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By *oandjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Has any here had their kids finding out that you are swingers? How did the conversation go after they caught you out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have friends whose children know about their lifestyle. Itself not a problem for them except that every time they go out their children think they are swinging.

Its the friends of their children that are a problem, especially since some of them are on the site as well.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Has any here had their kids finding out that you are swingers? How did the conversation go after they caught you out?"
.. ihave ,3 grown up daughters that all know I was a single swinger. They even said I had a better social life than them . They also know I met del in a swingers club and have accepted him as family..my youngest does ask questions bout it still and she is 26 .. im glad they know qe have always been an open family . K

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I discussed my lifestyle with my daughter once I thought she was old enough. Better than her finding out accidentally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a workmate who told us that his parents swing...

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Maybe the wrong post for it but I told my dad I go to swingers clubs and not to tell any one and then next week I find out my mum and my brother know not that I mind but got a feeling he will say some thing at xmas and I may loose my rag with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

My daughter knows, I sat her down and explained that conventional relationships were not for me at the moment. She knows I am happy and safe. She also saw me in a very unhappy marraige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up. "

My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww I would be gutted and hope that they they never find out. There are some things you just don't want your children to know

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.

My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me."

What a bloody shame. We are doing nothing wrong & definitely not perverts. Well most of us aren't lol. We will tell our daughter if we are still at it in a few years. She's 15 at the moment

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I have a workmate who told us that his parents swing... "

Did you ask him what their Fab name was?

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

Our eldest (18) knows and has even baby sat for friends when we went out with them. As long as she doesn't get any details shes ok. She knows we have a Fab profile as she benefitted from the Love Honney discount when she wanted some thing. Our youngest 16 doesn't know but we'll be up front when she turns 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest does....but as far as I know hasn't told her sisters....all adults now and live up north near their mum (not sure if she knows, don't really care).

I've a friend on here who's older kids all know. Not sure about her youngest son. They know how I know their mum too. Eldest daughter has been and stayed a naughty weekend with me as a result. I even took her to Xtasia on her 21st. Her second daughter has introduced me to her friends at Butlins Minehead as a "family friend" when I went to visit her in summer.

Some people find it easy to be open with their children...some don't. I understand all sides of it.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Told my eldest (19) that we started hosting events at the club we go to and she said 'is it a swinging club?'

Silence

'Erm yes how do you know?'

'Saw T (OH) in the paper mum you went to swingfields yeah ? Just didn't know how to tell you'

Kinda like the fact I can walk out of the house dressed in my undies and no questions asked now hahaha

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

My kids found out as someone sent to my family on fb screen shot wasn't amuse but now don't know think it my private life

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

I don't know what ied do if my mum and dad came out and said they swing I think it may put me off it all together get rid of fab and stop going clubs just with that tiny chance ied ever see them or find their profile ied never risk it and pack it all in

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

One of us opened a parents computer to find a swinging site open a few years back. Still never been talked about to this day!

This was before we got into it, but always a little worried nowadays at the local social

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

My mom knows but hey shes my babysitter and my daughter shes only 8 but i think when shes old enough i would be open with her same as i would about being bisexual so if she ever had feelin she was lesbian or bi it would be easier for her to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We brought our kids up to be broadminded, they grew up as naturists,they have friends of all sexual preferences and colours and we've witnessed them arguing with bigoted people and have been proud.

But.

When we started swinging they asked where we were dissappearing to, and after the stuttered not quite tallying replies their radar was on full power.

One of them borrowed C's phone and there was Fabs and the cat was out the bag.

We've never been judgemental or overprotective with them and it seems to have paid off as though they are concerned about us they seem not unduly bothered,in fact seem pleased that we are still enjoying life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.

My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me."

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By *oggingslutWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never told my kids nor would i ever

My eldest are 23 and 24 and i think they know, they have said a few things in the past i feel is their way of letting me know they know but i just ignor the comments and make out they are going ovet my head

My eldest daugher did out right ask me once i just replied "the day we sit down and talk about your sex life we'll talk about mine" she hasn't asked since

I don't feel i need to tell my children such things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!"

And i also never get why some people think that all because you don't want others knowing your private affair its because your ashamed

I have no shame in meeting guys off here for sex but my children will always be my kids no matter how old they get and as their mother i have no intentions of discussing my sex life or when i meet men i fuck with them, i just dont feel for me thats appropriate

And that does not mean i have a bad relationship with my kids or that we are not close, its just not a subject i discuss with anybody

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!

And i also never get why some people think that all because you don't want others knowing your private affair its because your ashamed

I have no shame in meeting guys off here for sex but my children will always be my kids no matter how old they get and as their mother i have no intentions of discussing my sex life or when i meet men i fuck with them, i just dont feel for me thats appropriate

And that does not mean i have a bad relationship with my kids or that we are not close, its just not a subject i discuss with anybody"

100% this!

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!

And i also never get why some people think that all because you don't want others knowing your private affair its because your ashamed

I have no shame in meeting guys off here for sex but my children will always be my kids no matter how old they get and as their mother i have no intentions of discussing my sex life or when i meet men i fuck with them, i just dont feel for me thats appropriate

And that does not mean i have a bad relationship with my kids or that we are not close, its just not a subject i discuss with anybody

100% this! "

Us also

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By *alia2000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We have friends whose children know about their lifestyle. Itself not a problem for them except that every time they go out their children think they are swinging.

Its the friends of their children that are a problem, especially since some of them are on the site as well."

Jesus

Did they spot one anothers profiles?

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

All my kids know but then we are extremely open and it works for us

I started by saying I was going to a health spa (in my defence there is a jacuzzi and a sauna !! And there is an occasional massage and facial available ) but then my 14 yr old found my membership card and told me all about it they aren't bothered in the slightest especially as it's safer to go to a club than it is meeting men in a pub.

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By *alia2000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Older kids are no doubt on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have kids but I met a couple several times and was with them during the day on afternoon. She was sat on my face while sucking her hubby when thier 15 year old son walked in on us.

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By *ashgaMan
over a year ago

Berwick-upon-Tweed

What happened when she walked in

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Our kids are far too young to be told. No intention of telling them either.

I have never felt the need to disclose each time I do something. I know some people love to share every bowel movement or what they had for dinner on Facebook. For me the answer for when we go out is that we simply went out with friends.

That seems to answer most queries about our limited social life.

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

All my family know what and who I am including parents when they were alive. my personal belief is if your ashamed at what you do don't do it. don't push it in people's faces. Respect all around you in any environment. Be safe and enjoy

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I was chatting with a girl and the first time her and husband ever graced a trip to a club... after much 'building up courage' the first sight she was greeted with was her parents at the bar... luckily fully clothed.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I think you will get very different reactions from sons than daughters for mums. Daughters will tend to be more open about it but no son will want to know is that their mum has sex with randomers

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.

My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me."

How does she explain her reasons for not speaking to you, to her brother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my dads personalized number plate almost states what he is/was into he is now 80

its what his wife used to do to guys xxx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

My son and his gf know. I'd given him an old phone and there were still some pof and fab contacts in it.

He was cool about it.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"We have friends whose children know about their lifestyle. Itself not a problem for them except that every time they go out their children think they are swinging.

Its the friends of their children that are a problem, especially since some of them are on the site as well."

Eewwww.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I found out about Fab from a guy I was chatting to who knew his parents were swingers.

They had a couple profile and he had a single profile.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

My son knows.. only because he asks if I was working at a lap dancing club!! Because of the sexy outfits on the line one day!! I came clean with him and told him, but he is 22 years old!! And now we laugh when I found his mates online!!

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