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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here a few months now and have been lucky enough to have had a couple of really great meets. I've read lots of posts about how difficult it is to get meets but having had a couple in a relatively short space of time thought I was doing good ok. However just recently I'm finding that despite nice polite and content rich messages I'm getting no replies, not even no thanks. Having felt I've reached a plateau I'm turning to my fellow forum friends for their comments, advice and opinions. Many thanks.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you 6 foot 7 or 6 foot 8?

Sally

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To an extent its luck of the draw I'm afraid. I can't see that you're doing much wrong if anything. I do like to see a smile though .

All I can say is keep on keeping on and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.

You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.

Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a variety of poses in the photos, but only one glum-looking expression in all. I hate having my photo taken, so I can sympathise, but you could do with a smiley couple of pics. Might help...good luck.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you 6 foot 7 or 6 foot 8?

Sally"

6ft 8

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all of your input, it is appreciated and I see what you're all saying.

Always struggled with smiling for photos its so unnatural to me. I will redo some though as it's important.

Thanks again everyone xx

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.

You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.

Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area. "

Very much this.

Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, try clubs!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.

You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.

Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.

Very much this.

Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ..."
this, plus reading profiles before sending a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.

You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.

Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.

Very much this.

Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... this, plus reading profiles before sending a message "

Always make sure I do this, never send just random messages. Still good advice though so thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, try clubs!"

Would love to try this. Anyone know any in the Portsmouth/Southampton area? Cheers

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.

You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.

Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.

Very much this.

Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... this, plus reading profiles before sending a message

Always make sure I do this, never send just random messages. Still good advice though so thanks."
you sent me a random message op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.

You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.

Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.

Very much this.

Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... this, plus reading profiles before sending a message

Always make sure I do this, never send just random messages. Still good advice though so thanks.you sent me a random message op "

How long ago? Defo wouldn't have been recently. Need to know what to write so always need to read profiles. Maybe I'll try messaging again? Hehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, try clubs!

Would love to try this. Anyone know any in the Portsmouth/Southampton area? Cheers"

There isn't! You will need to look further afield.

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