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"I would delete a "hi" message .. If someone can't be bothered to put effort in then why should I be bothered to reply " What sort of effort are you expecting ?? | |||
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"I would delete a "hi" message .. If someone can't be bothered to put effort in then why should I be bothered to reply What sort of effort are you expecting ??" something to grab my attention, and show they have read profile. by sending one word shows they haven't.. plus it's dull dull dull | |||
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"I would delete a "hi" message .. If someone can't be bothered to put effort in then why should I be bothered to reply What sort of effort are you expecting ?? something to grab my attention, and show they have read profile. by sending one word shows they haven't.. plus it's dull dull dull " I think we are on the same wavelength | |||
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"I would delete a "hi" message .. If someone can't be bothered to put effort in then why should I be bothered to reply What sort of effort are you expecting ?? something to grab my attention, and show they have read profile. by sending one word shows they haven't.. plus it's dull dull dull I think we are on the same wavelength " Clever | |||
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"I would delete a "hi" message .. If someone can't be bothered to put effort in then why should I be bothered to reply What sort of effort are you expecting ?? something to grab my attention, and show they have read profile. by sending one word shows they haven't.. plus it's dull dull dull I think we are on the same wavelength Clever " | |||
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"I would delete a "hi" message .. If someone can't be bothered to put effort in then why should I be bothered to reply What sort of effort are you expecting ?? something to grab my attention, and show they have read profile. by sending one word shows they haven't.. plus it's dull dull dull " This!! Start a conversation, make it interesting. 'Hi, how are you' is dull and 'nice tits' is getting deleted too. If it's a couples profile, address them both - it's amazing how many guys don't!! | |||
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"You wanna suck my cock/take my heavy load/drain me/empty my balls really don't do it for me? Read my prof and make me laugh and you've got my attention " It is difficult to disagree with such basic and sensible wisdom. | |||
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"Lots of everyday day conversations are started with Hi-How are you.....So why is it so frowned upon on here?" Many people are of the opinion that just because messages are transmitted electronically, that they're delivered and read instantly. This applies to e-mails and text messages as well. When you're sending a message it's not a face-to-face or telephone conversation, so why treat it like one. I don't get nearly as many messages as the single women on here, but if I get a 'Hi' and nothing else, I don't even bother looking at their profile - I just hit delete. It's boring, dull and unimaginative and clearly shows that they haven't bothered to read even one line of my profile. As has been said so many times before on these profiles, there are some users who get inundated with messages/ The more successful ones, are going to be those that stand out 'Hi' doesn't | |||
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"Lots of everyday day conversations are started with Hi-How are you.....So why is it so frowned upon on here? Many people are of the opinion that just because messages are transmitted electronically, that they're delivered and read instantly. This applies to e-mails and text messages as well. When you're sending a message it's not a face-to-face or telephone conversation, so why treat it like one. I don't get nearly as many messages as the single women on here, but if I get a 'Hi' and nothing else, I don't even bother looking at their profile - I just hit delete. It's boring, dull and unimaginative and clearly shows that they haven't bothered to read even one line of my profile. As has been said so many times before on these profiles, there are some users who get inundated with messages/ The more successful ones, are going to be those that stand out 'Hi' doesn't" | |||
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"What works well for a first message? Obviously reading the full profile is a given, but would a short introduction to oneself will be appropriate, or just a quick 'Hi'? Thank you for your input. " In my experience of about a year now there is no such thing as an ideal first message, but yes It's hard to stay positive sometimes after a long time with nothing coming back. | |||
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"A short hello followed by a question. Something to reply to. Plus of course a pic. A clean pic" | |||
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"Anything that doesn't fill up the first line gets automatically deleted. Short question gets deleted. Something that makes me giggle in that first line would get me to check out the profile, and if that's good, I'd read the message fully. If that gives me a bit of personality and makes me laugh further I'd think about getting back to the messager. Face pics would pique my interest too. " | |||
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"What works well for a first message? Obviously reading the full profile is a given, but would a short introduction to oneself will be appropriate, or just a quick 'Hi'? Thank you for your input." You can't have a generic message you send to everybody. You have to tailor the message to the persons profile. Show in your message you have read the profile. Everyone is different. No matter what you type in your message some will like it and some will not like it. | |||
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