profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the suggestion think i will have to add a little something to the profile then "

You can't change you're height. Looks etc. Just look at successful guys on fab. Same height etc and read there profiles look at the pictures etc and put you're own mark on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all.

I've bin on good old fab for a few months now and chatted to a few nice lady's but it never seems to go anywhere. So my question is would you or wouldn't you..... ????

No , you're too young , too straight , too far and to not our type - everyone has a type

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

No. too short and not my type but I love beards.

Do with your physical appearance what you are happy with, don't try to please everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is 5ft 8 that short ??

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Is 5ft 8 that short ??"

Two inches shorter than me. The info is there in my profile.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"I wouldn't. Physically you're not my type so I wouldn't be interested in chatting...it would be a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I best get the stretching machine out make myself taller

Thanks for all the imput much appreciated let's hope the future improvements help

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It's a no from me, a bit scruffy, I love a nice face and smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry dude the one that say no your not my type are unlucky.

Look arent everything i got told that then met a cpl in a club that had said no but gave me a chance and they changed there mind we had alot of fun.

Some people need to be a bit more open minded.

Looks are skin deep personality is more.

Less vain pal chin up move on there are some nice people on here hope you get to meet them

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP your height wouldn't be an issue for me bit it's still a no.

I always read profiles first.

In my opinion if someone doesn't make an effort with their profile i wonder will they actually make an effort with a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is 5ft 8 that short ??"

Lol, your profile says 5' 9"!! I'm not bothered about height, but I am bothered about personality, and at the moment yours reads negatively. There's a definite "student" look going on too, which may appeal to some, but not to me. You also state you're a non smoker but have 420 in your profile name...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I best get the stretching machine out make myself taller

Thanks for all the imput much appreciated let's hope the future improvements help "

Or better still concentrate on the fabbers who's preferences you do match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope from me way too young and too far

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Is 5ft 8 that short ??

He's changed it to five nine since my last post and great spot on the 420, I missed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that comes across from your profile is negativity..... how could that possibly attract anyone?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

The lack of profile information puts me off along with the "can't be bothered " look

I think if you can't make an effort on the site would you bother I really life!

I'm not into hairy anyway but even if can appreciate a groomed man over the student look

Sorry I'd walk on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but no

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all.

I've bin on good old fab for a few months now and chatted to a few nice lady's but it never seems to go anywhere. So my question is would you or wouldn't you..... ????

NO so sorry I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look arent everything"

Lokks are about 90% of first impressions for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But we are shallow, so its a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope - but no single man gets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope - but no single man gets me "

My hubby thinks you and I would look good writhing about together... Just had to say that sorry...!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks lady's and gents so good point there think it time for a revamp of the profile then.

And those who spot the height thing and the 420 I did just have a quick measure with my tape measure so not 100% on that one

And yes I may smoke a little of you no what but it's a social thing I don't some it my day to day activity but these no social smoker to choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all.

I've bin on good old fab for a few months now and chatted to a few nice lady's but it never seems to go anywhere. So my question is would you or wouldn't you..... ????

we wouldn't - no - because we only meet in swingers clubs - m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks lady's and gents so good point there think it time for a revamp of the profile then.

And those who spot the height thing and the 420 I did just have a quick measure with my tape measure so not 100% on that one

And yes I may smoke a little of you no what but it's a social thing I don't some it my day to day activity but these no social smoker to choose "

The problem is OP, putting it as your username, may make some think you are more than a social smoker... I know I assumed that when I saw your username.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right new info up what do you all thing ?? ?? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right new info up what do you all thing ?? ?? ??"

Agh. I hate to be brutal.

It is very badly spelled and really doesn't say anything of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would to fab minx but not you op sorry ??

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Right new info up what do you all thing ?? ?? ??

Agh. I hate to be brutal.

It is very badly spelled and really doesn't say anything of interest."

