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By *exatoo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

Hey guys,

Hubby and I are new to swinging and just wanted to ask a question that we've been wondering. Before a play meet or party is it common to build up and not have sex/wank. We have our first play arranged for tomorrow and it's making me (Mrs) extremely horny and I can't help myself

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We don't tend to abstain before. If you are horny now just wait till after, we can't keep are hands off each other after a full swap meet x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I Edge several times in the days leading up to a meet, especially a group one

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By *exatoo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

I was thinking that myself, I'm so excited I could burst! I'm not staging anything in my head as I'm just going to go with the flow

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By *exatoo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

That's a good idea, hubbby won't have cum for a couple of days by tomorrow but I have to cum every few hours ATM

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Some of B's admirers "abstain" for a few days before a meet. Get some wonderfully filled condoms

But it isn't necessary to...

Sort of the more sex you have the more sex you are prepared for.

Also, as described in another thread - you don't have to ejaculate when swinging - you must give pleasure - but you can "finish off" into your partner

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By *heDevilsinthedetailMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I always make sure I cum earlier on the day of the meet so I can last longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest having sex with a condom with your wife and also wanking with a condom before you meet with a couple.

I can't tell you the amount of couples I've met that the husband goes limp when he has to use a condom.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I try not to wank the day before a trip to a club, just to give my cock a break, lol.

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By *exatoo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"We don't tend to abstain before. If you are horny now just wait till after, we can't keep are hands off each other after a full swap meet x"

You were right! We had an amazing first time and had to reclaim each other afterwards. Have discovered i absolutely love to watch hubby fuck another woman, am hoping I'll react the same when he's with another guy.

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By *exatoo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"I always make sure I cum earlier on the day of the meet so I can last longer"

We had sex together before the meet and it seemed to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the more i have the more i want so doing without makes no difference -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the more i have the more i want so doing without makes no difference - "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest having sex with a condom with your wife and also wanking with a condom before you meet with a couple.

I can't tell you the amount of couples I've met that the husband goes limp when he has to use a condom."

Interesting piece of advice, might have to try that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its upto you what you do

I do remember meeting a couple once though when i was married and they had stopped for a shag on the way to ours, my ex wasn't very pleased when he went to go down on her to get a face full of his cum

So maybe be mind full if you do have sex of who's got to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its upto you what you do

I do remember meeting a couple once though when i was married and they had stopped for a shag on the way to ours, my ex wasn't very pleased when he went to go down on her to get a face full of his cum

So maybe be mind full if you do have sex of who's got to follow "
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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

A couple I used to see on the site took the cuckolding quite seriously in so far as he was not allowed, by his own rules, to have sex with his wife,from the moment I booked the meet which could have been up to a week beforehand, until after the meet.

I think it sharpened his appetite for the post-meet sex they then enjoyed...

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