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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im very unsure whether or not this is a good way of trusting the people you you have chatted to to be genuine.

Just like chatting to a stranger on the phone,or seeing on film,a bit like seeing them on a television program it isn't same as actually meeting someone face to face

Can i be sure someone who leaves veris by cam is that genuine ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends what you mean by 'genuine.'

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

A genuine what?

A veri is just to prove the gender behind the profile, that the MF profile has both a M and a F attached to it, a fem profile is run by a woman and not Burt the hairy trucker.

Whether a person will turn up, suck like a Dyson or fuck you all night can never be guarenteed.....no matter what it says in their veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A genuine what?

A veri is just to prove the gender behind the profile, that the MF profile has both a M and a F attached to it, a fem profile is run by a woman and not Burt the hairy trucker.

Whether a person will turn up, suck like a Dyson or fuck you all night can never be guarenteed.....no matter what it says in their veris.

"

love that comment.

Still not verified have to find someone to help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive seen a new verification,by webcam,from someone who started to contact me recently,they then turned very nasty towards me,and same night left a glowing veri to someone i know,although these people havent met

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By *he_Raggedy_DoctorMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Sussex

I've noticed from time to time that some new members have been verified witnin a matter of hours with no mention of being on here before. Which is fine if someone has been on before how ever for me it becomes a bit suspicious when the verification has been hidden like they have something to hide If I can read the verification and see that the other person has met them before then its not so bad but for me its a bit fishy if you cant.

There is another question I would like to ask if I may and that's can too many verifications have a detrimental effect ? Ie put others off ? Or it a good thing ? I was just wondering as I have 11 myself which for a single guy is really good lol so I must be doing something right lol how ever could this put a lot of people off ?

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

It just means their a real person, doesnt mean theyll turn up to a meet.

If anything if someone has nothing but cam veris i give them a miss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe im trusting too much from somebodies verifications,and thinking they mean more than they do about someone other than being just a person on here with a computer and webcam

After all just because one person has a good verification from another doesn't mean im gonna get on with one or other of them...or them with me

Its just that im very cautious as to what holes i stick things in,and whats put in me and by whom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

webcam veris mean nothing ..and we take no notice of social ones too complete waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"webcam veris mean nothing ..and we take no notice of social ones too complete waste of time"

I must be totally fake cos I've got alot of social veris and had nearly 100 on my old profile. Good to know that being part of the scene is a complete waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive seen a new verification,by webcam,from someone who started to contact me recently,they then turned very nasty towards me,and same night left a glowing veri to someone i know,although these people havent met"

Then please....for the benefit of those that do genuinely meet....report them both!

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"A genuine what?

A veri is just to prove the gender behind the profile, that the MF profile has both a M and a F attached to it, a fem profile is run by a woman and not Burt the hairy trucker.

Whether a person will turn up, suck like a Dyson or fuck you all night can never be guarenteed.....no matter what it says in their veris.

"

bloody hell funny but true

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd treat in-person meets as more valuable than a webcam veri - but all at your own risk and not to be taken too seriously.

It's more important to do your own evaluation and validation, as far as possible, of the others. Consider getting someone with your minimal confidence, to chat with you live on cam, whether in the fab chatrooms, or offsite.

The benefit of a social meet first, rather than meeting at either party's home, is for a finer evaluation of them. You can usually suss someone out in person, better than if they're remote, on cam, phone or via text. You'll also probably have them recorded on public cctv, depending on the venue/area.

The simple checks that some people do are photo checks, where these are searched online, to see where they originate elsewhere, if they do at all. Obviously porn photos are obvious items that may have been copied.

Unless someone has met a close friend, who would give you feedback, then it's worth ensuring that the potential meets do whatever they can to build your confidence and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"webcam veris mean nothing ..and we take no notice of social ones too complete waste of time

I must be totally fake cos I've got alot of social veris and had nearly 100 on my old profile. Good to know that being part of the scene is a complete waste of time."

fake ??? did i say fake ??? waste of time yes fake no we all view veris to suit ourselves your a social /club person good for you ..we are not so yes to us a waste of time ..i said US lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really put much stock in any kind of verification to be honest. I've been left webcam and meeting in person veris before by men I've never spoken to who were using it as a way of getting my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"webcam veris mean nothing ..and we take no notice of social ones too complete waste of time

I must be totally fake cos I've got alot of social veris and had nearly 100 on my old profile. Good to know that being part of the scene is a complete waste of time.

fake ??? did i say fake ??? waste of time yes fake no we all view veris to suit ourselves your a social /club person good for you ..we are not so yes to us a waste of time ..i said US lol "

And thank fuck you aren't! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahahahahaha

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

Well I got accused of being a man tonite on cam???? Because I asked a man to come for me???? Apparently that's language a man uses

Told them im 100 % female & so can my play mates who Ave verified me in person.

That seemed to shut them up!

Cheeky gits

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