FabSwingers.com forum: Long time listener first time caller (profile advice)

By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

Good afternoon forum peeps..

Im looking for some advice / direction, having been on the scene on and off for over 20 years I am far from a noob, but my most recent revival seems a little dry... while im not blanket mailing every single female in a 100 mile radius (i know this happens) ive tried to pick ladies i would really like to connect with, some are reading my messages and looking at my profile but as yet no replies, not even one

I haveva reification from a couple that ive played with many times before and as couple, but im looking for some solo friends...

Is the M to F ratio that bad in the deep south west of the uk that statistics will prevent any replies or am i making a gash of my profile text / pics??

Any help / constructive criticism welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too bad but a bit beige. Bad spelling and grammar.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd suggest club visits, especially if you've been on the scene for 20 years, surely the easiest way back ??

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

"Not too bad but a bit beige. Bad spelling and grammar."

So a re-write in the first instance and sort of wording etc..

Much apreciated, thanks

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

"I'd suggest club visits, especially if you've been on the scene for 20 years, surely the easiest way back ??"

10yrs i didnt awaken till allong timeafter 19..

Clubs ive found clicky so not really got a huge experience there but have visited also did swingfields last year and looking forward to this. . Ill add this to the re-write.

Thankyou..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not too bad but a bit beige. Bad spelling and grammar.

So a re-write in the first instance and sort of wording etc..

Much apreciated, thanks

Up to you. Different people will have different opinions.

I am never impressed by profiles stating what people have said about you. I always think, "And what about the negatives?" Call me a cynic.

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

"Not too bad but a bit beige. Bad spelling and grammar.

So a re-write in the first instance and sort of wording etc..

Much apreciated, thanks

Up to you. Different people will have different opinions.

I am never impressed by profiles stating what people have said about you. I always think, "And what about the negatives?" Call me a cynic."

I hadn't thought of it like that.. very true, thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from saying you like curvy girls twice , it looks fine to us

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

I would of also suggest clubs but sadly where you are they are a little lacking.

although from my experience of club not really found the clicky side of it, just ask the hosts to show you around and possibly introduce you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There appears to be a hair line disparity. My advice is to make sure all your photos are recent ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There appears to be a hair line disparity. My advice is to make sure all your photos are recent ones. "

Well, there is that ...

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

Thanks all so far,

So I've done a full re-write with something that reflects myself a little more accurately.

Yes I need some fresh photos, current ones are a mix of new and very slightly older, just need to find someone to take them - selfies are not great I guessing?

If you have 5 mins to precis my fresh text I would really appreciate it.. TIA

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

"There appears to be a hair line disparity. My advice is to make sure all your photos are recent ones.

Well, there is that ..."

Point taken, while it bothers me it is what it is..

new profile picture on order

Thanks again..

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

would lose the parts about there being no scene down in the south west, just mention where you have been.

possibly the last m to f ratio part could come across as very slightly whingy.

Secrets is also spelt wrong.

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

"would lose the parts about there being no scene down in the south west, just mention where you have been.

possibly the last m to f ratio part could come across as very slightly whingy.

Secrets is also spelt wrong.

Dyslexia strikes again! fixed and suitably tweaked, while true you are right it could sound like a whine...

Thanks again..

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You say you prefer ladies trimmed. Judging by your pic you don't trim yourself.

Sally

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By *ourbedfriend OP Man
over a year ago

Liskeard

"You say you prefer ladies trimmed. Judging by your pic you don't trim yourself.

Sally"

Good point, i do trim and am trimmed now, out of interest is it important to reflect my personal likes (trimmed) in my own styling?

More recent (read fresh) pictures asap

Thanks sally really appreciate the feedback

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