Yup. Pick one good face picture and use that. Change your smoking status, nobody like liars and find out how tall you are, it's important to some people.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I think your pics are odd angles that do you no justice. Bad lighting also. Try black and white. Set a timer if you can. Have fun photo shopping your pics slightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I going mad, I'm sure you were 25 before???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No pipin always bin 30 last time I looked and do you realy thing I look 25 ??

And I no spelling bad it's just one of those things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pipin always bin 30 last time I looked and do you realy thing I look 25 ??

And I no spelling bad it's just one of those things "

It's a no from me

1. Spelling does matter shows you take the time and care

2. Profile says you are looking for friendship. This is a site for people looking to fuck. Not find pen pals.

3. Pictures don't do anything for you.

4. The way you look ( looking after yourself) also says how you will treat a lady

5. Accept not interested

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

swinging is not just about fucking each other's brain out which don't get me wrong is great but some time a good chat between mutual Freind is just as good as for the SAY WHAT YOU WONT TO DO WITH A LADY well I'm not that type of guy I no no profile is shit but I'm not going out I won't the fuck the shit out of someone on my profile that's not the way I was show how to treat a lady and I can't help the spelling just one of those thing don't be such a gramma nazi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And red unicorn if you going be a grammar nazi make sure there no mistake on your own profile

and I agreed that body is way to nice abuse

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would normal pass by a profile like yours the 420 gets a no from me I'm afraid the drugs reference doesn't do it for me so maybe something to consider along with the other improvements that are realistically suggested.

I'm not antidrugs and if you want to do that just on your own time make sure that you are straight headed and smelling fresh for meets. But like I said the 420 gives a stoner air to your profile and stoners tend to be lazy when they are mullered. We dont always wanna be thrown around the bedroom but quite expect for our chosen meets to be attentive.

What you do on your own time is your own business but it doesn't need putting out there so instantly for snap judgements and yes us women are fickle there's huge competition against you out there

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"swinging is not just about fucking each other's brain out which don't get me wrong is great but some time a good chat between mutual Freind is just as good as for the SAY WHAT YOU WONT TO DO WITH A LADY well I'm not that type of guy I no no profile is shit but I'm not going out I won't the fuck the shit out of someone on my profile that's not the way I was show how to treat a lady and I can't help the spelling just one of those thing don't be such a gramma nazi "

She politely told you that it's an issue and gets an insult back. Not good.

All decent people realise that spelling, grammar and punctuation is something some struggle with it. There are simple ways to get it checked and improved on a computer though. There isn't an excuse really.

In an ideal world, it wouldn't matter, but women have to wade through hundreds of profiles on here. They are very likely to gravitate towards those which are easily readable as a result. It's the way it is and taking simple steps improves chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And red unicorn if you going be a grammar nazi make sure there no mistake on your own profile

and I agreed that body is way to nice abuse

;-) "

Thanks for the heads up about the grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our opinion, this thread is a typical example of why couples do not answer when they want to say no.

The answer to this question is a simple yes or no.

Then the 'why nots' start.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks lady's and gents so good point there think it time for a revamp of the profile then.

And those who spot the height thing and the 420 I did just have a quick measure with my tape measure so not 100% on that one

And yes I may smoke a little of you no what but it's a social thing I don't some it my day to day activity but these no social smoker to choose

The problem is OP, putting it as your username, may make some think you are more than a social smoker... I know I assumed that when I saw your username. "

If you smoked and claimed not to then we found out - which we would - when we'd taken rare free time out to meet you , we'd be more than just a little pissed off with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is very true think changing It may be a wise move but with add to information that it's a social like only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope - but no single man gets me

My hubby thinks you and I would look good writhing about together... Just had to say that sorry...!

why sorry ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like yet another single male can't take answers to questions hes asked. Sorry if it's not what u liked to hear. If u don't want the truth don't ask.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

It's a no from me sorry.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Ooookayyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I would to fab minx but not you op sorry ??"

Thank you kind sir. How did I miss this. I would also

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