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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it would seem many women are sick of dick pics on a man's profile? What's the verdict - to show or to not show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like you have already chosen!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like you have already chosen! "

I'm thinking maybe I should hide them - thought I'd see what the consensus is first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Hot has to see the cock pic as well as a face pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mrs Hot has to see the cock pic as well as a face pic"

So that's +1 to cock pics! Thank you

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Some like them, some don't. If you only send them to people that ask for them it seems to be win/win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the guy not the cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prefer the guy not the cock"

The likes of you are the exact reason I ask! No offence, thanks for your contribution ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cock pic is ok, just don't see why men need to post dozens of their cock from different angles.

I prefer to see rest of body and face.

Photos are supposed to show what you are all about and what you look like, not just broadcast the fact YES I HAVE A PENIS so use your photos to show your personality. Eg - photo of you at beach / somewhere fun

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

If a bloke messages me that only has cock pics on his prof I just think what a prick lol

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Cock pics show a lack of imagination

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I find them very much a turn off.

I know some ladies like them. Maybe it's best to either read her profile (outrageous suggestion), to see if she wants them, or message without, and offer another one at a suitable time.

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Some like them, some don't. If you only send them to people that ask for them it seems to be win/win."

Yep I'd go with this advice... have one or two on your profile but don't send until offered/asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattering nude photos that happen to have an erect penis as part of the whole package are fine. But if the pictures are not flattering then probably best cover up, and show pics that portray the person at his best. But individual body parts, look just that - body parts (IMO). I much prefer to see the person.

That being said it will always be my preference to not have to see a picture of a cock until the time comes for me to unwrap it. And that is a luxury I no longer get since using Fab! Besides it's not as though a picture of a cock gives any indication on whether the man in any good at pleasing a woman sexually.

Mrs

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"So it would seem many women are sick of dick pics on a man's profile? What's the verdict - to show or to not show?

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Not to show and no bathroom mirror shots , if asked for a dink pic send in a private message/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a bloke messages me that only has cock pics on his prof I just think what a prick lol "

Don't hold back will you! ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some like them, some don't. If you only send them to people that ask for them it seems to be win/win.

Yep I'd go with this advice... have one or two on your profile but don't send until offered/asked "

That's one thing I'm sure of - I would never just send a random cock pic to someone! I'm talking about cock pics on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it would seem many women are sick of dick pics on a man's profile? What's the verdict - to show or to not show?

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One and one only. And never next to an object.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it would seem many women are sick of dick pics on a man's profile? What's the verdict - to show or to not show?

One and one only. And never next to an object."

Very strange you say that - I counted 4 on your profile? So no objects but body paint ok? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer the guy not the cock

The likes of you are the exact reason I ask! No offence, thanks for your contribution ?"

The likes of me?? Care to explain??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prefer the guy not the cock

The likes of you are the exact reason I ask! No offence, thanks for your contribution ?

The likes of me?? Care to explain??"

I mean you are obviously not a massive fan of cock pics, your comments and many other comments on profiles/status' are the reason(s) why I'm asking about cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this site is full of dicks now, ironic but true,

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said just the one on your profile is fine IMHO, but try to make it classy if you can, not just the shaft sticking up from the middle of the pic with a loo or bedsheets as the background.

The profiles that make me laugh are the ones with 30+ pics of the same cock from different angles that don't show the body and invariably have backdrops of bathroom floors, loos, or bedsheets etc - there's only so many times you can look at a pic of the same cock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Don't really see any point in me having a dick pic on here

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

No do not show it save the best till last

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

No unless ask for

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If all they have are cock pics, I tend to think they are a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have them on my profile but i dont send a cock pic with a message towards a lady, bit rude just sending them, if she wants to see then i asume she will ask for one, just my opinion btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 but they are private, I don't even always send them when asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a bloke messages me that only has cock pics on his prof I just think what a prick lol

Don't hold back will you! ??"

I think you will find the majority of ladies feel this way. By all means attach if they ask but seriously why would you send an unsolicited cock pic or just have all cock picks on a profile? You're male. You have a cock. Big deal! We will ask to see it if we want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it would seem many women are sick of dick pics on a man's profile? What's the verdict - to show or to not show?

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Ignore them. Show what you want. Never did me any harm. The forum makes up a tiny fraction of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close up cock pics are, in my opinion, just a waste of time.

If you want to display your manhood show it in a pic of you. There are many tasteful, sexy pics of guys where we can see his cock in the picture. Now those can really make my tummy flip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it would seem many women are sick of dick pics on a man's profile? What's the verdict - to show or to not show?

Ignore them. Show what you want. Never did me any harm. The forum makes up a tiny fraction of the site"

It gets complained about outside the forums too. Most women (from couples profiles) whom we know personally on the swing scene find it a bit naff. But if men enjoy showing their dicks then crack on. I do completely understand - I enjoy showing my tits (but I'd put them away if that meant I'd be reducing already limited choices)

Mrs

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Read a few replies few double standards.....

How can you be totally sure that dick pic is guys genuine one or indeed been photo edited....

Then if its not OK to show cock pics of different angles why is OK for the ladies to show privates in different angles..

I,m not naturally blessed in that dept, as a single guy its tough enough to be noticed on here. I,m sure if were to post an image of my cock it would be greeted with ridicule and derision....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read a few replies few double standards.....

How can you be totally sure that dick pic is guys genuine one or indeed been photo edited....

Then if its not OK to show cock pics of different angles why is OK for the ladies to show privates in different angles..

I,m not naturally blessed in that dept, as a single guy its tough enough to be noticed on here. I,m sure if were to post an image of my cock it would be greeted with ridicule and derision...."

I would assume that woman who show close up genitalia would have no problem with men doing same.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also as single guy if you have Safe Sex ticked and have close ups fucking with no protection on, even if it of you and your ex girlfriend it does raise a few flags.

Parody dick pics are a good choice, ie seen many with a can of lynx, beer and remote controls. Not a fan of those but miniature Eiffel tower or big ben has got a good laugh out of us before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when starting out with messages a hint of what might be on offer is much better than staring at a close up.....so how about keeping the more explicit photos for friends only or keep in private and attach to a message once you have been better acquainted....that's what we prefer , m x

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