FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Etiquette - Partner Change, Same Profile

By *ocalhero OP Man
over a year ago

london

Hopefully somebody will be able to give me advice here.

Earlier in year I met a "lady" through a normal dating website. Turns out she was seeing several other men including a married man, a man she met through this site and others without letting me know. Her behaviour in general borders on the sociopathic.

Anyway I found her profile on here and it turns out that she still has same profile started 5 years ago with recommendations. However it is obvious to me that the recommendations pre 2015 are with her then husband and post 2015 with the man she met through this website.

I assume it is not normal or decent behaviour to leave a partner for another without closing the origianl profile down and starting a fresh profile with the new partner. I think everybody reading recommendations has the right to know who they are dealing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hopefully somebody will be able to give me advice here.

Are you saying that it is her original couple's profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just report the profile, block and move on. It's not worth being so bitter about her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just report the profile, block and move on. It's not worth being so bitter about her

This

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By *ocalhero OP Man
over a year ago

london

Yes, it is original profile

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

The only profile you should ever worry about is your own.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

My profile was a couples profile for years until we split and admin changed it to a singles profile for me. I hide our joint veris as they aren't applicable as such - does that make me wrong too?

People do as they see fit bit I get what you are saying. If they are showing old verifications I think it's wrong to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it is original profile"

Then, if you feel it is important, you can report it.

On the other hand, you can move on and go about your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so long as the profile info is correct i don't see the problem?

you should block and move on though from this woman.

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By *ocalhero OP Man
over a year ago

london

Thanks for all the quick answers and advice. Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verifications for the original man wouldn't be true. So she should have started a new profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would choose someone else - who needs drama or baggage?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Block ... and ... NEXT !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Her behaviour in general borders on the sociopathic. "

Yikes, if we meet more than one man on more than one site we're a sociopath?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They arent recommendations they are verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you joined the site to keep an eye on her?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Block ... and ... NEXT !

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