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Telling a new partner that your a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've recently started seeing an older women who is lovely and is definitely not a closed book when it comes to sex. I had told her I'd been to AbFabs before explaining what it is, getting more into things. She got the idea that I was a swinger, this is where I got a bit worried what she would think. But lucky she was fine about it, as long as I don't meet anyone behind her back etc.

I'd like to know what other people's experience has been telling a new partner. She is the first person I've ever felt comfortable telling about it because she is so open like myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say she knows already once you told her you went to a club? Ask her would she go another time with you.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

shaun, best you bring her to our next party..lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell people. To be fair, most of my friends know that I enjoy casual sex with casual partners and I mostly date people who are friends first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say she knows already once you told her you went to a club? Ask her would she go another time with you. "

I have asked her and she said she would go to one but not AbFabs as it's right next door to where she takes her Daughter Horse Riding, which I fully understand, so would need to think of another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be honest

But only if the relationship was going somewhere..not on a first few dates

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I would be honest

But only if the relationship was going somewhere..not on a first few dates"

So, not on a first shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be honest

But only if the relationship was going somewhere..not on a first few dates"

Like I've said she was the first person I've told as I knew how open minded she is, I've been with a couple of people who's mind it wouldn't even cross at all.

I didn't tell her straight away we've been seeing each other for about 6 weeks now and it's been the best sex I've ever had, in the real world and the swinging world

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I told Tina very early on and well, here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr told me about 3 months in that he had done this before and would I be interested .... And here we are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We both have very busy life's but I think she would enjoy it, especially from what she's told me about what she wants to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a virgin before I met Dorian so I've never had to tell anyone that I was a swinger.

He'd never done swinging before but wasn't a virgin so neither of us have had to tell anyone

~Mia

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